Author: Han Mama Share
It's a pleasure to meet you again.
So, let's move on.
Last time we said that due to each other's inferiority, your life will be a mess, which can be said to be a miasma of smoke.
In fact, the person with inferiority has suffered too many grievances and pain in her heart, and no one can empathize with that feeling, and some are only her own silent deep experience.
Fortunately, in the end, she struggled out of the fog and suddenly became enlightened, and we should applaud her and support her bravery.
Dare to reflect on yourself, is already a new step, isn't it?
Today, let's talk about the cold violence that is the most common and hurtful when two people get along.
I believe that countless male and female friends, or between husband and wife, one party to the other, cold violence, is simply commonplace, not strange.
Sometimes a trivial matter can also make two people quarrel, vicious words, followed by the Cold War.
Sometimes, for a day, two days, it's hard to hold on.
Sometimes, three or five days, a week, are bitter.
Sometimes, even for a month, dead ducks have hard mouths and hold on to them.
If it takes a long time, it is estimated that you will have to say goodbye.
Really, the Cold War, the feelings for each other are very depleted.
Two people, both refuse to bow their heads and admit their mistakes, both think that the other party's fault is first, they are not wrong, why should they apologize, the question is, is it going on like this?
Is torturing the other person like this really the result you want? The answer is no, right?
Because, in the Cold War, you each did not sleep well, your mood was not in a state, and sometimes, you would do the wrong thing, which affected your work.
The family atmosphere has also become very bad, there is no place to relax and speak freely, the home is the warmest area in everyone's heart, and the result is cold and quiet, less talkative.
Probably like this, no one likes it, and they don't want to go home.
And that's not all.
During this period, the most injured is the child, when people are angry, the tone is blunt, the tone is like a command, and sometimes they can't feel it.
What an innocent child, he was the weakest person in the family, no one protected him, because Mom and Dad were angry, and in anger, he became the punching bag.
One will look at the father's face, one will look at the mother's face, the child's heart is panicked, unsafe.
However, in a family, husband and wife quarrel, cold war, not only the two sides are uncomfortable, not happy, the child is the most pitiful baby.
In the eyes of every child, Mom and Dad are the people he loves the most and hurts him the most.
Therefore, the child is particularly helpless, how I hope you reconcile as before, no longer quarrel.
People in every marriage know how hurtful quarrels and cold wars can be, and the gains outweigh the losses.
So, I began to reflect on myself, am I doing the right thing? good no good? Have I made any positive changes? to communicate this.
In this way, things have a chance to flip, and when a person begins to reflect on his own problems, the ending will not be too bad, right?
So, you start to take the initiative to talk to each other, chat, communicate, slowly you will find that I took a step back, really nothing, very worthwhile, very meaningful ah.
Unexpected surprises will follow, and the other party will also take the initiative to offer hospitality.
Are you sneaking joy in your heart, it turns out that things are so simple, but I have to be so stubborn, make each other exhausted, and hurt the pond fish, it is really elm head, directly shouting can not come.
In life, the person who is willing to bow his head first is not a weak person, but actually a strong person in his heart, a wise person, do you admit it?
Why not be a little confused in life?
I hope that in life, I will be more tolerant of others, less selfish and narrow-minded, and my life will be happy and happy.
Love, you have to say it, the other party will understand your intentions, you say?
Let's talk about it today, see you next time!
I am Han Ma, thank you for reading and appreciating, welcome to pay attention to the comments like, your encouragement will be my strength to continue to work hard!
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