When it comes to Zhou Yutong, the first thing that comes to everyone's mind is the role of Qiao Xichen in "I'm Good in Other Places", and she also won the 38th Huading Award for Best Actress with this drama. Although she is cheerful and lively in front of the screen, she rarely mentions her original family in public!
In the latest issue of "Glad to Know You", Zhou Yutong mentioned family affection and tears for the first time in the show!
When she was 4 years old, her parents divorced because of emotional problems, while Zhou Yutong grew up with her mother, and the family conditions can be imagined. Because his family was poor, Zhou Yutong did not wear any new clothes since he was a child, and basically all the clothes were leftovers worn by his sister. Even the shoes are the old sneakers worn by my sister, so the most annoying thing during school is to go to physical education class, because her sneakers will never fit!
It is said that children who grow up in single-parent families will lack love even more, but Zhou Yutong is just the opposite. Although she may not be materially rich, her parents have given her great freedom and choice, and in the process of her growth, no matter what Zhou Yutong wants to do, they are particularly supportive!
Although the family conditions are average, it still spends a lot of money to let her daughter learn more than a dozen kinds of musical instruments, as well as a variety of talents, although they have not persisted, but it has also made Zhou Yutong's body have a lot of artistic temperament.
To put it bluntly, the reason why her parents are so indulgent to her is because of the guilt in their hearts. Because of the divorced relationship, the two people lacked a lot of care and care during the growth of their daughters. That's why I want to make up for my daughter's debt in this way!
Although his parents divorced, Zhou Yutong never complained about them, but tried to repair the relationship between his parents!
Since Zhou Yutong's 4th birthday, her parents have never spent her birthday together, so her biggest wish is that her parents can sit together to celebrate their birthday. After all, there are many divorced families now, and they can get along very well and still be friends!
However, she was strongly opposed by her mother, who not only accused her daughter of being too willful, but also said that these words hurt her heart. In fact, through this detail, it can be guessed that Zhou Yutong's mother must have suffered a lot of hurt in this marriage, so after so many years, she still hates the people who have hurt her to the bone, and even eating at the same table feels a kind of humiliation and pain!
After watching this episode, I really felt more pain for Zhou Yutong. In fact, as a child, it is just a simple wish for the family to sit together and eat a meal. For the children of a sound family, this is the happiness within reach, but for Zhou Yutong, it is out of reach!
Although Zhou Yutong did not understand, she was still willing to respect her mother's decision. As the saying goes: Do not persuade others to be good without the suffering of others. Even as children, we are not qualified to allow our mother to forgive another person. For more than 20 years, we have not been angry with our children together, which has shown that parents do not want to have each other's appearance after divorce, so it is best not to disturb each other!
It can only be said that divorced families hurt not only children, but everyone! In fact, through the video posted by Zhou Yutong, I can feel that my mother is a very gentle person, and I especially like to lie in front of my daughter, after all, for so many years, it has been their mother and daughter who are dependent on each other, and the feelings between her and her mother have already exceeded the father-daughter relationship!
I believe that after passing this program, Zhou Yutong will also understand her parents better. Although marriages can break down, parents' love for their children will never change!