Love, originally, is insignificant.
In fact, love itself is only an energy flowing, flowing like sunlight, air, and river, just passing, happening, celebrating, without any meaning that can or needs to be explained, and there is no preciousness to speak of. What you need to respect is not love, but that person, each other! People often forget to respect each other, and have some kind of "calculator" in their hearts, calculating the price of love. But "no love can stand up to counting or calculating!"
Love, which was originally insignificant, ordinary, and ordinary, can only happen, dare to happen, can make people full of love, and can be sprinkled with love in the world. Love is as ordinary as rain. And reality? Many people have a fixed belief implanted in their hearts: "Pursue sacred love, precious love!" "The result? You don't know what you are, what precious you are, when your love becomes a treasure, your love surpasses you for no reason, more valuable than you, more precious, even greater, sacred, great! Although you are nothing, you say with a straight face: My love is strong, high and shocking, inviolable! Your love makes people look sympathetically and supportively.
At this time, you forget yourself and only divine love remains!
Such love is transcendent.
Love, a shadowless and invisible thing, has been so much mythologized by generations of literati and inkers that it has become as precious as a jewel. People are implanted with a deep-rooted idea that love is so precious, can not be given casually, can not be easily given to others, must be assessed, reviewed, researched, investigated, and even used time to prove - slowly consume each other, never easily trust, before the investigation is not fully completed, the love must be careful and cautious, so as not to be deceived, so as not to pay the reward, so as not to suffer pain.
"Love is so precious," such a mantra, has become a shackle, forcing every life to struggle there, to calculate and tangle there. Suffering is something like, simply put, giving that can't be rewarded as expected. Usually few people dare to directly say "paid money, want to have reciprocal returns", "paid time, want to have a statement!" What people often say is, "Give love." ”
Your entanglement is almost predestined, and you are forced to play the role of God and judge, to examine whether everyone is worthy of your love, even the slightest effort of love must be reviewed, and love is given a sacred color.
Love becomes so heavy that the beloved is like carrying a mountain, to pay off this debt! This not-so-light debt is harder to repay than money, because without a pricer, without a balance, you can't know how much the "love" you inexplicably receive is worth! You can't seem to pay it back, you have to pay off your debt for life, and if you stop halfway through, you can immediately go from "Sweetheart, Darlene, Baby, Cute, MY Dear, MY Heart" to "Liar, Negative Person, Hateful". You have no idea that when people smile and squint at your "love", there are so many definitions, pricing, requirements, opinions hidden behind them!
Love, and so it happens.
People claim that love is precious, is love really so precious?
In fact, people say that love is precious just in exchange for a high return. Those who are reluctant to give love to others, they are waiting for a good or reliable person, waiting for a person who is worthy of this love! If this is the case, you must be careful of that "love", whether that "love" is parents, children, colleagues, leaders, husbands and wives, that love is too expensive, you can not pay it back in your lifetime. Many people have not lived a good life in their lives, they are paying off debts, they dare not pay back - they tie love to "morality" and can smash you to death; they say "love" as sacred and great, and become a bargaining chip for the price.
True love is ordinary. Love becomes a smile, a gift, a care of fate, a kind gaze, an occasional thought, a flower that can often bloom or wither, a round of sun that can rise or fall! Nothing is remarkable, everything comes with fate, goes with fate. Love does not ask for anything in return, love is so ordinary and ordinary. Love, not a precious gift, but happens naturally, as cheap as lightning, as random as a thunderstorm, and you don't need to beg for love!
Some people, hard to give love an explanation, and then put themselves into it, and then put people related to themselves into it, so a lifetime, a group of people, busy for love to unwind! Such a boring thing, many people are willing to fight for it all their lives, wait, expect, but are not willing to take it out, just send it out. People struggle to find someone to match this love, and finally find that the love is zero.
Love is too scarce, so some wise people began to write, publish books, talk about the importance of love, the greatness of love, the meaning of love, love has almost become the only thing that should exist on the earth, so that people know how to cherish love more! The intention may be good, but the consequence of giving love this definition is that people care too much about their love, which is counterproductive, and love becomes scarce.
The heavenly path is natural, originally ordinary, deliberately rendered, and finally distorts the nature of love, and love becomes so heavy. I can't move it! Can't afford it! I can't take it!
If you live and tangle, untie the set for love and restore it as it is.
Love is not a debt, you don't have to live too helplessly for it!
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