"Arrogance" left a deep impression on me, it was Lin Wuyu's parents.
Parents are righteous to ai their children, and it is not too much to ai. But their ai, Lin Zhan, chose to disappear from their world. Lin Wuyu said: "My parents' feelings for Lin Zhan, not only the kind of parents who love their children, but also... How to say it, go all out, devote yourself wholeheartedly, open your eyes to see you, close your eyes and think of you, always be able to meet you and control you, you are all I am alive..." Parents who go all out, wholeheartedly, all the time, all the time to love their children, should be awe-inspiring. But think again, when you have another person in the time and space that suo has staring at you intently, when your suo has the direction of travel assigned to you by another, when your life is controlled by another person and there is no longer a chance to choose, will you feel lucky or unlucky? The child is an independent being when he exists out of the womb; he is an independent person when he is self-aware. Everyone has their own path to go, and they should have their own path that they want to take. However, his parents said, you should do this, you should go this way, you see, we are so ai you, you are all we live, ah, how can we harm you? At this time, what should he do?
He is a smart child in the mouth, eyes, and heart of his parents, is he more proud or more depressed? He has a little brother who came to the world to cure his acute lymphocytic leukemia, but his parents have not given him a little bit of AI from him, is he more grateful or more guilty? The parents' AI to Lin Zhan is a knife, the knife is cut on the heart, ai is a little more, the wound is a little deeper, and the pain is a little more.
Perhaps, Lin Zhan and Lin Wuyu still have some misunderstandings about their parents. At least in my opinion, this pair of parents AI themselves is better than AI Lin Zhan. They tried to control the direction of his life, to make him what they wanted to be, to put it bluntly, to let him fulfill their unfulfilled wishes for them, to make their lives complete. They had only deceived Lin Zhan, lin zhan, lin wuyu, and even themselves. In their planning, Lin Zhan should rely on the wisdom of jueding, embark on the path they have designated, become what they want to be, and realize their dreams of life. The value of Lin Zhan's life is probably adding another example to the filial piety of our ancestors.
However, Lin Zhan chose to run away, when he had not yet graduated from junior high school. He thought that as long as he disappeared from that home, he could break free from the shackles of heaven and earth, and his younger brother Lin Wuyu could also be treated kindly by his parents. Too bad he was wrong.
Although Lin Zhan, who has become an adult, has his own studio, is engaged in his own career of being good at xi AI, becomes an Internet celebrity, and has a fan base, he treats people coldly and is afraid of expressing AI, and the AI given to him by his parents has become the yin shadow in his heart, and the e dream that lingers in his life. And because of Lin Zhan's departure, the original yi use of "in case Lin Zhan's health is not good in the future" in the eyes of his parents has also been lost. Not only did he not get his parents' Guan Ai because of Lin Zhan's departure, but he became the parents' anti-Xiang to vent. It was his fault not to look for Lin Zhan, it was his fault not to find Lin Zhan, and it was even more his fault that he could not bring Lin Zhan home. In his more than ten years of life memories, there has not been a hug from his parents, a hand holding, a little comfort, growing to adulthood, but Zhong Yu had a qin close contact - because he did not bring back Lin Zhan, he got a slap from his father in the hospital. Even if it becomes a national college entrance examination, what about it? In the eyes of parents, how can they be compared with the all-powerful genius eldest son? (In fact, I can't quite understand this psychology, although I was born to save my eldest son, but I was born with my own child, how can I favor this to this extent?) And they actually had the face to question whether Lin Wuyu had a little gratitude, so strange! It is also true that they are the ones who gave birth to him, and it is they who raise him, and for those who only have themselves in their hearts, how can they not pay for it without return? Isn't it natural for children to be filial to their parents?
When Lin Wuyu told his father who roared at him that he "wanted to be an orphan", he was both distressed and relieved. How can such parents be worthy of parenting! For Lin Zhan, it can also be understood that the way they do not understand AI is the problem of Qing Shang; for Lin Wuyu, without the disguise of AI, what they see is their self-si, which should also have a problem of character.
The influence of parents on children will accompany the child's life, and I am curious about what kind of parents have raised children like parents without corners.
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