The manuscript is from "Urban Love"
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Tu Lixia, 31 years old, has been pregnant with her second child for more than 8 months, and she and her husband Yang Yun founded a mother and baby products company in Nanchang City, Jiangxi Province. In order to take care of his wife and children, Yang Yun invited his mother Li Laidi, who was far away from his hometown in Ganzhou, to help. Unexpectedly, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have great differences in both parenting concepts and living habits.
After only 10 days of getting along with his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Yang Yun said that the collision between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was completely beyond his imagination. It turned out that in the case of Tu Lixia's low-grade fever, her mother-in-law Li Laidi used folk remedies to kill a chicken and then take out the chicken bile for her to eat, saying that it could cure a cold. And Tu Lixia looked at the raw chicken bile and couldn't accept it. Afterwards, she checked the information to show her mother-in-law, and some folk remedies were untrustworthy, had no scientific basis, and even had a counterproductive effect. But the mother-in-law repeatedly stressed how good the efficacy of raw chicken bile is. Because Tu Lixia's words were more fierce at that time, and Yang Yun remained silent in order to avoid greater contradictions, Li Laidi felt that her son's status in the family was very small and he had no right to speak.
And then Li Laidi's behavior stimulated the contradiction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Two days later, Tu Lixia's daughter suddenly had a stomachache, and Li Laidi took out the mimosa she had brought from the countryside and prepared to soak water for her granddaughter to drink, saying that she could stop diarrhea, and she confidently told her daughter-in-law that this was her tried-and-tested earthwork, which could really cure the child's illness.
But Tu Lixia has inquired about the efficacy of mimosa, mainly heat and detoxification, the nature of the cold, she thinks that the child is originally diarrhea, and then eat cool things will aggravate the disease, so she still does not agree with the mother-in-law's earth, turn around and pour the soaked medicine. This time, li laid out her mother-in-law Li Laidi, who immediately brought out a large bag of herbs she had brought from her hometown, and wanted to talk to Tu Lixia about her earthworks.
In the countryside, Li Laidi's earthenware was handy, and Li Laidi was even more convinced of their efficacy. However, when it came to his daughter-in-law Tu Lixia, Li Laidi repeatedly ran into a wall, and Li Laidi, who was frustrated in his self-confidence, felt that his daughter-in-law could not look down on not only Tufangzi, but also his own rural mother-in-law, and as time passed, the friction and differences between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law became more and more intense. A portrait of a boy posted by Li Laidi on the wall has triggered a new contradiction between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because Li Laidi always hopes that her daughter-in-law can have a grandchild, but this also pokes Tu Lixia's pain point. Two days later, an incident caused the long-suppressed dissatisfaction between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to completely explode.
Li Laidi accompanied Tu Lixia to the hospital for obstetric examination, during the obstetric examination, Li Laidi has been asking the doctor whether the belly is her grandson, which makes Tu Lixia feel very uncomfortable, she thinks that in the eyes of her mother-in-law, she is a tool for giving birth to a boy. After returning home, the parenting contradictions between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, the contradictions of the concept differences, completely broke out, and a fierce quarrel occurred. In the end, the mother-in-law Li Laidi ran away from home in a huff and moved to a relative's house in Nanchang, and the war between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law made Yang Yun, who was in the cracks, embarrassed. In order to resolve this family crisis, Yang Yun asked the program team to help mediate.
Yang Yun stressed that he and his wife have been married for 4 years, and his mother and wife have never lived together, because they do not understand each other, which triggered this contradiction. After understanding the origin of the matter, the reporter decided to start with her mother-in-law Li Laidi to resolve this family crisis, and Yang Yun took the reporter to find his mother.
In the face of reporters, Li Laidi told her grievances, in her opinion, everything she did was for the good of her daughter-in-law. However, Tu Lixia's various performances made her chill. In order to let Li Laidi understand her daughter-in-law and lift the misunderstanding, the reporter decided to take Li Laidi to the place where Tu Lixia works to have a look, so that her mother-in-law can understand the most real Tu Lixia.
Tu Lixia is a baby products company, which itself has a more professional parenting knowledge, and she often uses the network live broadcast, is a quite influential Internet red pregnant mother, many mothers will ask Tu Lixia when they encounter problems, and Tu Lixia often studies scientific knowledge in this area to help more mothers solve problems. Tu Lixia admitted that her understanding of her mother-in-law's original intention is good, she is not not unacceptable to her mother-in-law, but does not approve of the mother-in-law's first thought of every time she encounters a problem, which may have a counterproductive effect.
After seeing her daughter-in-law pregnant and still busy in the company, Li Laidi was also distressed. After knowing the reason why Tu Lixia did not accept her own earthwork, Li Laidi's mood was obviously relaxed a lot, and the knots in her heart seemed to have disappeared a lot. Tu Lixia originally had a good family, since following Yang Yun, she has suffered a lot, she did not abandon it, and persisted with Yang Yun all the way. Thinking of this, Li Laidi realized the true feelings of her son Yang Yun and Tu Lixia, and she knew that for this small family, the original daughter-in-law also paid a lot.
Li Laidi finally let go of her emotions, took the initiative to reconcile with her daughter-in-law, and apologized to her daughter-in-law, she admitted that boys and girls actually like it, and it is good to be healthy and healthy. She said that in the future, she will respect her daughter-in-law's decision, and she will learn more if she does not understand it. And Tu Lixia heard this red eyes, she understood that she had been too impulsive before, said sad words, she said "sorry" to her mother-in-law in a serious voice, and gave her mother-in-law a hug. In fact, at the beginning, there was only a misunderstanding between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, both sides were for the sake of this family, for the good of the child, and now the gap between the two has finally been eliminated, and when Tu Lixia successfully gives birth to the baby, the family will have more laughter.