In recent years, the behavior of taking children of the opposite sex into and out of private places such as bathhouses has frequently attracted attention on the Internet. Recently, some guests questioned a bathing center in Shanghai for allowing boys around 3 years old to bathe in the women's bath. The woman thought it was unreasonable to let a boy in the soup for a woman.
In the face of customers' doubts, the staff of the bathing center said that the regulations have existed for a long time, children under 90 centimeters can be mixed bathing, if guests are dissatisfied with the regulations, they can choose to go to other bathing centers.
How many children can go to the bathhouse for a mixed bath? Netizens have different views on this.
Some netizens believe that children under 90 centimeters are less than three years old and can accept mothers to take children under 3 years old to bathe.
Some mothers said that their sons would not take the women's bath after they were one and a half years old.
Some netizens also said that no matter how old the child is, they will be a little mindful. In this regard, some netizens suggested that bathing centers can set up "family pools" to meet different needs.
3 to 6 years old is the initiation period of children's sex education
Qiu Xuchao, director of the psychological counseling station of Hangzhou Xuejun Middle School in Zhejiang Province and a national second-level psychological counselor, introduced: "Studies have shown that 42%-86% of boys and girls aged 3-4 years old gradually realize that there is a difference between men and women, and begin to think of themselves as boys or girls. Qiu Xuchao stressed, "3-6 years old is the best period for children's sex education." At this time, there are no unhealthy ideas in the children's minds, more curiosity about gender exploration, and entering public places at this time, such as the bathroom and toilet of the opposite sex, may bring improper stimulation and guidance to the child. ”
Qiu Xuchao also stressed that parents themselves should also play an exemplary role, "I am also a child's mother, I can understand the embarrassment that mothers may encounter when they bring a baby alone, but in the process of children's gradual growth, the details of changing clothes, going to the toilet, sleeping in separate beds must be paid attention to." In addition, there are many two-child families now, especially families with one son and one daughter, and parents should also pay attention to gender differences in the process of growing up with two children and do a good job in gender education. ”
Looking forward to more third toilets, third dressing rooms
In fact, there are already ways to solve the problem of "single parents bringing minor children into the bathroom and toilet of the opposite sex", at the end of 2016, the Ministry of Housing and Urban-Rural Development revised the "Urban Public Toilet Design Standards" has clearly required that a type of fixed public toilet in the city, a public toilet in a secondary and above hospital, a commercial area, an important public facility and an active public toilet in the area of important transportation and passenger facilities should be set up a third toilet.
The third bathroom is different from the male and female toilets, is a separate enclosed space, simply put, for family members of different genders, one of them can not take care of their own actions and set up, such as the mother with a young child, the father with a young daughter, the son with a mother with mobility problems, the daughter with a father with mobility problems to go out, the use of the third bathroom can avoid embarrassment and embarrassment.
Nowadays, the third toilet has gradually become the standard, and bathing centers, swimming pools, water parks and other places can also learn from them, and a third locker room is set up to facilitate people in need.
Source: Nanning Evening News