Who, exactly, is holding back your freedom?

We all know this sentence: life is precious, love is more expensive, and if it is for freedom, both can be thrown away. So, who is holding your freedom back?

Go to the hit drama "Female Psychologist" to find the answer:

1. Is it a parent?

In the quiet of the play, the girl relieves her stress by overeating, and then induces vomiting. And her pressure came from her mother's bondage. Mom wanted her to be able to enter the National Centre for the Performing Arts, and to make Jing jing her proud. When Jing Jing was young, her mother always supervised and even forced Jing Jing to practice hard, so that Jing Jing's childhood had almost no joy and freedom to play with her companions. When she grew up as an adult, her mother still arranged what competitions to participate in, perform, what clothes to wear, and tie a ponytail to look good. This completely shackles the right to quietly one's own preferences and choices of life.

In fact, parents, family members, they represent the bondage derived from blood relations.

2. Is it a leader?

Xiao Mo in the play is diligent and earnest in his work, hoping to be recognized and liked by leaders and colleagues. Not only do you try to complete your work, but you also do your best to help your colleagues, never refusing any request for help, in fact, seeking perfection. But it didn't really integrate into everyone and harvest the sincerity of colleagues. Maybe what time you go to work, what time you leave work, is often not so fixed. In addition to the work of the leadership arrangement, there are always some marginalized work. The leader's words and deeds seem so profound, silently guiding you. And what binds you is not only time, but also your concept of work. In order to win the favor of leaders and gain more sense of accomplishment in their work, it is common for employees to voluntarily work overtime.

Your leadership, your colleagues, and your company system represent the shackles that come from working relationships.

3. Is it "someone else"?

In the play, Li Wei was sexually assaulted, and it was difficult to anonymously expose the crimes of the violators on the Internet, but she always felt that it was her fault in the discussion of others and the true and false comments on the Internet. The words and deeds of "others", especially when presented in a large group, are always easily questioned by individuals, as if they were comparatively only a member of the minority obeying the majority. Others, that is, the general public, the concepts they agree with often seem so natural, and some of them are indeed worth practicing by everyone, such as respecting the elderly and loving children, filial piety to parents, and so on. But there are some that we need to think rationally about. For example, the standard of rich and handsome objects, the high dowry, the standard of a good job, the age of marriage, and so on. Obviously, whether you accept it or not, our behavior is always inadvertently judged by the popular mind.

The general thinking of the general public represents the shackles derived from the social living environment.

4. Be yourself!

The male protagonist in the play, Qian Kaiyi, is positive and optimistic, and has a strong enough self-confidence. So no matter whether he is embarrassed by competitors, the financial support in The station is limited, and the excellent love enemy, he has the courage and strength to break through the shackles. People with self-confidence are always willing to stick to their beliefs and have the courage to endure doubts and failures. Yourself, in fact, is the greatest constraint. Because the influence of others on you is limited, and you yourself are decisive.

Therefore, some people say: For your sake, I am willing to make enemies of the whole world! If a person has strong beliefs to support himself, then whether right or wrong, at least have the courage to do what he wants to do.

Freedom is in your own hands!