First of all, to be clear, humor is not the same as funny.
Baidu's explanation of humor is: "Humor, described as funny or ridiculous and meaningful." ”
The explanation for the funny is: "Deliberately make some moves or make some ridiculous remarks to make people laugh, in order to achieve the purpose of being funny and poor." ”
Obviously, according to the logic of the lady, humor seems to be more advanced than funny, and funny is to rise to the level of humor, and there is a necessary condition, that is, "meaningful." ”
In life, whether male or female, most people will consider a sense of humor to be a plus.
After all, everyone in the world's bitter life wants to find a funny and funny partner to spend a happy life.
In fact, researchers have long pointed out that there are gender differences in the use and appreciation of humor between the sexes.
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Men and women have different choices of humor
Eric Bryce, a psychologist at McMaster University in Canada, did a study in which he asked subjects to choose a potential date of the opposite sex.
It turned out that women were thinking about men who would be funny, while men were thinking about women who could appreciate his funny talent.
Women seem to be more critical, they like funny men because they tend to be creative, they can better understand the opinions of others, and women are very resistant to such guys.
Men like women who can understand his funny talent and indulge in his sense of humor, and the degree of laughter of the woman in the conversation with the woman hints at the woman's satisfaction with the chat, and can also see the man's dating expectations.
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There is a difference in humor between men and women
In the view of evolutionary psychology, the difference between men and women has existed since childhood, and Stanford University has measured the response of the brains of 22 children aged 6-13 by showing three different types of funny videos while using a functional magnetic resonance molding machine (FMRI).
The study found that girls' brains were more active in responding to funny videos than boys. Therefore, it is believed that men make humor and women appreciate humor.
A man's sense of humor can serve as a symbol of intelligence, indicating that the person is intelligent; female humor is considered less accessible.
Even men will feel threatened to be with funny women and worry that they will be the target of her poisonous tongue.
The same is humor, how can the difference be so big?
The impact of a sense of humor on emotional life
In a way, humor is a kind of wisdom, and it is much more powerful than telling jokes.
A good sense of humor is good for both feelings and marital relationships, and it is particularly emphasized that a good sense of humor is mentioned here.
Being born as a human being is never easy, and having a good sense of humor to fend off life's difficulties is a good choice.
Raab said, "Humor is the lifebuoy in the waves of life." It can be seen that humor will make future life more optimistic.
Of course, humor can be obtained through slow training the day after tomorrow, which requires starting with changing your way of thinking.
In short, having a partner with a good sense of humor can better cope with the unsatisfactory nature of life and make the boring life sparkle.
If necessary, try to cultivate your sense of humor and become a more popular person.
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