Donated by the big star Sun Li, Xiang Haiqing turned against his benefactor after going to college.
A long 6,000-word essay sent Sun Li to the cusp of the storm.
Xiang Haiqing, the story of the farmer and the snake, got Han Han's criticism that "others can't raise large dogs, why should Sun Li raise wolves in Shanghai".
How did he get into Sun Li's sight?
How did he make Sun Li, who is a star, choose to turn his face to him?
1 Xiang Haiqing was born in a mountain village and received funding from Sun Li for a show
Xiang Haiqing was born in a very poor rural family, his parents are farmers, and his income depends on the family's acres and three points of land.
In such a growing environment, entering the university to get ahead has become the biggest dream in Xiang Haiqing's heart.
By chance, he studied hard and was selected by Qiu Chaoju as a poor student to participate in the recording of "Boys Should Be Self-Reliant".
Xiang Haiqing in the program, as a simple rural child, showed the image of understanding and hard work,
His difficult study experience made Sun Li, who had been preparing for the filming of "Jade Guanyin" in the mountains, feel compassion.
She lived with her mother when she was a child, and her life was not very rich.
Perhaps the more people who have experienced pain, the more they can sympathize with the pain of others, Sun Li was deeply touched after watching the show, and immediately decided to fund Xiang Haiqing to realize his college dream.
She asked her mother to contact Xiang Haiqing and said that she would bear the cost of attending school with Xiang Haiqing.
When he first got the money sent by his benefactor, Xiang Haiqing was deeply moved, and his eyes filled with tears when he looked at the money, and this kindness from strangers became the light of hope in his life.
At that time, his heart was filled with gratitude for the benefactor.
With this money, there is no worries about the road to studying in Haiqing.
But in 2004, he took the college entrance examination and unexpectedly fell off the list.
After learning the news that Xiang Haiqing had fallen to Sun Shan, Sun Li's mother and daughter did not blame him, but called him and gently enlightened and relieved him.
Xiang Haiqing was comforted by Sun Li's mother and daughter and re-studied, and in 2005 he took the college entrance examination again, this time he was admitted to Shanghai Fisheries University.
He fulfilled his dream and embarked on the road to college.
2 Xiang Haiqing enters the university and knows that the person who sponsored him is Sun Li
Xiang Haiqing took a train to Shanghai, where a new life awaited him.
Shanghai, the cosmopolitan city known as the Magic Capital, must be full of dazzling lights and wine.
Walking out of the station in Shanghai, Xiang Haiqing met the benefactor who had been funding him.
She turned out to be Sun Li.
The big star standing in front of Xiang Haiqing made him trance for a while.
In a shocked mood, he hugged Aunt Deng closely beside Sun Li and cried uncontrollably. His dream of so many years has blossomed under the protection of these two women, and his excitement is overflowing.
Sun Li stood on the side and looked at this simple country boy with a smile, and his eyes were red.
Regaining his composure, he looked at Sun Li again, and it turned out that behind him stood such a bright and beautiful person.
The annual income of a star like Sun Li should be an amount that ordinary people can hardly reach in their lifetime.
At this time, this perception gradually distorted his concept.
Aunt Deng took Xiang Haiqing to Shanghai Fisheries University, asking about his recent situation along the way.
After arriving at the school and completing the enrollment procedures in detail, Aunt Deng instructed Xiang Haiqing: "Don't be too frugal in the school, the living expenses are not enough, then follow us."
This sentence sounded in Xiang Haiqing's ear, but it deviated from the original intention of Sun Li's funding. He felt that what he meant by this was that Sun Li was not short of money as a big star, and it didn't matter if he spent more.
After the start of the school year, Xiang Haiqing was appointed as the class president by the counselor, and the fresh and colorful campus life was full of endless fun in his eyes.
After that, he enrolled himself in the student council and experienced life as an administrator among the students.
In the first month of entering the student union, Xiang Haiqing's telephone bill reached a staggering 90 yuan.
Even now, few college students can afford to pay 90 yuan, let alone more than a decade ago.
This strange phenomenon attracted the attention of Sun Li's mother and daughter.
Sun Li's mother and daughter believe that Xiang Haiqing cannot lose the virtue of frugality by having their own support, so that their support will lose its original meaning.
Aunt Deng called Xiang Haiqing at this time and asked him about his situation at school and the reason for the sharp increase in phone bills.
Xiang Haiqing explained that he had just entered the student union to contact many students, and the high cost of phone calls was inevitable.
Such an inquiry embarrassed Xiang Haiqing, who thought that 90 yuan was nothing at sun li, and that calling him at this time was just not to let himself spend more money on them.
He even felt that Sun Li's mother and daughter looked down on him as a poor child, and asked: "Is a poor child not qualified to be a cadre of the student union?"
In this incident, Xiang Haiqing ignored a truth.
He ignored that the help given to him by sun and daughter was unpaid, and that no request for help should not be blamed for any reason.
After this, Sun Li's mother and daughter did not take this matter to heart, and still sent living expenses to Xiang Haiqing at 500 yuan per month on time.
The turning point took place in September.
3 Xiang Haiqing, who concealed the facts, was interrupted from funding and chose to bite back
Xiang Haiqing called Sun Li to say that the cost of living was gone, and he wanted Sun Li to send money again.
He said he spent 175 on the hepatitis B vaccine this month, meaning that it is very reasonable to spend all living expenses now.
Sun Li's mother and daughter sensed that something was wrong.
They called the counselor who was then xiang Haiqing to find out about the situation.
Only then did he learn that Xiang Haiqing's financial resources in the school were not only Sun Li's mother and daughter, he had an income of 300 yuan per month as a part-time counselor assistant at the school, and he also applied to the school for 6,000 yuan of financial aid.
Just these two things, he has a source of nearly 1,000 yuan per month, plus the 500 yuan provided by Sun Li's mother and daughter every month, and his monthly living expenses are as high as more than a thousand
More than a thousand a month is not less now, let alone more than ten years ago.
Xiang Hai even said from time to time that his living expenses were not enough.
Thinking about it, Sun Li decided to suspend the funding for Xiang Haiqing.
If his own funding has become a hotbed for Xiang Haiqing's pleasure, then what is the meaning of this funding. 500 yuan is indeed not much for a star, but it will become a weapon to wear down a person's morale.
The living expenses that were fixed every month were gone, and the tuition fees were no longer paid, so Xiang Haiqing panicked and began to call Sun Li.
But after calling, he was transferred Chinese the secretary desk.
At this time, Xiang Haiqing developed a grudge against Sun Li's mother and daughter, and Sheng Mi'en and Dou Mi's hatred were vividly reflected in him.
It just so happened that Qiu Chaoju, who had contacted him to shoot "Boys Should Strengthen Themselves", came to inquire about xiang Haiqing and Sun Li's mother and daughter.
Xiang Haiqing grievanced that soon after he entered the university, Sun Li's mother and daughter cut off their support for themselves.
In order to condemn this female star who suddenly interrupted funding,
He wrote a long letter of more than 6,000 words about his poor experience.
Inside and outside the words is that he is weak and deceitful as a poor rural child, and Sun Li, as a big star who has turned his hand over to the clouds and covered his hands for the rain, oppresses him everywhere.
In the letter, he wrote that his only mistake was that he was too simple and simple, so he would be bullied by Sun Li's mother and daughter.
He said that he was a very sensible child, in Shanghai, a place where land was scarce, the school did not have a canteen, and 500 yuan a month had to take out 400 yuan for food, which was already very economical.
In order to alleviate the pressure on Sun Li, he also chose to go to work-study.
What about the money earned from part-time work? He said his mother had been sick and had sent it home herself.
Every sentence of the letter seems to be reasonable, but there are logical misunderstandings.
Sun Li, as a well-wisher who funded him free of charge, originally had no obligation to bear his life.
If there is no grandson, his mother's illness, living expenses, and tuition fees should be borne by himself.
Why did he spend other people's money to send his salary to his mother, and his words became a sensible act?
Word by word, this letter earnestly talks about his own understanding, about the difficulty of life in Shanghai, and about Sun Li's turning over face like turning over a book.
He not only expressed his doubts about Sun Li's face-turning behavior, but also lamented that he did not blame Sun Li's sister because she had helped himself.
But if there is no blame, where are the accusations and doubts? Xiang Haiqing's speech has a special word to describe in today's network environment, that is, "green tea".
I don't blame you when I say it, I blame you every word.
Xiang Haiqing's letter was posted by Qiu Chao on his Tianya blog.
The protagonist is very easy to guess, and Sun Li, who was already popular with "Jade Guanyin" at that time, was quickly displayed in front of netizens.
Suddenly, many media have reported on this matter, and BBS and blogs have entered the whirlpool of public opinion.
Sun Li caused a lot of discussion on the Internet, and all kinds of negative effects came pouring in.
Netizens' malicious slander and speculation are overwhelming, and some people even say that Xiang Haiyang is Sun Li's illegitimate son, she does not dare to admit it, so she can only raise him in the name of funding.
Bizarre statements abound on the Internet.
But she never chose to speak out, and when the rumors violently condemned her, she chose to silently devote herself to public welfare, so that the matter slowly lost its heat.
At this time, if she stood up to talk about this matter, Xiang Haiqing would be spread out under the flash of the media.
Then he will live under the attack of netizens and lose his normal life.
Sun Li was obviously reluctant to do so.
Although he was hurt, although his career was severely damaged, although he took on the crime of not belonging to himself.
She still wanted to protect the child she had helped for many years, so that he would not be scolded in the spotlight.
What he can bear as a star, Xiang Haiqing as an ordinary person may be completely intolerable.
Sun Li's kindness was exchanged for the rumors.
What she didn't know at the moment was that
The turning point of the matter was in the teachers and students who got along with Xiang Haiqing.
4 The truth came out, Xiang Haiqing was verbally criticized, and it was difficult to find a job
Xiang Haiqing's classmates and teachers could not see how things were developing, and they stood up to tell the facts they saw.
In the words of his classmates and teachers, Xiang Haiqing has a completely different look from his own narrative.
Xiang Haiqing not only did not have any inferiority complex for his identity as a poor student and was supported by others, but also very proud.
Because the person who sponsored him was the famous big star Sun Li.
He always consciously or unconsciously shows off to his classmates that his sponsor is a household star, and he satisfies his sense of superiority under the curiosity of his classmates.
It is different from what was originally told in a long article to Haiqing.
In xiang Haiqing's mouth, Shanghai Fisheries University has a canteen and the price is cheap, not at all like he said that 400 yuan a month is enough to eat.
And Xiang Haiqing spends a lot of money in school, not at all like a poor student, but like a rich child.
He once took his girlfriend to Shanghai to play, and the cost of his girlfriend for 6 days was all covered by Xiang Haiqing himself.
6 days in Shanghai, the cost can be imagined.
If he really is a grateful, thrifty and simple child as he describes, he will not take the bursary, take the love donation to squander, and give himself face.
Previously, Xiang Haiqing had asked Sun Li's mother and daughter for money because he wanted a new mobile phone, and the money sun Li gave him was only enough to buy an ordinary mobile phone.
Xiang Haiqing couldn't look at the basic mobile phone, he wanted the latest model, so he took out the money in his hand as a subsidy to buy the mobile phone that was not owned by many people on the Shanghai campus at that time.
He regarded sun and daughter as his inexhaustible cash machine and did his best to ask for it.
After Xiang Haiqing's behavior was exposed, he was criticized by netizens.
In school life, it was difficult for him to raise his head.
Even after leaving school and entering the society, his well-known history has made many large companies avoid him.
Xiang Haiqing not only did not get the help of Sun Li's star aura, but instead became difficult to move.
Cold-eyed, he left the dreamy imagination and walked into the cold reality.
If he had studied hard with a grateful heart, he would have faced the efforts of others to him.
Today, living with the help of Sun Li, I may already have a happy and satisfying life.
The cycle of cause and effect, good and evil are rewarded, and the cause he planted yesterday is the result of today.
I hope that he will understand the truth of this in the future and be a person who knows how to be grateful.
This encounter can also be said to be a moral lesson given to him by society.
epilogue:
Since ancient times, China's culture has been teaching us that the grace of dripping water should be repaid by gushing springs.
Sun Li's helping hand to Haiqing when he is about to drop out of school is undoubtedly a friendship in the snow.
And Xiang Haiqing is lost in materialism and money, and takes the gratuitous payment of others to himself as a matter of course.
It is to lose gratitude and become a slave to greed.
This erroneous idea deprived him of the help and kindness that he had put on him, and the ability to be an adult who was responsible for himself.
The moment the dream of prosperity and magnificence was shattered, I hoped that he would see clearly how to be a grateful person.