At the beginning of the new year, Jet Li's daughter posted a letter to celebrate the birthday of her mother Li Zhi,
In the photo, Jet Li is holding a pair of daughters, and the years are quiet.
In the past two years, I can often see the news that Jet Li and his daughter attended the high-end celebrity meeting.
He did his best to give them the ultimate love.
But few people know that he has two other daughters.
He was born to his ex-wife Huang Qiuyan.
However, Jet Li's attention to these two daughters is much smaller.
Together with the frame are very rare,
Why?
Maybe start with Jet Li's two feelings.
In 1971, when the eight-year-old Jet Li was photographed by the coach of the Shichahai Sports School and learned martial arts, he did not know at that time that this choice would bring about earth-shaking changes in his life.
This change is about career, and it is more about love.
When he was in sports school, Jet Li met Huang Qiuyan, who was two years older.
Huang Qiuyan's family is very well-off, but Jet Li lost his father because of his young age, and even food and clothing are problems.
Therefore, Huang Qiuyan took extra care of Jet Li, and whenever the school was off, she would drag Jet Li home to improve her food.
Sometimes when his parents brought in some novelty, she would quietly bring them to him to eat.
These actions shone like a light into Jet Li's world, making him feel warm and full of energy in training.
Many times, the coach set a task for an hour, jet Li will ask himself to double the completion, even if the practice is full of iron and blue.
He thought that if he practiced day after day, he would one day be able to stand on the podium and change the poverty of his family.
However, fate is sometimes so twisted and bizarre, when he stands on the podium, he is also forever lost with this profession.
In 1979, Jet Li was physically injured due to an accident, but in order to be able to compete smoothly, he concealed his injury and insisted on going to the field.
After the competition, he successfully won five gold medals, but due to serious physical injuries, he could no longer participate in high-intensity competitions.
The beginning is the end, the hope of Jet Li had to find another way out, Huang Qiuyan always accompanied, never abandoned.
In 1981, Jet Li won the filming opportunity of "Shaolin Temple" with his profound martial arts skills, and became a hot star in one fell swoop.
The next year, he took over the filming of "Shaolin Kid", at this time, he did not forget Huang Qiuyan's past care for himself, and pulled her into the crew.
Not surprisingly, the movie caught fire again, and Jet Li also became a box office guarantee.
After tasting the thrill brought by the movie, Jet Li planned to hit the iron while it was hot and pulled Huang Qiuyan to shoot "North and South Shaolin".
But people are not as good as heaven, "iron" is not done, but an accident has quietly come.
When filming, because of improper operation, Jet Li's spine was misplaced, the lumbar spine was cracked, and even normal walking became a problem.
When admitted to the hospital, the doctor said: "It is likely to be in a wheelchair for the rest of your life." ”
For a time, all the dreams were shattered, Jet Li was gray, and his mood was low to dust.
Huang Qiuyan saw the situation and took the initiative to take on the heavy responsibility of taking care of Jet Li, and constantly comforted him: "Whether you can recover or not, I will be with you." ”
If you can meet this good person in life, why do you want it?
Lying on the hospital bed, Jet Li was deeply moved, and he secretly swore in his heart that he would be good to her for the rest of his life!
Under the careful care of Huang Qiuyan, Jet Li slowly improved and was even able to walk normally.
In 1987, Jet Li decided to marry Huang Qiuyan, and their financial situation was evident at that time, there was no lavish wedding, and there were no guests.
But for Huang Qiuyan, being able to marry Jet Li is enough.
But she did not know that the love she thought was just a moth to put out the fire, and when Jet Li later mentioned it, it was only called "repaying grace", but there was no love.
After marriage, Huang Qiuyan quit the screen, became a full-time housewife, and gave birth to a daughter Li Si the following year.
I thought that my life could be stabilized, but I didn't think that Jet Li was not at ease, and he moved his mind to go abroad.
For her husband's decision, Huang Qiuyan still supported it without hesitation.
When he first arrived abroad, Jet Li was not famous, and could only earn a meager income by teaching others martial arts, and even if he barely bought a house, he also carried a large number of loans.
A family of three is in turmoil abroad, and their days are stretched thin.
In desperation, Jet Li had to find resources everywhere to shoot dramas.
In 1989, Jet Li got the opportunity to star in "The Dragon at the End of the World", and in the crew, he met Li Zhi.
According to Ni Kuang's words: "Li Zhi is a beauty that has rarely been seen for half a century. At that time, she had just won the championship of Hong Kong Sister, and the limelight was the same.
When he first met, Jet Li was impressed by her soft accent and fluent English, and couldn't help but have a secret affection for her.
At that time, he was a husband with a wife, and his wife had just given birth to a second daughter, Li Tessy.
And Li Zhi is in the gentle township of the gambling king He Hongshen, and it is difficult to extricate himself.
The time and place are favorable, and one does not occupy, Jet Li can only hide this love in his heart.
However, feelings can't help but be bound by anything, and the more he wants to hide, the stronger the feelings.
Later, he described the feeling of this period as: "Whenever I think of her, the blood is boiling in the veins, and the heartbeat is so fast that I can't breathe." ”
After being tormented by this emotion for a long time, an opportunity suddenly came.
Ho Hung-sun is in the consideration of interests, pushing Li Zhi out of his arms, which is tantamount to giving Jet Li a good opportunity.
Worried about the variables of regeneration, he could not wait to propose a divorce to Huang Qiuyan: "I have met love, and I hope you can fulfill me." ”
"I only have 20% of my love for you now, and the remaining 80% is given to her."
He said his own reasons, sincerely hoping that Huang Qiuyan could indulge him once as before and let him find true love.
Although at that time, the second daughter was still swaddled and waiting to be fed, and the wife had no long belongings and could not survive.
He couldn't even think about it, his heart had already run to Li Zhi's body.
Unexpectedly, this time, Huang Qiuyan did not "resign herself", she wanted to do a final desperate fight for her daughter and her love.
But you can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, and you can never pull back a person who doesn't love you.
After two years of involvement, Huang Qiuyan still signed her name on the divorce agreement.
In order to compensate, Jet Li left the house and children behind.
However, the house has a loan, the child needs to spend money, and she does not have a skill, and making a living has become a problem.
Jet Li, who was full of wisdom, had no time to think about this.
After gaining his freedom, Jet Li concentrated on catching up with Li Zhi.
Li Zhi, who lives in the starry moon, does not care about his pursuit, and she even jokingly says: "Wait ten years, if you still like me, I will marry you." ”
The taste of rejection is full of taste, but Jet Li seems to have received a "pass order", excited, and in the days that followed, he looked like a legitimate boyfriend, booing and greeting her, taking care of her.
At this time, Huang Qiuyan was forced to sell her house and move to the basement due to her inability to pay the loan, and in order to make a living, she could only go to the barbershop as a migrant girl.
Unable to cope with the family's life, she had to dial Jet Li's phone and ask her to take her daughter back.
Jet Li promised very happily, and it did not take long for the child to be taken back to China and placed in the mother's house for foster care.
And while he is working hard for his career, he is pursuing beauty.
In 1992, when Li Zhi "sunk a ship" in the commercial sea, owed a huge debt, and his career was low to dust, Jet Li decisively staged a "hero to save the United States".
He signed a "deed of sale" with the film and television company, and spent several years of film remuneration at one time, just to repay the debt to Li Zhi.
This action was like a pot of boiling hot water, warming Li Zhi's heart.
Her heart was loosened, but she still wanted to test him again.
She said, "I mind if you make a passion scene." ”
He does not take or less passion plays, even if it will affect his future.
She said: "I'm in a bad mood. ”
He pushed off the announcement and accompanied her to distract herself.
Even if Li Zhi wanted the stars in the sky, he would find a way to pick them for her.
In 1999, the tenth year of their acquaintance, Jet Li finally got what he wanted and entered the palace of marriage with Li Zhi.
At this time, he did not forget his daughters who were far away in China, and even sent them invitations to come abroad to live together.
However, in the absence of long-term fatherly love, the word "father" has become unfamiliar.
Most of the time, they can only learn about their father's current situation from the gossip news, "Jet Li and Li Zhi attended a certain occasion", "Jet Li and Li Zhi got married"...
The father was married, and they were the ones who were abandoned in the corner and left unattended.
The seeds of inferiority sprouted in the hearts of the two children, who shook their heads and rejected their father's proposal.
In fact, in addition to the lack of companionship, Jet Li has never treated his two daughters materially, and the school they attend is also the leading aristocratic school in the local area.
But in a child's world, the presence of a biological parent is far more than anything else.
Anything can be given, only time, Jet Li really can't squeeze out too much.
Because, Li Zhi is pregnant.
Although he had welcomed two small lives before, Jet Li was very attentive to helizhi's first child.
In order to take care of his pregnant wife, he even pushed off the contract of "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon", and thus missed the opportunity of the fire.
However, this is not important to Jet Li.
There are many opportunities for fires, but there are not many times when the wife gets pregnant and gives birth.
Under his meticulous care, Lee Chi successfully gave birth to their first daughter, Jane.
Looking at the baby in the swaddling, Jet Li was like a treasure, but within a few months, he began to pave the way of stars for her growth path.
He took her to early education, watching her go from looking up to turning over to walking, and he was reluctant to let go of every detail of his daughter's growth.
However, for a pair of daughters in China, he was far from being so dedicated, and even his daughter's parents' meeting was replaced by his brother and sister.
Not to mention every award and growth of her daughter.
Such days did not last long, and bad news came from the country.
Jet Li's mother, who suffered from cancer, struggled on her sickbed for a long time, and she died in 2002.
Leaving two granddaughters like duckweed, with no branches to rely on.
Not long after, Li Zhi gave birth to another daughter.
Considering the situation at home and the education of the two children, Jet Li did not take them abroad with great fanfare, but continued to maintain the status quo.
Usually, the two daughters are in the boarding school, on weekends or holidays, they go to Jet Li's brother and sister's house, and the living expenses are still borne by him.
Without grandma's protection, the two children were even more lonely.
Feeling abandoned, many times, they prefer to stay in school.
The cold square grid became the home of two little girls.
Huang Qiuyan can't bear her daughters living in hatred, she often calls them to persuade them: "Your father has his own difficulties, you all understand things, and you must be more considerate of him." ”
Under her enlightenment, the two daughters opened their hearts, but they always had a chasm in their hearts that was difficult to heal, and they could not be so intimate with their father.
But at least father and daughter are together and no longer strangers who have nothing to say.
Perhaps good people, years eventually give gifts.
In 2005, Huang Qiuyan found a home for a lifetime, married a good person, and opened her own beauty salon.
To show his congratulations, Jet Li gave away a $50,000 car as a wedding present in the name of his two daughters.
The next year, after Li Si graduated from high school, Jet Li sent the sisters abroad to live with Huang Qiuyan.
After so long of wandering, two lonely children can finally enjoy maternal love.
Perhaps without worries, Jet Li concentrated on the future of the two daughters born to Li Zhi.
When Jane was eight years old, she got the opportunity to perform on the same stage with Andy Lau.
On the stage, she fell generously, without the slightest shyness.
It was also in the same year that Jet Li's film "The King of Kung Fu" premiered.
The scene went to Jackie Chan, Liu Yifei and other big coffee, Jet Li also brought his daughter to the ceremony site and became the focus of the whole audience.
As the two daughters get older,
Jet Li turned his attention to a variety of high-end cocktail parties.
Once, at a parisite meeting, someone took a picture of him with his two daughters.
This kind of high-end party, only the most authentic celebrities in the world can participate,
The girls who participated were second to none in terms of family lineage and knowledge.
It is enough to see what kind of effort Jet Li put into paving the way for his daughter.
It is said that when his two daughters were still studying, he prepared a mansion for them, a five-story villa, and a garden and swimming pool, which was very comfortable.
The two daughters are also very competitive, and the eldest daughter Jane has been admitted to the world's top universities such as Harvard and Yale at the same time.
The younger daughter's academic performance is also very good.
In contrast, Li Si and Li Timmy are much more low-key.
The only information that can be obtained is that Li Si has reached the age of marriage but does not want to get married.
Although Jet Li and Huang Qiuyan persuaded her many times, she was not moved.
Perhaps the shadow of her childhood is too deep for her to know how to manage a relationship, or she does not want her children to repeat their mistakes.
As the old saying goes, some people spend their whole lives healing their childhood.
I don't know if with the erosion of time, the pain in their hearts can be healed?
A few years ago, Jet Li suffered from hyperthyroidism, which was maintained by drugs for a long time, and his entire face was somewhat puffy. Perhaps for this reason, he rarely appears in front of the screen.
However, he still lived with Li Zhi.
I just don't know if he will have a little regret when he dreams back in the middle of the night.
After all, his chase for love, he got what he wanted, but gave the two children a wound that was difficult to heal.
This also gives a wake-up call to many parents,
As parents, even if they do not do well to plan for their children, it is best to provide them with a sound childhood, rather than sacrificing their lives for their own selfish desires.