Author: Dai Rui Produced: Marriage and Family Magazine id: hunyinyujiating99
Nine years ago, there was a video that touched countless people.
It was a cancer-stricken mother who, when she learned she had only 3 months left, recorded a wedding video for her two-year-old triplet daughter 20 years in advance. The mother's name was Li Shu.
Now, 9 years later, how is she doing?
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For the sake of my daughter, I want to live
Before giving birth, Li Shu was no different from all his peers: going to school, working, and later meeting her husband Wang Jiongsen, and the two fell in love and got married. Until the doctor told her she was pregnant with triplets.
In 2010, Li Shu was born prematurely and suffered heavy uterine bleeding. Weak, she lay in the emergency room for three days and three nights, and the ghost door closed and turned around. Finally, in exchange for a chance to be a mother, she had her uterus removed.
The loss and recovery are the most precious.
Every day, looking at 3 cute little faces that are exactly the same, Li Shu's heart is incredibly soft, and she wants to give them all the beauty in the world.
Comb the cute ponytail for 3 babies every day.
Wear nice little skirts.
Cook them delicious meals and serve them in 3 identical small bowls.
It is said that it is hard to take children, but What Li Shu feels the most is happiness. Whenever the 3 little guys followed them upside down and shouted "Mom", Li Shu's heart was about to flow out of honey. "When someone else raises a child, there is a share of happiness, and I have 3 children, and my happiness is multiplied by 3."
However, all this beauty came to an abrupt end on a sparse and ordinary day.
At the beginning of 2013, Li Shu felt abdominal pain, her husband accompanied her to the hospital for examination, unexpectedly found a stomach adenocarcinoma, and metastasized to the liver, life may only be 3 months left!
"I clutched the diagnosis book tightly, gritted my teeth, and when I thought of my daughters, the tears could no longer be stopped." The husband held Li Shu's hand and choked up to comfort her: "Wife, don't be pessimistic! You see, we have triplet daughters, such a jackpot can be won, there is no bad luck can not pass! ”
Yeah, the daughters are still so young, only two years old, they need their mothers, "I'm going to try to live!" ”
Li Shu gradually accepted the reality and began to share his anti-cancer journey on the Internet, and uploaded his situation to Weibo every day.
"I want to give them more memories of their mothers, and when they grow up, they know that their mothers have worked hard for their lives." At the suggestion of his girlfriend, Li Shu recorded the video mentioned at the beginning for his daughters in the ward.
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The years pay off
Happily, Li Shu's tumor resection surgery was relatively successful.
But then, there's the harder chemotherapy. Again and again the pain was convulsing, and again and again vomiting until he was paralyzed, "It was really painful." But I always have a thought in my heart, I am the mother of 3 babies, I must not leave them so easily, I must win this war! ”
"Babes, Mom is back." Every time he went home after chemotherapy, it was Li Shu's happiest time. She looked at the child's innocent and lovely appearance, and her heart was full of hope.
Physical torture is on the one hand, and the gaunt face and hair loss after chemotherapy are a kind of mental torture for Li Shu, who loves beauty. That day, she and her husband were invited to Lu Yu's show, and she was a little uncomfortable because of hair loss.
On the day of recording the program, the husband suddenly took off the hat on his head and looked at Li Shu affectionately: "Isn't it just hair loss?" It's okay, I'll accompany you. "It turned out that he had secretly shaved his head." At that moment, my heart 'clucked' and I just wanted to cry. ”
Li Shu said: "In the past, I would feel that he was not romantic and considerate enough, and sometimes I would blame him. After I fell ill, I realized his sincerity to me. ”
Because he had to raise 3 babies, the economic burden was relatively heavy, Wang Jiongsen came out early and returned late every day, "Before, our words were really quite small. But after I got sick, he was like a changed person, often chatting with me and listening to me patiently. ”
Every evening, Wang Jiongsen would accompany Li Shu to ride a bicycle around the ancient city of Langzhong to exercise. At the beginning, Li Shu could only ride a short distance, and Wang Jiongsen waited while riding, telling her jokes from time to time.
The sunset stretched the shadows of the two people very long, and whenever this happened, Li Shu would think of the word "heaven and earth for a long time". Sweetness is not the yardstick of love, and difficulty reflects the preciousness of love.
Wang Jiongsen said: "In the past, I felt that men had to earn money to support their families, so they were always tired of running for their lives; now, it is the most important thing to feel that the family is together. ”
Probably to see the father to the mother meticulous care, 3 babies are also very well-behaved and sensible, small age to know to understand the mother, no matter how far to go out will not want the mother to hug.
As soon as the kindergarten ended, the 3 little children gathered around their mothers and competed to sing her newly learned nursery rhymes and dance the dance of "three little pigs".
Once, while dancing, Miwa accidentally touched the tube inserted in Li Shu's body, and the other two babies quickly pulled her over, "Mother is afraid of pain." They told Miwa "seriously" word by word.
Miwa quickly ran to Li Shu's side, "Mother, I will help you blow, blowing will not hurt." The two dolls also helped their mother blow away the pain.
Perhaps it is the years that do not pay off, every time I go to the review, the doctor is relieved to tell Li Shu, "The cancer cells have not metastasized and have not recurred." ”
Whenever he heard this news, Li Shu would breathe a long sigh of relief, "How come I suddenly have a feeling of being very profitable?" It's nice to be with them for an extra year. ”
For her, every extra day of life is earned, so she cherishes every day of being alive more than ever. "I have to thank this disease for making me understand what is the most important thing in my life."
Li Shu said, "When I first got married, I often had a cold war with my husband because of trivial matters, and the two could not talk for several days in a row. And now, no matter how busy we are at work, we will set aside some time for each other. We sat happily together and talked and it felt like we were back in love. ”
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To live a day, you have to experience life
"In this world, except for life and death, the rest are small things." This is a sentence that Li Shu often said after she fell ill, and it is this sentence that makes her live peacefully in the present.
As long as her body is not too uncomfortable, she insists on doing things on her own. She would cook for the family, make a cup of tea after dinner, sit in the warm sunshine and read a book; or go for a walk, go shopping, watch a movie with three or five friends...
Later, Li Shu also began to try to pick up his daughter to school. Every morning, she dressed the three little ones in the same clothes, tied the same braids, and carried the same small school bags on their backs, and sent them to school.
Before picking up the children every day, Li Shu had to put on beautiful clothes and makeup for herself, "I want the dolls to feel that although her mother is sick, she is still beautiful and upward." ”
Li Shu's illness cost a lot, and the family's economy was not as good as before, but when she saw that her daughters liked music, she still enrolled them in piano classes.
She said: "Money can be saved when it is tight, and it is difficult to get it back when happiness is lost." Letting children learn piano does not require them to be able to achieve more in the future, but only hopes that they can find some fun in ordinary life. ”
Every day, Li Shu will accompany his daughter to practice the piano, watching 3 pairs of small hands flying on the black and white piano keys, listening to a beautiful piece of music, Li Shu will feel a kind of vitality of life.
After his body recovered a little, Li Shu returned to work. The mothers in the community saw that she was working again and felt incredible.
Li Shu said: "I want to work, on the one hand, I want to increase some income and reduce the burden on my husband; on the other hand, I want my daughters to understand that when people live one day, they must reflect their social value." ”
Although Li Shu tried her best to hold up a clear sky for her daughters, she also understood that she had to face reality.
She said: "I really hope to be with them all the time, to see them go to college, work, put on their wedding dresses... However, I had to make other plans in advance. ”
Therefore, no matter how much he loves them, Li Shu will not accommodate them without principle, but use some small wisdom to exercise their independence. Every year when she goes to Chongqing for a review, the children will be particularly reluctant to her.
Once, she was packing her clothes in the room, and when she looked back, the 3 little ones were in tears, she thought about it, put her arms around them and gently asked, "Baby, do you like to take a vacation?" "Like." "Well, Mom likes it too, so Mom wants to give herself a few days off, okay?"
Thinking of his mother's usual hard work, the 3 little guys nodded their heads in unison, and Li Shu immediately said: "On the days when your mother is not at home, you must learn to take care of yourself, do your own things, and your mother believes that you can do it!" "The 3 daughters competed to high-five their mother.
Now, in addition to regular review, Li Shu's life is no different from ordinary people, or even more exciting. Cheerful, she has a variety of hobbies and also plays on "vibrato".
Between work, she accompanied the cheerful melody of "Seaweed Dance" and danced a section of soft gestures, which not only relaxed the mind but also exercised the body. Sometimes she was jumping and a colleague suddenly came in, and she didn't care, made a grimace, and continued.
Back home, Li Shu also took his daughters into the camera together: "Can't wait for the Gemini meteor shower to sprinkle the sky, first light nine fairy sticks instead..." The 3 little guys danced a gesture dance under the accompaniment, and the laughter of the family drifted far away.
Many people think that Li Shu is now more beautiful and more moving than before he was sick, and in this regard, Li Shu said: "In the past, I belonged to the dolls who grew up in the greenhouse and did not experience any setbacks; after I fell ill, I learned many things. Although the body is sick, the vitality of life is stronger, and this kind of strength may change the temperament. Maybe this is what is called the birth of the heart! ”
"These everyday bits and pieces are more important than the things that can't be thought of."
Life is impermanent, and it may come to an abrupt end at any moment, but as long as there is every such moment, it is eternal.