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In family education, if the father is absent for a long time, the impact on the child is very serious.
If the family is a son, the father is absent for a long time, then the people who can be referred to by the child are basically women, mothers, grandmothers, kindergarten teachers, school teachers, most of them are women.
Decades ago, when we evaluated a handsome young man, we would say that this was a "cream boy", and after a few decades, we said that this young man was a "small fresh meat", and now, many people describe it as a "little milk dog".
You see, boys, slowly went from being a lad to a dish, and finally to a pet. It has become a female perspective to evaluate and pity men, and this nature has actually changed.
There is also a terrible reality, if the boy in the process of growing up, long-term no father as a stable indicator to refer to, then the boy's personality in all aspects is likely to become a little girl, which is a very serious consequence.
What if there is a daughter in the family? We now say that many girls are like women, why?
Dad has been missing at home for a long time, and this girl will involuntarily make up for the role of the male, he rushed to the front, work, carry things, personality.
We say that girls are good, what is "sa", heroic and sassy, originally described as a boy, the characteristics of men are expressed, which is also more serious.
The most serious point is that if the father is missing for a long time, whether it is in a family with a son or a daughter, the child lacks the parameters of gender relations.
Boys don't know what a state a man should be in at home and how he should love his wife.
Girls are relatively unfamiliar with men themselves, and she does not know what kind of love role model to follow to find her other half.
Thus, when entering into a relationship between the sexes, boys and girls are flustered, strange, and frightened.
Men must return to the family, must love their wives well, love their children, this is a normal family relationship.
Both father and mother are indispensable and important roles in family education, and even single-parent families cannot disappear into the lives of children.