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The new year is about to enter the countdown, looking back on the year, many people will use the three words "not easy" as the year-end summary.
As a representative of the "not easy crowd", the experience of old mothers with babies is also a history of blood and tears.
On the Internet, mothers used memes to summarize their year-end summaries, many netizens said that the content was too real after reading, and some netizens laughed and laughed and cried, it turned out that the world's treasure mothers are the same!
The old mother wrote the year-end summary with memes, and netizens praised it with tears
Let's take a look at the mantra of this old mother, which can be roughly classified into the following three categories.
Reminder: It's time to get up, it's time to eat, it's time to get dressed...
Question: Is the homework written? Have you practiced oral arithmetic? Read English?
Hurry: Go home! Turn off the TV! Go to sleep!
Under the double reduction policy, children have avoided subject offline tutoring classes, but for old mothers, it is impossible to see children playing happily after school, so many parents have signed up for online classes for their children.
What is the mental state of the old mother when the child is online?
Emotions fluctuate, and as the child goes to class longer and longer, the mother's mental state becomes more and more anxious, and eventually it is close to collapse.
I have to say that after becoming a mother, every old mother has a strong self-healing ability.
This year, many mothers' mentality has been forced to adjust to the Buddhist state, and when the disillusionment of Jackie Chan was shattered, the mothers' hearts were also calm.
Don't argue, don't win or lose, life is short, everything goes with fate.
This year, whether it is a stay-at-home mother or a working mother, many people's financial situation is like the hole in the socks in the picture.
Many mothers said that before having a baby, their salaries were spent on themselves, but after having a baby, most of the money was donated to the child's food, clothing, housing and interest classes.
This year, while caring for children, many people have given up milk tea and cold drinks for health, replaced by goji berries and dates.
But even when they started to maintain their health at the age of 30, the hairline of the old mothers gradually moved up, and the hair that fell out was everywhere.
This year, widowhood parenting is still staged in many families, and Dad's amateur life is almost occupied by toilets and mobile phones, compared to the amateur life of mothers: feeding, sleeping, playing, washing clothes, cooking, tidying up the room...
There is a saying that goes like this: After giving birth to a baby, dad returns to singlehood, and mom falls into the abyss.
Of course, this year, the old mother will also develop her own cooking skills in addition to taking the baby.
Baked biscuits, baked cakes, baked pancakes;
Fried chicken thighs, fried tenderloin, fried rice cakes;
Steamed buns, steamed flower rolls, steamed steamed buns;
Despite repeated defeats, the old mothers still insist on finding experience in failure, and then continue to fail...
This year, more and more couples have become brothers, lack of communication with each other, brushing their mobile phones in their leisure time, and even going out to eat together are quiet like strangers.
Bao Mom hated Bao Dad snoring, so the two began to sleep in separate beds, and finally the beds became separate rooms, and the previous love was gone.
Although the current life can only be summed up in terms of "make-up", when asked about New Year's dreams, the old mothers still made a long list of wishes:
Go to bed early, get up early, don't stay up late, buy a house and buy a car, save 1 million yuan, realize shopping freedom, take the first place in the child exam, lose weight successfully...
Dreams are a must, but what if they come true?
In the end, the moms summed up their entire year with 9 memes.
Although it is a joke, it still makes many old mothers laugh and laugh and cry.
"The content is too real, and it feels like you're talking about yourself!"
"It's not easy to be a mother, you're around the family and your children all year round, and the money you earn is never enough to spend."
"It turns out that the mothers in the world are the same, and they feel sorry for themselves, hoping that every year can get better and better."
This year is very mournful, this year is very healing
When women upgrade to moms, we will encounter a lot of trivial troubles in life: fatter and fatter bodies, more and more empty pockets, less and less hair, more and more difficult children to manage...
These difficulties have also made mothers more and more frustrated, but at the same time, mothers have also developed a strong self-healing ability in life.
And there are many things that allow us to persevere and laugh at life: the understanding of children, the intimacy of husbands, the care of the elderly and the mentality of becoming more and more mature and stable.
In the new year, may the world's mothers be able to defeat "not easy" and successfully harvest happiness!
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