In the Yuan Dynasty, Guo Shouzheng compiled the book "Twenty-Four Filial Pieties", which recorded the stories of 24 ancients who filial piety to their parents and provided for their parents in order to inherit the "filial piety culture" of Confucianism.
Among them, there is an allusion to "nursing aunt is not sluggish", which is about the great-grandmother of Cui Zhen in the Tang Dynasty who is old and has lost her teeth, and her grandmother feeds her mother-in-law with her own milk every day; so for several years, the mother-in-law does not have to eat other things, and her body is also very healthy. Later, Cui Zhen became a high-ranking official, obeyed his great-grandmother's last will and testament, and was also very filial to his grandmother.
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Recently, in the Yingpan Mountain Scenic Area of Huzhou, Zhejiang, this sculpture of "Nursing Girl Not Slacking Off" has aroused heated discussion among netizens.
According to relevant reports, the woman is naked, feeding breast milk for her mother-in-law, and inexplicably appears in public, which is indeed indeed indecent. In the previous response, the scenic staff said: "Twenty-four filial pieties are handed down from generation to generation by the ancestors, and the person who complained may be a relatively young person, and he may not understand filial piety." ”
At present, with the intervention of the relevant departments, the sculpture has been demolished.
Visiting the scenic spot encounters the breast exposed breast sculpture, I think most people will feel embarrassed. The scenic spot's previous response is more like shirking responsibility, is this a young person who does not understand filial piety, or is this embarrassing ancient filial piety out of touch with reality?
Filial piety comes first. Filial piety is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, but the form of filial piety cannot stop at the special stories of ancient times, but should keep pace with the times and be close to the way of life of modern people.
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In 2012, the All-China Women's Federation Coordination Office for Aging Work, the National Office on Aging, and the Organizing Committee of the National Series of Activities jointly issued a new "24 Filial Piety" action standards, such as godparents learning to go online, calling parents every week, etc., which not only inherited the filial piety culture passed down from ancient times, but also innovated the form of filial piety, giving children a new reference standard for supporting their parents.
In the stories of the twenty-four filial pieties in ancient times, in addition to the "perverted" filial piety such as the grandmother's inability, there is also no shortage of stories that violate common sense such as entertaining relatives and burying children and serving mothers, which are more like foolish acts after being bound by filial piety than expressing filial piety.
Therefore, these filial piety culture craps are really not worth publicizing and promoting. True "filial piety" is dedication, not against human nature.
Filial piety to parents and sharing worries for parents in a realistic situation is enough to reflect the meaning of "filial piety".
In Taojiang, Hunan Province, an 11-year-old boy dug up 800 kilograms of bamboo shoots in two days, and all the money from selling bamboo shoots subsidized the family. According to reports, the boy's parents are sick, and there is a 9-year-old sister in the family, and the boy will help his parents work on weekends to reduce the burden.
We often say that the children of the poor are in charge of the house. 11 years old, which should be the age of being cared for by the family, has become the "top pillar" of a family.
The boy's understanding is touching, and it also gives us a glimpse of the current situation of children in poor families. Behind the "digging up the bamboo shoots" is the helplessness and hardship brought about by the premature life, and accepting this hardship is the precocious cognition and conscious action of the little ones on "family responsibility".
Caring people come to help, the official WeChat public account of the Taojiang County Agricultural and Rural Bureau in Tuyuan.
Filial piety is actually an act of "exchange" of love, "feeding back" is caused by "licking calves", and the love and care of family members is the warmest gift in the world.
On April 18, Nanjing girl Xiaolin posted a blind box photo in the circle of friends and made a wish to "want". After the grandmother saw it, in order to fulfill her granddaughter's wishes, she made the same steamed bun blind box according to the picture style.
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As a kind of "speculative" goods, blind boxes may surprise consumers or may disappoint people. But grandma's own handmade steamed bun version of the blind box, each one is a unique treasure, is a hidden model that money can't buy.
Grandma's fairy craft has aroused the praise of many netizens, and what is even more enviable is that this warm and direct love, with deep intentions, is irreplaceable.
Editor: Ding Hui Intern: Qi Qianqian Proofreader: Wu Xingfa