Who can endure loneliness?

Author: Li Liushen

No matter what age you are, no matter how many people in ancient and modern China and abroad can endure loneliness, how many people can endure poverty?

The eldest son of my relative's family admitted to a well-known university with excellent results this year, and his relatives and friends praised it. Looking back on his daily life, in addition to eating, drinking and sleeping, he studied in obscurity. Whether at school or back home, few people discover his presence. Is this the daily routine of a high-achieving student?

Can he endure loneliness, and he can get a high score?

Some say, not necessarily.

I have two classmates, one is lively and cute, talking and laughing, and the other is getting up early and studying in obscurity. However, his grades always fail to catch up with the "timeless" classmate, you say, how can this be explained?

Therefore, being able to endure loneliness is not an inherent feature of the school bully.

Loneliness is everywhere, and it's no surprise that it's noisy. People just need to live in groups, and when they are alone for a long time, they will feel empty.

Do you know working couples? Do you know those who can't stand loneliness today?

There is a private school principal, his wife is at home to take care of children and the elderly, he is out alone "hard work".

What do you think it will be like?

When it was discovered that he often spent a lot of money on a woman, people observed that he had been raising a lover for a long time.

What about his soul? No need to ask.

When someone asks him why is this happening?

He said that the long night could not bear loneliness.

I have also chatted with working couples, and they have done their best, performed their duties, and taken their responsibilities.

What is a working couple? I don't think I need to explain too much.

After marriage, couples due to a variety of reasons, only one person to work in a distant place, for a long time away, can not be reunited with their lover. Working men and women who are together, whether it is the end of the world, as long as the smell is similar, they can form a working couple. They take care of each other and take what they get.

How many couples who have been separated for a long time absolutely endure loneliness? I'm just the one who collects some crap and wants to find a partner.

A co-worker once asked me that his wife often chatted with strangers at home and sometimes did not sleep in the second half of the night. He said, what should I do?

I said, is this strange? If you are out in the weeds, you are not allowed to talk to others? Why don't you work and live together?

The colleague smiled and said that there are elderly people and children in the family who need to be taken care of.

So, what does she think about when she's tired? Why not think differently?

He said we were just playing outside.

I said, your wife is not light at home, physically and mentally exhausted... When the old man is not around, when the children are sleeping peacefully, what does he think alone?

How should she feel on the long winter night?

Do you talk to her every day? Talk to her every day? With your meticulous care, will she still chat with others?

Since you are worried that your wife is out of the wall, you must live together.

He said, it's easy to talk about.

Yes, the elderly in the family need to be cared for, the children are still too young to work with you, in order to make a living, someone must earn money. In view of this situation, couples can not live together, whether from a psychological or physiological point of view, a normal person, a short period of time can still persist, a long period of loneliness will make people deteriorate.

So, when you're living the life of a working couple outside the home, don't blame your lover for chatting with someone else at home.

When you're out and about, don't complain that your lover can't keep his loneliness.