#Flowing Golden Years##Wang Yongzheng##Jiang Nansun##Zhu Suosuo##理想与现实 #
If you have emotional problems, you can always come to me and talk about it
Let me be your best listener and listen to the truest voice in your heart
Author: Hua Yu Chi
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Note| the original book is different from the TV series
Wang Yongzheng, the most unreliable existence in the play.
He is a hot-blooded young man who pursues ideals, can play romance, chases girls, and has strong professional ability, but in terms of being a person, he is too "stubborn." ”
Many facts have proved:
Young people like Wang Yongzheng can fall in love, but if they talk about marriage, they are really an unreliable existence.
Wang Yongzheng in the play is actually not the most suitable existence for Jiang Nansun.
Even netizens who watched the drama and ate melons rarely expressed their opinions:
"It's okay to talk about love and find Wang Yongzheng, but if you talk about marriage, you have to find Li Yifan."
Jiang Nansun enjoyed the happiness that Wang Yongzheng brought him.
In the past, when she was with Zhang Anren, she enjoyed the protection and meticulous care brought to her by Zhang Anren, and now that she is with Wang Yongzheng, she enjoys the happiness and freedom of being with this person, and enjoys the feeling of pursuing ideals with him.
However, from the moment he returned to the Jiang family in Italy, Jiang Nansun's life was completely off track.
After learning that the Jiang family owed a huge debt, Jiang Nansun chose the most difficult path:
Debt.
In the process, she gradually lost her former innocence and even began to learn to disguise herself.
In the past, Jiang Nansun regarded money as dung, and now Jiang Nansun began to do whatever it took to pay off debts in order to live.
After being sexually harassed by Da Luo, Jiang Nansun reversed the operation and blackmailed Da Luo with tens of thousands of pieces, and returned the money to some creditors, and sighed at this time:
Such Jiang Nansun must have been spurned at this time, and said that if Wang Yongzheng saw her true face, he would definitely not understand her.
And Zhu Suosuo comforted her, maybe Wang Yongzheng would understand her as much as she did.
However, it turned out later that:
Wang Yongzheng could not fully trust Jiang Nansun, let alone understand her situation and feelings.
After returning to China, in the face of such a Jiang Nansun, Wang Yongzheng even felt strange.
In the past, Wang Yongzheng always liked jiang Nansun, who was carefree and always happy, and now this person who was pressed by life was always unacceptable to him.
People can never be completely empathetic.
Moreover, before Wang Yong fell in love with Jiang Nansun, he had always been a master of visits, not a serious figure.
Entangled with Professor Dong's daughter, there are a bunch of gossip girlfriends, even after falling in love with Jiang Nansun, still did not reject Yuan Yuan's "kindness," in his opinion, love is actually not necessary to keep a distance.
For the relationship between men and women, Wang Yongzheng has always been open-minded, he always assumes that others do not care, but he has never asked the opinions of others.
Such a Wang Yongzheng is actually too selfish.
In fact, from the time Jiang Nansun chose to side with Yang Ke, Wang Yongzheng already had a certain suspicion of him in his heart.
Especially when Jiang Nansun clearly told him that he could not join Ye Jinyan's project team and fight side by side with him, he had begun to be unable to accept such a Jiang Nansun.
Even if Zhu Suosuo told him about Jiang Nansun's difficulties, he still couldn't understand it.
As a surviving figure in the ivory tower, his growth trajectory is even less mature than Jiang Nansun.com.
As a figure in the R&D team, he has always lived too idealistically and too childishly.
Sometimes, he didn't even see the problem as clearly as Jiang Nansun, who had always lived in the ivory tower before.
Tang Xin wanted to put the group forward to her team, he used ideals to admonish, did not care about the feelings of the team; Li Ang wanted to jump ship, he wanted to dissuade, but did not think about the pressure behind Li Ang; even when he became a competitor with Jiang Nansun, he was always entangled with Yuan Yuan... Such a Wang Yongzheng is either too disguised or too unbounded.
Not everyone has to live for their ideals.
At this point, Wang Yongzheng's attitude toward problems is far less clear and long-term than Jiang Nansun's.
In work and life, he has always been a person who cannot take the overall picture.
No matter how cunning Yang Ke is, there is a sentence that is always very reasonable:
Work is work, life is life, and it is always to be separated.
But Wang Yongzheng happened to commit this taboo.
When you want to talk to him about life, he talks to you about work and ideals; when you want to talk to him about work, he talks to you about feelings and talks about life, and the topics of talk are always out of reach, there is no way to separate life and work, and it is always the biggest mistake he has made.
Not all issues under the heavens are suitable for conflating.
But Wang Yongzheng couldn't get around this topic, and by the time he really saw the problem clearly, everything became "too late".
Wang Yongzheng's position has never actually been correct.
In the heart of this good boyfriend, his love is actually very "overflowing".
When celebrating, he even enjoyed the feeling of being with Yuan Yuan, especially after the bar, Yuan Yuan's words aroused his interest.
Not being able to distinguish between boundaries was not his biggest problem, but that he had never loved Jiang Nansun at all.
The feelings of men and women in the ambiguous period are always the most uncertain, and when they are at their best, they also stay in the ambiguous period.
In fact, Wang Yongzheng did not love Jiang Nansun as much as he imagined, everything was just his lips.
If he talks about dedication and dedication, he will not do as much as Zhu Suosuo and the former Zhang Anren.
Not all lip service love is love.
Jiang Nansun had paid for Wang Yongzheng, but Wang Yongzheng did not understand her efforts at all, and from beginning to end, Wang Yongzheng did not really put himself in jiang Nansun's shoes to see the problem.
Zhang Anren could still empathize, and did not step on the stone at the critical moment, but Wang Yongzheng always evaded the problem and pretended not to see anything.
In fact, he has always been very clear, but he has been running away.
Compared with his attitude towards Jiang Nansun in Italy in the early days and his attitude after returning to China, even if he knew the truth, his feelings were very different.
He may never want to admit it:
What he loves is always the little princess Jiang Nansun who can be carefree and happy in Italy, rather than the overwhelmed Jiang Nansun who is overwhelmed by life.
Obviously, Wang Yongzheng enjoys freedom and happiness more.
In the finale, Wang Yongzheng did not marry Jiang Nansun, but continued to fight for their ideals.
Can it be eaten as a meal? Can you bury your head in hard work for the rest of your life?
Jiang Nansun has suffered from no money, and in this regard, she will always have a voice than this hot-blooded young man who is only immersed in ideals.
In order to interpret the perfection of this pair, the screenwriter naturally gave them a perfect ending, just like "The First Half of My Life" that year.
But is such an ending really beautiful?
They do not understand that life is cruel and ideals are difficult to survive the cold winter days.
Of course, in the days to come, no one knows what their days will be.
In fact, the ending has already broken everything, all in the unspoken.
The future Jiang Nansun may not choose to be with Wang Yongzheng, he is actually not a suitable marriage partner.
As a boyfriend, as a friend, he can be a good existence, but in marriage, such a person is not as competitive as Li Yifan, who has been divorced.
"Who would be stupid enough to marry someone they love?"
In the original work, this sentence was not only said by Zhu Suosuo, but even by Jiang Nansun.
On the road of learning to grow, Jiang Nansun has always carried his own armor and carefully moved forward on this thorny road.
Moreover, Zhang Anren's betrayal was not like that of a poisonous snake.
Who will learn to be defensive after being bitten by a poisonous snake?
For Jiang Nansun, such a Wang Yongzheng has never been a good choice.
She Can live as a flower or grow into a tree.
Wang Yongzheng has never understood Jiang Nansun, and after the reunion, when they were eating noodles at the small restaurant, they once had the following conversation:
Wang Yongzheng said that being a person cannot be pressed by life.
And Jiang Nansun said such a sentence to Wang Yongzheng, and he refuted him in a bright and bright way, which made me unforgettable for the rest of my life:
Have you ever been overwhelmed?
Life is hard, and growing up overnight is indeed cruel, but it is enough to make people see the reality.
In fact, Jiang Nansun himself could see it very clearly.
She has always, always recognized, the status quo:
Once upon a time it was Princess Jiang, now it's Cinderella.
Jiang Nansun and Wang Yongzheng in the play have always struggled for their dreams, but if they are placed in the real Jiang Nansun, she has always seen it very clearly:
To have enough food and clothing and to be happy with each other, that is an idol drama, not a reality.
Once, she had long been ready to give up Wang Yongzheng, and she once said to Zhu Suosuo:
I gambled on Zhang Anren and lost everything, all this time, I wouldn't be so willful anymore.
And this sentence also explained the final ending of her and Wang Yongzheng, but everything was in the unspoken.
Learning to bow to life and learn to pay tribute to ideals is always one thing we have to learn.
Author: Hua Yu Chi, freelance writer, both romantic and rationalist, focusing on women's growth and emotional writing, a woman who loves to read.
Love the beauty of words, sell words for a living, and believe that one day you will achieve a better self.
At present, the writing is shallow and still being sharpened...