Text/Ye Xiaodan
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Many times, people with high emotional intelligence will be liked, but they may often feel tired for themselves.
Because many things are mutual, just as people with high emotional intelligence seem to be able to easily solve some problems and solve the troubles of others, but at the same time, for themselves, they often need to spend more effort.
These labor-consuming processes are, to put it bluntly, also an energy consumption. Since it is consumed, it will be exhausted.
Therefore, we may be able to imagine a situation where there is such a category of people who are very proud and conceited on the surface, but in fact, they are indeed low-key and introverted in their bones.
The reason why they show such two very different looks is actually to be able to cope with them at will on different occasions.
In other words, they already know very well that the differences between people are still very large, which makes everyone grow up, and it may always become more and more different from the past.
Therefore, when a person truly becomes strong, or even becomes confident, he can maintain a stubborn spirit of struggle in the face of a goal and belief, and then strive to the end towards the goal in his heart.
Capricorn
Capricorn pride is actually a kind of false "pride".
Just as the conceit of these people is never as simple as we see with the naked eye, Capricorn always lives quite soberly, very transparently.
It may be difficult for others to understand, but Capricorn never cares, and even in order to facilitate themselves not to be disturbed and entangled by others, these people will deliberately show some out-of-the-ordinary, conceited words and deeds to please people.
It is true that Capricorn likes to be a lone brave.
The courage of this lone brave may sometimes seem to be self-sufficient, but Capricorns always believe that this ordinary power can constantly make themselves do things that can promote a better life.
Sometimes, Capricorns also have a high standard of expectation for community or friendship, and others will be disappointed if they do not feel the same way, or if they cannot come up with the corresponding attitude.
Admittedly, after this disappointment is more, Capricorn will come up with some ways to confront, or some way to change.
Capricorns, who seem calm, introverted and serious, will also deliberately behave quite noisily on some familiar occasions, or deliberately make some proud words and deeds to avoid excessive interference by others.
Because the older Capricorn gets, the more he likes to be alone, to be determined by his own abilities, and to believe in his sense of self-belief, and then stubbornly and strongly fight to the end.
This is also the charm and city of Capricorn, who dare to climb alone towards the place of faith in their hearts, and struggle is the theme of their lives.
Being strong is the magic weapon for Capricorns to achieve victory, and persistence is the destination of their motivation and obsession.
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