As we all know, due to the particularity of the profession, many stars in the entertainment industry are relatively high in age, although such a choice will make their careers get better development, but they have to face the problem of too high an age when having children, when people reach middle age and even when people reach old age, they have babies, and with the arrival of new life, there may not only be surprises, but also "pain".
Andy Lau's 8-year-old daughter was admitted to the hospital to see the heart, and "old people" not only have surprises, but also pain
As a "heavenly king superstar" in the entertainment industry, Andy Lau's name can be said to be a household name in China, and everyone's concern for his private life is naturally very high. Some time ago, The news that Andy Lau's wife and father took his 8-year-old daughter to the hospital in Hong Kong to see the heart caused a lot of netizens to pay attention to it, and at this time, "Hua Tsai" was working in the mainland and could not rush to his daughter's side in time.
It is worth mentioning that as a typical example of "old people", even if it is a superstar in the entertainment industry, it may not be much different from ordinary people in this regard. Andy Lau only had this daughter when she was in her fifties, and she was naturally pampered as a pearl in the palm of her hand, from picking up and dropping off the child from school to making breakfast for the child, it can be said that Andy Lau is undoubtedly a very competent father.
But now the child is only 8 years old, Andy Lau is already 60 years old, and when the child comes to adolescence, this is the most rebellious time, even if Hua Tsai is well maintained, it will inevitably feel a little inadequate, and the huge age difference between the child has become an insurmountable gap.
I have to say that in addition to bringing surprises to parents, there may be "pain", this pain is not physical pain, but watching the child grow bigger and bigger, the feeling of powerlessness brought about by their own gradual aging, in the spirit to bear this very helpless "pain", and this "pain" may be more sad than physical pain.
Is it a "blessing" or a "curse" for the old man?
It is not difficult to find that in modern society, not only the entertainment industry has the phenomenon of "old people getting children", due to the existence of various reasons, more and more parents have encountered the situation of "old people and children", so is this a "blessing" or a "disaster" for their families? There may not be an absolute answer to this question.
"Tim Ding import" as a great joy, for the whole family is undoubtedly worth rejoicing, every family member will be happy because of the arrival of the child, especially such a family after years of wealth accumulation, often have a good economic foundation, in the raising of children will not have the burden of young parents, the happiness index will naturally be higher.
However, no matter how superior the economic conditions are, the aging of the body is irreversible, and for children, they may be troubled by the age of their parents. And parents often have some inadequacies when taking care of their children, and there is a sense of powerlessness when disciplining their children, which is undoubtedly the disadvantage of "getting old and getting children".
There are both advantages and disadvantages to "getting old", and perhaps only time will tell us the true answer to this question.
How do such "old-fashioned" families raise their children well?
1. Pay attention to communication with your child
Due to the relatively large age gap with the child, such "older parents" may be more difficult to accept for the children's novel ideas, and the communication between parents and children is more necessary, parents should maintain a certain ability to accept new things, resolve the generation gap between each other through communication with children, and establish a better parent-child relationship.
2. Take care of your body
Feeling overwhelmed when taking care of children will be a problem for almost every such "old and old" parent, so it is especially important for such parents to maintain their own bodies. Only by maintaining their own body, taking care of children can feel more relaxed, give children more companionship and love, after all, parents are the most important role for the growth of children, "old and have children" parents want to have enough energy and physical strength to accompany their children, they must maintain their own bodies, so that they are healthy and strong.
epilogue:
Everyone will face many choices in their own lives, some people do not conceive their next generation for various reasons when they are young, and wait until they are "middle-aged" or even "old-age", and then they want to pass on their lives. Such a choice is naturally beyond reproach, but since you have chosen to become the parent of your child, you must fulfill your responsibility as a parent, and you must be cautious about this matter, otherwise it is undoubtedly irresponsible to your child and will inevitably eat the "bitter fruit of life".