In the entertainment industry, Vanity Fair, how many people find ways to compete for hot spots and rub traffic, but there is also some low-key powerful actors.
Zhang Shan, who we are going to talk about today, is such an actor, who is the brother-in-law of comedian Chen Peisi.
Zhang Shan has starred in classic film and television dramas such as "Daming Dynasty" and "Romance of the Three Kingdoms".
Zhang Shan in the play is a hero with a full sense of justice, and he is a good man with a sense of responsibility outside the play.
When his wife Chen Lida was seriously ill, he did not abandon him, and when his in-laws were old, he stayed by the bedside to perform filial piety.
What kind of beliefs sustained him to stick to his wife for many years in such difficult years?
Zhang Shan was born in 1968 in Qingdao, Shandong Province, to two older brothers.
When I was a child, because my parents' jobs changed, I moved to Beijing with my parents.
Zhang Shan is a lively and active boy who has made many friends when he first came to Beijing, and Zhang Guangbei is one of them.
The two were not only classmates but also neighbors, and this relationship made the two quickly become friends.
Because Zhang Guangbei's brother is a cook, Zhang Shan often goes to Zhang Guangbei's house to rub rice, and the two are good enough to wear a pair of pants together.
Zhang Shan graduated from Chinese opera in 1986, and after graduation, he was assigned to the Beijing Film Studio as an actor, and has always been in contact with Zhang Guangbei.
Zhang Shan, as a Shandong Hanzi, is tall and tall, so he often plays the role of a righteous warrior in the play.
Zhang Guangbei, on the other hand, likes to challenge some villain roles, and in 1994, he won the opportunity to play the role of Lü Bu in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" with his excellent acting skills.
The actor who originally played the role of Zhao Yun was replaced by the director because he could not complete the shot of the Nagasaka Slope Battle very well.
Just when the director was worried about finding a suitable role, Zhang Guangbei thought of his good brother Zhang Shan.
Zhang Shan is upright and hard-working, and it is most appropriate to play the role of Zhao Yun, so he recommended Zhang Shan to the director.
Under the recommendation of Zhang Guangbei, Zhang Shan came to the crew, and it was a shot of the Battle of Changshanpo that made the director praise Zhang Shan continuously.
In order to make the camera real, Zhang Shan refused to use a stand-in, a scene that fell off his horse and fell into the pit, others felt that he needed a stand-in, but Zhang Shan strived for perfection, and he fell from his horse into a 5-meter-deep pit.
Although his legs and feet were no longer very flexible after getting up, Zhang Shan still insisted on shooting the rest of the scenes.
What is the reason why such a conscientious actor is not hot?
Sure enough, as soon as "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" was broadcast, Zhang Shan, the actor of Zhao Zilong, became popular throughout the country.
A hero like Zhao Zilong is the perfect boyfriend of the girls' fantasies, coupled with Zhang Shan's handsome appearance, which has captured the hearts of countless girls for a time, and Chen Lida is no exception.
Chen Lida is the editor of the studio, and her father Chen Qiang is the head of the studio, so she always asks her father about Zhang Shan.
The food in the studio was not very good, and Chen Lida was worried that Zhang Shan would not eat well, and often brought the meals prepared by her mother to Zhang Shan to eat.
The father knew his daughter's careful thinking, and also smiled and matched them, and the two fell in love with each other.
Because Chen Lida's family is better than Zhang Shan's, when the two were first together, Zhang Shan endured a lot of criticism and thought that he was high.
But such rumors did not break the two people, but made the two love each other more.
In 1996, the two married in a low-key manner under the blessing of their parents, and gave birth to a daughter Zhang Jiayun in the second year after marriage.
Looking at the cute daughter Zhang Shan, she smiled, but with the birth of her daughter, there were more and more chores in the family.
Zhang Shan plans to give up his career and take care of his wife and children at home, but his wife Chen Lida does not agree, and she hopes that her husband can continue to act.
Zhang Shan is the rising period of his career, filming outside for a long time. Chen Lida took care of the children while going to work, and the long period of work made her body eat up.
Chen Lida suffered from hyperthyroidism, because the body began to slowly bless the body after taking hormone drugs, and even once reached 180 pounds, and there was a serious asthma.
After falling ill, Chen Lida began to feel inferior, unwilling to contact people, and her temper became more and more grumpy.
After Zhang Shan learned of his wife's illness, he gave up his thriving career and stayed at home with his wife.
Chen Lida silently endured every time she lost her temper, and never blushed with her wife.
In order to make his wife not inferior, Zhang Shanfeng praised his wife: "This is my wife, not only beautiful and capable but also very virtuous, it is my blessing to be able to marry her." ”
Slowly, Chen Lida regained her self-confidence and began to face her illness. Zhang Shan also accompanied his wife to treatment and accompanied her to lose weight.
In the early morning, you can see the figure of the two small mouths climbing the mountain, in the afternoon you can see the two swimming together, and in the evening, Zhang Shan will also make a fat-reducing meal for Chen Lida.
Zhang Shan often said: "In my eyes, you are not fat at all, but if you want to become more perfect, then I will accompany you." ”
During his wife's illness, Zhang Shan did not complain at all, and accompanied his wife to recover her health step by step.
Seeing that the son-in-law was so good to his daughter, his father-in-law Chen Qiang was also very pleased, often saying that his daughter did not marry the wrong person.
Not only is it good for his wife, but he is also very filial to his father-in-law and mother-in-law Zhang Shan.
Afraid that his parents-in-law felt lonely at home, Zhang Shan often took his wife and children to visit the elderly, and every time he went, he carried a bunch of food and clothing supplies in large bags.
Every time I go, I help the old people clean up, talk with them, play chess with the old man, and talk about some film works.
The father-in-law was also extremely satisfied with Zhang Shan's son-in-law, often saying that he was more considerate than his two sons.
Chen Lida also has two older brothers, the eldest brother works in the railway system, so he can't go home several times a year, and he has already moved out to live alone.
The second brother is the "Spring Festival Gala Evergreen Tree" Chen Peisi, those years are the peak of Chen Peisi's career, from the Spring Festival Gala sketches to stage plays, and then to the drama performance, 365 days a year Chen Peisi also went home to stay for two or three days.
There is only daughter Chen Lida left in the family, but Chen Lida's health is not good, and zhang Shan has always been taking care of his father-in-law and mother-in-law and wife and children.
Once, when his father-in-law, Chen Qiang, offered to let his daughter and son-in-law move in with the old couple, he said, "We can help you with your children, and you can always talk with us." ”
The daughter happily agreed, but Zhang Shan was caught in a dilemma.
If he did not move in with him, Zhang Shan was also worried that his father-in-law and mother-in-law would feel lonely, but if he moved in with the old man, someone would say that he was "nibbling on the old man".
After Zhang Shan struggled for a long time, he finally decided to live with his parents-in-law, so that it was convenient to take care of them, the old people were old, and there could be no one around.
Once it was because he was too busy filming to see the last side of his father, which became the pain of his life, and he did not want such a regret to have a second time.
As for the discussion of others, Zhang Shan felt that there was no need to care about these things at all.
In this way, the two moved to live with their parents-in-law, Zhang Shan helped them take care of the family, helped them wash their feet, massaged, and took care of their parents-in-law as if they were biological parents.
He said: "Since my father died, my mother has gone to Qingdao with my two brothers to live, and I can't do filial piety around, they are my biological parents." ”
Every time Chen Lida heard these words, she would immediately feel a warm heart.
In 2008, Chen Qiang suddenly suffered a cerebral infarction, and after timely rescue, he saved a life, but half of his body lost consciousness and lost his ability to take care of himself.
Zhang Shan stayed by his father-in-law's side every day, accompanied the bed, fed, and massaged when he was in the hospital, and he served the elderly wholeheartedly.
After being discharged from the hospital, he taught himself a set of acupuncture methods, and gave acupuncture to his father-in-law every day, just so that his father-in-law could get better quickly.
In this way, he served in front of his father-in-law's bed every day, and his father-in-law miraculously got better in his company.
Slowly began to walk in the courtyard on crutches, and Zhang Shan had been following his father-in-law, watching him rush to help him when he was about to fall.
After Zhang Shan took care of his father-in-law for two months, his father-in-law actually returned to normal life.
However, in 2011, Chen Qiang's cerebral infarction recurred, his speech became slurred, and his memory began to decline.
Zhang Shan looked at his father-in-law on the bed and felt very uncomfortable, he stood in front of his father-in-law's bed day and night, carried his father-in-law to the bathroom during the day, and directly let his father-in-law urinate in the urinal pot at night, and then poured it himself.
At night, Zhang Shan always listened to his father-in-law's movements, afraid that where his father-in-law was uncomfortable, he could detect it in time, and he had to feed his father-in-law water every once in a while, so that he could not sleep for several hours at night.
Once Chen Peisi came back from a performance to take care of his father for a week, he felt a little unable to hold on, but he took care of his father-in-law day and night, but Zhang Shan insisted on it for a year.
Chen Peisi is also very grateful to his brother-in-law, such filial piety is not everyone's, even his own son may not be able to do this.
In 2012, Chen Qiang died at the age of 94, and he kept Calling Zhang Shan's name in his mouth before he died.
At his father-in-law's funeral, Zhang Shan was grieving, he said: "Father has gone all the way, if there is an afterlife I will still be your son." ”
One sentence made countless people cry on the spot.
After the death of her father-in-law Chen Qiang, her mother-in-law Li Yujie was overly sad, and she began to be anorexic, forgetful, and ran away from home without warning.
After Zhang Shan discovered these symptoms of his mother-in-law, he told his second brother Chen Peisi about them, and the two took their mother to the hospital to learn that their mother had changed cerebellar atrophy.
Such a disease is inseparable from people, Zhang Shan and Chen Peisi began to take turns to only care for Li Yujie.
Zhang Shan treated his mother-in-law as if he were his own mother, and when her mother-in-law could not eat, he beat fresh fruits and vegetables into juice and fed them to his mother-in-law spoonful by spoon.
Sometimes the mother-in-law will become manic, Zhang Shan will let her beat, often roll up the sleeves can see a piece of blue, a piece of purple, the wife will be moved to tears every time she sees these.
Not only that, but the mother-in-law will also run away from home for no reason.
Once, Zhang Shan got up in the middle of the night to find that the lights in his mother-in-law's room were on, but the room was empty, and he was so anxious that he quickly told his second brother and wife that the family was looking for his mother-in-law in the cold night.
When Zhang Shan found his mother-in-law, he found that Li Yujie was wearing a pair of thin bottom pants, which made Zhang Shan blame himself, and he blamed himself for not taking good care of his mother-in-law.
In order to make this happen again, Zhang Shan has a puppy in the yard of the family, and every time his mother-in-law goes out, he can hear the sound and come in time.
He said: "I must not let my mother go away again. ”
As her condition worsened, Li Yujie began to forget some people and things around her, and even forgot who she was.
In order to make his mother-in-law's memory no longer decline, he and his second brother helped his mother-in-law recall the past bits and pieces, and under the joint care of the two, Li Yujie began to slowly recall some things.
Li Yujie told the story of her youth, and Chen Peisi recorded all this, and finally published a memoir belonging to her mother.
Accompanied by Zhang Shan and his second brother Chen Peisi, the old man walked out of the pain step by step, and now Li Yujie has a clear mouth, and there will be no situation that has declined.
In the face of her brother-in-law Zhang Shan's care for her mother, the second brother Chen Peisi said: "Over the years, you have sacrificed too much for our family, it is really difficult for you." ”
Zhang Shan said: "Since I married Lida, they have been my biological parents, and the family has sacrificed a lot." ”
Nowadays, Zhang Shan and Chen Lida are in love with each other, and Zhang Shan will also come out to take over the drama, but the newcomers in the entertainment industry will stubble one after another, and old drama bones like him can only take some supporting roles.
But Zhang Shan never cared about the size of the character, in his eyes only the work was good or bad.
Some people say that Zhang Shan is not famous, why not bundle with Chen Peisi for publicity, isn't it better to go out of the circle?
But Zhang Shan refused, saying: "I just have to act well in my play, and I don't have to think about the rest." ”
It is said that a son-in-law is half a child, Zhang Shan impressed his wife with his filial piety, and now the two live happily.
As an actor, Zhang Shan worked diligently; as a husband, Zhang Shan did not abandon his wife in times of suffering; as a junior, Zhang Shan was even more filial piety.
Zhang Shan used his own actions to carry forward the positive energy of "hundred good filial piety first", and this spirit makes us admire.