The strange grandparents I met during the morning exercise sighed that the love of each other and respecting each other made people peaceful and happy.
They walked slowly around the park in a circle, as if measuring with their feet and observing with their eyes the ups and downs of the whole life described in words, but no matter what kind of thorns Grandma's life experienced, it was always this grandpa. When passing by the grandparents, there is a feeling of spring breeze, and when they look at the grandparents, their gentle eyes have a sense of certainty that they have seen the world but still love the world deeply, whose parents and whose grandparents, or whose teachers and friends, I think they are very happy to have each other.
I can't help but think of my grandparents (Picture 3)
They came from a poor era, an ordinary couple who just wanted to see each other and then got married for 48 years, yes, Grandpa left us in 2018, I guess he went to another world early to build a beautiful home for us, Grandma married Grandpa when he was 18 years old, Grandpa was 17 years old. Grandpa said that when Grandma was young, she always had two big long braids on her head, which may be what he called "euphemistic romance". I think he wanted to say: Grandma like that is beautiful. Grandpa was a man with a very bad temper but a strong working ability, he had quarrels with everyone in the village, but he was also a very good businessman and the most reliable person in that era, he became the director of the brick factory when he was about 20 years old, and operated and managed a team of nearly 500 people. Grandpa did not read much, his education and love for me was simple and direct, I also deeply loved him, he was the person I thought in my mouth and heart that I loved me the most in my life, according to my mother, I went to my grandfather's house when I was four or five years old, and when I was about to rest at night, I cried and shouted at the window, while slapping the window and saying my grandfather? I want to go home.
I was under the impression that he was a man with a great temper but a great preference for me. When I was a child, I broke my grandfather's cigarette, and my grandmother said a word to me, and my grandfather immediately said that it was okay, and my eldest granddaughter was happy.
His love is simple and direct, he does not know how to read, but will buy me the "best" stationery, making me happy and "always proud". After he fell ill, he often said: My eldest granddaughter will fly a plane to pick me up in the future, and he also wants me to be a good lawyer in Tsinghua or Peking University, in fact, when I was very young, I felt that my grandfather was "fantasizing" how can I fly a plane? How can I get my grades into Tsinghua Peking University? Later, I gradually understood: no, if it is him, he can most likely do it. If you fail to arrive, you will reap happiness on the road to change. I feel that I have always been myself in my bones, and I want to live myself because I am not willing to be ordinary in my bones, and I can still build my own business in that era of material scarcity. He is my hero and my source of strength, and I will always love him.
I remember watching the "Dream Quest" movie that if the deceased person remembers him, he will disappear into another world. So while I will not be there, love will always be there.
May the kind grandparents in the picture be happy in their old age, love has always been in the heart, and the lover has always been by his side. May my grandfather always be proud to keep being himself ❤️