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"All the weddings I've attended are gone."
In 2014, at the wedding of actor Zhang Boyu, Sun Haiying, as the stepfather, was busy for Zhang Boyu, while his biological father, Zhang Fengyi, refused to attend with such a sentence.
Zhang Fengyi has excellent acting skills and countless works in performance, and is an old drama bone with a good reputation.
But in life, his relationship with his children has been criticized.
While he hated his own son, he took good care of his stepdaughter,
It was also called "irresponsible",
However, after digging deeper into the hidden plot, the truth is not what people think.
01
In 1956, Zhang Fengyi was born in Changsha, Hunan, and not long after his birth, he followed his parents to Kunming, Yunnan.
At that time, Zhang Fengyi, who was naughty by nature, had no interest in learning, but he was very talented in acting, and his family saw him when he studied film characters, "that is really so", and encouraged him to embark on the road of acting in the future.
At the age of 22, Zhang Fengyi was successfully admitted to the Beijing Film Academy, and after entering the university, he concentrated on acting, constantly improving his acting skills and polishing his basic acting skills.
In 1988, because they jointly participated in "Dragon Female Police Officer", Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping, who also starred in the scene, met each other, and the two had an affair because of the drama, and as soon as the filming ended, the two ran to get the marriage license, and held a wedding that only cost 50 yuan, and then officially lived together.
In order to allow Zhang Fengyi to concentrate on his own career, Lu Liping, who is already a "double shadow queen", shifted the focus of her work to the family after giving birth to her son Zhang Boyu and lived the life of a husband and a godson.
But the arrival of her son and the "sacrifice" of Lu Liping did not seem to retain Zhang Fengyi's heart.
As Zhang Fengyi's career develops better and better,
The life of gathering less and leaving more also makes the feelings of the two people slowly fade,
Coupled with the lack of common topics between husband and wife,
This once enviable marriage lasted only three years and ended in 1991.
After the divorce of the two, the son Zhang Boyu lived with his mother Lu Liping, in order to let the child grow up worry-free, after the divorce, Lu Liping chose to come back and shoot some TV series and founded a performing arts school.
In 1993, he participated in the movie "Farewell to the Overlord", which not only brought Zhang Fengyi great fame, but also allowed him to meet his current wife Huo Fan.
Huo Fan is 13 years younger than Zhang Fengyi, and the two met under the introduction of friends, and gradually sparked love between them.
After a year of love, the two held a simple wedding, and officially opened the life of a partner, perhaps because of the experience of a failed marriage, Zhang Fengyi was particularly attentive to this marriage.
Although the two have not had children after being married for many years, this does not affect the feelings between them, in the face of reporters interviewed, Zhang Fengyi more than once praised each other's beautiful and gentle, very caring for themselves,
Here Zhang Fengyi has found a good person emotionally, while on Lu Liping's side, although her emotional encounters have twists and turns, she finally harvested happiness.
After divorcing Zhang Fengyi, Lu Liping and Tao Wei experienced a short marriage, and then met her current husband Sun Haiying.
Time passes like water, and the two who have "waved goodbye" on the road of life have found their own happiness, but for Zhang Boyu, the divorce of his parents has not only had a great impact on him, but also made his relationship with his biological father not very harmonious in the eyes of outsiders.
Is Zhang Fengyi, who "takes good care of" his stepdaughter, really "snubbed his son" as the outside world has evaluated?
02
Due to family reasons, Zhang Boyu is full of cynical and rebellious temperament.
When he had just graduated from junior high school, or under the influence of his parents, he secretly went to the school founded by his mother to study acting, bent on developing in the film and television circle.
His practice of "cutting first and playing later" greatly annoyed Zhang Fengyi, and he angrily rebuked: "If you do this, then don't contact me in the future".
And Zhang Fengyi actually hopes that his son can go to high school and college, and not choose to enter the entertainment circle so early, for Zhang Boyu's choice, he commented that he felt that his son's image was not suitable for acting.
Later, Zhang Boyu did not forget to improve himself because he entered the entertainment circle, and with unremitting efforts, he was admitted to the Chinese opera, but on the day of his graduation performance, Zhang Fengyi did not appear.
In stark contrast to Zhang Fengyi's approach, his stepfather Sun Haiying not only supported Zhang Boyu's choice very much and even helped him when needed, Zhang Boyu's first work, "The Legend of Chu Han", is the resource he recommended.
Even at the time of his big wedding, his stepfather Sun Haiying assumed the role of "father" throughout the whole process, speaking on stage, giving speeches, and greeting guests to do it themselves.
The biological father, Zhang Fengyi, did not attend his son's wedding, although in an interview afterwards, he said the reason why he did not go.
1. The wedding is simply done to make a few tables, he did 27 tables is a bit too high-profile, extravagant;
2. Lu Liping and Sun Haiying are in them, and the atmosphere will be awkward when I go;
3. Many of the weddings I have attended have left, afraid of giving my son a "head of mold".
Unfortunately, no matter how "sufficient" the reasons are, they may not be able to make up for the "regrets" at all.
However, Zhang Fengyi, who is so "cold" to his son, has been rumored to take good care of his "stepdaughter" in recent years.
Not only did she often take her to events, but on her 14th birthday, she gave away a Porsche sports car, and even was photographed taking his wife for a ride with her, such news was constantly exposed.
However, some netizens said that the so-called "stepdaughter" is likely to be "fabricated".
After some investigation, people did not find the existence of this "stepdaughter", when Huo Fan married him, he was only in his early 20s, and the possibility of having children was very small.
But because the parties did not explain this too much, the truth also became confusing.
Is the relationship between Zhang Fengyi and Zhang Boyu as bad as the outside world speculates?
Perhaps only they know better
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