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No relationship is suddenly deteriorated, but has traces to follow, as long as we carefully observe certain details of life, we can see at a glance.
After all, loving someone cannot be hidden, even if the mouth does not admit it, it will run out of the eyes, exposed from the words and deeds and details of life.
This is especially true of the relationship between men and women, and if two people are initially just ordinary friends of the opposite sex, then when one of them is emotional about the other, they can no longer treat her as ordinary friends.
He would give her some special treatment that others could not enjoy, and this difference was actually a proof of deep love.
In general, the relationship between men and women becomes ambiguous, often starting with borrowing the following things from each other, don't be wrong. Otherwise, if it is out of control, it may no longer be pure.
One: Borrow some daily necessities from each other, such as books, umbrellas, clothes, etc
If a person wants to connect with another person, he will inevitably use various ways and methods, the most obvious of which is to borrow the other party's daily necessities or personal items.
In this way, the next time you return it, you will have a reason to meet with each other, and in order to express your gratitude, you can even ask each other out to dinner, so that you can take your relationship further.
In movies or TV series, there are often similar plots.
The hero likes the heroine, he will find some common hobbies with her, such as talking about a book she likes, and if she happens to have it, he will take the opportunity to borrow it, so that there is a reason to continue to meet with her.
Not only that, but there are also common topics to talk about.
For example, on rainy days, you can take the opportunity to borrow umbrellas or clothes, which is only a small thing, but it can promote mutual understanding and warming up feelings.
Two: Borrow each other's private time, and where time is spent, the heart is there
In addition to borrowing things, the most obvious point is to borrow each other's private time.
Sometimes I know that the other person is busy, but I still find a reason or excuse to be alone with the other party, which is nothing more than because I miss it too much and want to meet alone.
In TV dramas, we often see such plots.
A boy is emotional about the girl, and when he asks her out, if the girl refuses, saying that he has made an appointment with his girlfriend, then he will say to the girlfriend: "I'm sorry, please lend her to me for a while." ”
The borrowing here is actually a kind of rhetoric, on the surface, just want to occupy the other party's time, but in fact, it is a disguised expression of their love and thoughts.
After all, where a person's time is spent, the heart is there.
If a guy goes out of his way to ask you out and take up your personal time, then he may not be really idle and bored, and it may be that he is just emotional about you and wants to be with you.
In life, if you find that a man and a woman are often alone, you have to wake up, and the relationship between them may have crossed the line.
Three: Borrowing from each other, you come and go, is conducive to the heating up of feelings
Some people say that the hardest thing in the world is human feelings. Others have helped you, and the next time someone else asks you for help, even if you don't want to help, you are not embarrassed to refuse.
In the relationship between the sexes, men and women are also well versed in such a psychology, so in order to establish contact with each other, they often pretend to have something to help each other, so that next time there is a reason to return human feelings.
The relationship between people is gradually established in such mutual troubles and your comings and goings.
If you find that a woman often asks you for help, maybe she doesn't really want you to help him, but wants to be closer to you and want to have more contact with you.
Because at this time, she already has a heart for you, so she will approach you deliberately.
If you look closely, sometimes love and non-love are extremely obvious, as there is a classic line in Lolita that says: There are three things in the world that cannot be hidden: poverty, coughing, and love.
Love is an emotion, and since it is an emotion, it needs to be expressed, only then will the other party know.
The party who is loved must be able to feel this enthusiasm and initiative.
In life, if you find that a man and a woman often borrow the three things mentioned above, so many and a half indicate that their relationship has deteriorated, so you may wish to be more wary.
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