Text\Dream walker
Many netizens said in the dynamic that Yang Mi has a passage that they appreciate very much. Some netizens said that this is a text that he most appreciates, although short, it is enough to prove that Yang Mi is a woman full of wisdom. Some netizens said that this passage is too feeling, and it is too desirable to live like this sober and simple state!
So, what did Yang Mi say that made so many people like and admire? Look at the picture --
To be honest, Yang Mi's words have a faint smell of chicken soup, which seems to be very reasonable and impeccable. In fact, each of us is also true, it is impossible to do everyone like, praise. However, is it because "I was not born for you", everyone does not even have the right to criticize and question?
I think that if Yang Mi's words are placed on an ordinary person, it is generally no problem. As long as he does not hinder others, how he lives is his freedom, and no one can laugh at or accuse him because he does not like him. Because you are not his food and clothing parents, and he is not living for you, why ask him to satisfy you?
Yang Mi is different. From the day she became a star, she was a person who lived on the stage, a celebrity with a certain spiritual symbol, a public figure who carried the moral expectations of many people and was looked up to by many people. Her every move may be insignificant and does not need to be considered, and many people are staring at her every word and deed, trying to draw nourishment from it, or consciously or unconsciously imitating it.
Therefore, for Yang Mi, there is nothing wrong with insisting on self. However, your persistence should also take into account the feelings of others. As an actor, you are responsible for your profession; as a star, an idol, you are responsible for your fans; as a public figure, you have a wider range of responsibilities. When you are criticized and accused of some deficiencies, can you ignore it on the pretext of not living for him, and still be me?
Since he has come to power, he must be prepared to accept criticism. As long as people's criticism is not illegal, you have to listen, and you have to listen calmly. If the inadequacies of a public figure cannot be said, then the inadequacies of ordinary people are even more incapable of speaking out? That way, there will be no more criticism in the world. But does a world without criticism mean progress, or degradation? I believe everyone knows this!
Some people are like this, enjoying the benefits of being a star and a public figure, and at the same time feeling full of grievances because they can't stand the criticism of the public – of course, I'm not saying Yang Mi, I believe Yang Mi is not such a person. I'm talking about a phenomenon, and it's not unique to stars.
Can't stand it, you can not do it, can you give up? You can completely not be a star, you can give up your identity as a public figure. In that case, when someone "speaks ill of you", you can justifiably sue him for slander and slander.
It's just that...... Are you willing?
2022.1.16.