As the saying goes: whether tea is good or not, you can see its color and shape.
Whether a horse grows strong or not, you can see its size and demeanor.
The same is true of people.
Appearance is a person's business card, whether a person is blessed, through the appearance can be glimpsed.
"Phases are born from the heart, and the environment changes with the heart."
Although people's appearance is innate, their demeanor and charm are formed by nurture.
Blessed people often have these three characteristics.
It is mentioned in the Mai Xiang Fa that "there is a mind without a phase, and it is born with the heart; there is no heart, and the heart is destroyed." ”
A person who has no blessings, but has a good heart, can also be transformed into a blessing;
A person is blessed, but if he has a bad heart, the original blessing will disappear.
All the merits and blessings of the world are closely related to the nature of our hearts.
In 1997, when director Walter was passing by Central Station in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, a young boy tried to polish his shoes in exchange for income, but Walter did not have this demand and refused.
However, the little boy timidly told Walter that he had not eaten for a day and could lend him two dollars.
Out of sympathy, Walter gave the money to the little boy.
Half a month later, Walter passed the station again, and the little boy saw him in the crowd from a distance and hurried over:
"Sir, this is the money you lent me, pay you back."
At the time, Walter was struggling to find a young actor for a newly started film.
The trustworthy little boy in front of him made his heart move, and he decided to give him a chance.
"Tomorrow you come to me at the film company in the city center, and I will surprise you, there is food to eat, there is money to earn."
The next day, Walter waited for the little boy in the studio, and to his surprise, it was not just the little boy who came, but a group of stray children.
It turned out that the little boy felt that if he had a good opportunity, he should share it with his little friends and earn a bite of food together.
Walter was thoroughly impressed by the kindness of the little boy.
Of these children, although a few seem more clever and more suitable to be the male protagonist of the movie, Walter insists that the little boy play the male number one, because he feels that he is looking for such a pure, kind person.
After the release of the movie "Central Station", it was a huge success, and this boy named Vennesis became a household name in Brazil, completely rewriting his fate.
The greatest blessing in this life is not how good a life is, but to be bright and open-minded and kind-hearted.
Give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand.
Kindness is an ability, but also a choice.
Things are uncertain, and people inadvertently plant the seeds of goodness, often reaping good rewards when they don't.
When we are kind and do not count gains or losses, our appearance and temperament will become soft and plump, and good luck and blessings will follow.
In life, some people do not do anything satisfactorily, a moldy face; while some people are always smooth sailing and a happy face.
Born from the heart, the mentality is different, the spirit is different, and the luck is naturally different.
Writer Cai Lan once took a taxi and found flowers in the car, which was arranged with special care.
He asked the driver how his business was, and the driver smiled and said it was not bad.
Cai Lan was a little surprised: "As soon as I got into the taxi in the past few years, the driver was complaining to me, but you are different." ”
The driver replied: "I have complained before, but it is better not to complain than to live." It is strange that after figuring it out, the luck has become better, and it is rare to pull empty cars. ”
Arriving at the destination, Cai Lan was just about to get off the bus when the neighbor stopped the car.
Cai Lan lost his smile and thought that his luck was indeed good.
The heart is wide, the road is wide.
Optimistic people, the heart is firm, the eyebrows are stretched, the blessings are hanging on the face, and life is also rewarded with a smile.
Friend Xiaorui was diagnosed with leukemia in his twenties, and when he learned the news, everyone around him felt sorry for this girl.
Soon, Xiao Rui began chemotherapy, and the circle of friends saw her lying in the hospital bed from time to time.
When everyone went to visit her together, they found that she had planted flowers in the ward, picked up a long-lost drawing board, and lived a rich and fulfilling life.
Xiao Rui smiled and said that since he has won the "lottery", it is better to open something, do what you want, how to be happy and how to live, and cherish every day of the moment.
Unconsciously, several years have passed, and Xiao Rui's condition has gradually improved.
She regained her long hair and found a job.
In her spare time, she climbed the mountain with her donkey friends, traveled together, and smiled brightly, as if the former illness had not left any trace on her.
If the heart is happy, it is beautiful, and if the heart is sad, it is sad.
Hope always favors the optimistic. Stay optimistic, life can step out of the mountains and rivers without a way, willow dark flowers and bright and open-minded sense of another village.
There is a question on the Internet: What is a good life?
One of the high praises replied: "Good life" means that you may go through tribulations, experience helplessness, go through hardships, but eventually you will defeat these and win success.
In the end, life is a mentality, people with a good mentality, do not care too much about gains and losses, life will get better and better.
Life is only 30,000 days, and who does not harbor joy and sorrow.
You can't eat three meals a day, you can't sleep on a bed of three feet, and if you encounter difficulties, the soldiers will come to block it, and the water will come to cover it.
Maintain a good attitude and face life with a positive and optimistic attitude, and blessings will meet with us unexpectedly.
Schopenhauer once said, "Only those who are rich within are happy." ”
The highest refinement of life is the richness of the heart.
A program of CCTV once interviewed Academician Zhong Nanshan.
After the reporter arrived at Zhong Nanshan's home, he found that Zhong Lao's residence was just an ordinary apartment.
The interior decoration is very simple and simple, and some of the furniture has been painted and is still in use.
According to the conditions of Zhong Nanshan, it is completely possible to live in a better environment, why not change to a bigger and more comfortable house?
In the face of reporters' inquiries, Zhong Nanshan said:
"Our family has always talked about medical treatment and academic pursuits, but we have never talked about how much money we have."
Rather than pursuing materials, Zhong Nanshan pays more attention to spiritual pursuits, and he is convinced that human happiness comes from within, not from the outside.
It is this belief that allows him to focus on medical research for the benefit of the world.
People with rich spirits, their hearts are lush and rich, and they are all galactic moons between their hands and feet.
People who lack spirits, even if they are wrapped in brand names, cannot cover the emptiness of thought.
Some time ago, New Oriental donated 80,000 sets of tables and chairs worth nearly 50 million yuan to rural schools, sending Yu Minhong to the hot search in one fell swoop.
The industry is receding, and the glory is no more.
Some lament, some admire, some sympathize.
In various voices, Yu Minhong was very indifferent: "I still have more than 10,000 books to read in my family, and my life is still very happy." ”
The more powerful the person with the spiritual world, the more capable they are to attain happiness in their ordinary days.
Life is not a material feast, but a spiritual cultivation.
Life is a process from scratch, from existence to nothing, in a complicated world, learn to delete the complex and simplify, in order to obtain a full spirit, cultivate a rich heart.
People who are spiritually rich, with a happy face and a full heart, embody the fullness of life from the inside out, have the power to master happiness, and their fate changes accordingly.
There is a saying in the "Left Biography": "People's hearts are different, and each is like its own face." ”
A person's appearance is a display of the inner world, and a person's mentality, personality, cultivation and past experiences will eventually be projected onto his appearance.
Good-looking people do not have beautiful facial features, but after stripping off their appearance, they are unique in the vast crowd.
I like a quote:
Personality is written on the lips, happiness is exposed in the corner of the eye;
Standing posture shows talent, gait can see self-awareness;
There is a recent state of mind in the expression, and between the eyebrows are the past years. ”
The highest state of life is a generous and kind heart, an open-minded and optimistic personality, and a full spirit.
Truly intelligent people can see the essence, reflect on themselves, change themselves, and usher in blessings.
May each of us be able to cultivate the perfection of life by cultivating the mind from within, practicing with the heart, and unifying knowledge and action.
Author | Meng Xiang
Image | Visual China