10 truths that will be taught to me in 2021

Someone said, "Life doesn't need to be better than others, but it has to be better than before." "We, who are flourishing, need to constantly summarize and make continuous progress. The year 2021, which is about to pass, has taught me these 10 truths.

1 Practice your skills well, and others will naturally come.

Rather than looking for connections everywhere, what you need to do is improve your abilities. When you are good enough, there will be equally good people who will walk with you. As the saying goes, "Don't chase a horse, use the time you chase to plant grass, and when the spring blossoms, you will naturally attract a group of horses." ”

2 Don't say hard words, don't do soft things.

The heart is soft and principled, and the armor is warm. Speaking and looking pleasant, doing things hard has a bottom line, highlighting a person's wisdom and principles. Learn to say no when others ask you to do something you don't like. Don't always wronged yourself to please others, kindness also needs to be a little sharp.

3 Pay attention to long-term accumulation, quantitative change will cause qualitative change.

Do more things that don't work in the short term but are sure to benefit from sticking with them in the long term, like fitness and learning a new skill. Silent accumulation, one day will change from quantity to quality. These things will bring you unimaginable happiness and even quietly change your destiny.

4 Active learning is an essential skill for our survival.

When we go to school, there are schools that arrange for us to study, and after work, few people will urge us to study. Today's society is developing faster than we think, and not making progress is no longer staying where it is, just like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat. Maintaining long-term active learning can help us not be eliminated by society.

5 Keep reading.

Through reading, you can broaden your horizons, you can walk the road you have not traveled, and see a different world. Without reading, your language will become boring and your thoughts will become mediocre. Our lives need to be read, a way to organize and renew ourselves.

6 Knowing the world is not sophisticated.

"There is only one true heroism in the world, and that is to love life after recognizing the truth of life." Learn to heal yourself and make yourself strong inside, strong enough to face all kinds of things calmly. Know the world and not the world, and be gentle with the good and bad of the world.

7 Gratitude is the gift of life.

There are many things that are happening around us every day that are thankful for, but they are often overlooked because of busyness. Life is an echo, giving people roses and having a lingering fragrance in their hands. Only by learning to be grateful to others can we have the ability to perceive happiness; only by developing the habit of gratitude will there be a steady stream of love.

8 Don't live so tired, in fact, you really don't have that many audiences.

Many people always take themselves too seriously and overestimate their position in the hearts of others, so they will have entanglements and troubles. In fact, you don't have to care too much about the eyes of others, it is more important to do yourself well.

9 Regularly break away and clean up your life and heart.

If there are more things in the favorites, delete some useless things; clean up the things that have not been useful on the table for a long time; a relationship is always you paying, but the other party does not know how to cherish, so try to let it go. Subtract from life, the mind is simple, life is simple.

10 There are always two sides to things, look at the positive side.

The same half a glass of water, some people will feel lucky, there is half a glass of water to drink, some people feel that they are really pitiful, there is only half a glass of water. See the good side of things and learn to live with an optimistic attitude.

2021 is just around the corner, and a new 2022 is just around the corner. Time flies, live healthy, live passionately, smile happily, be properly busy, and such a life is good.