Husband and wife have been separated for a long time, can the wife persist for a long time? Let's take a look at what two women who have been married for several years have said! Are you also separated? What do you think about this, welcome to leave a message to discuss!
In the TV series, we have always played the legend of distance and beauty, in fact, this legend is not like this for a married woman, who has been separated from her husband for a long time, and it does not feel like this!
For women who have been married, long-term separation of the two places, they have different understandings of different ideas, let's take a look at the hearts of two married and long-term separation of women in two places.
First, Sister Li is 35 years old this year, and the relationship between Sister Li and her husband before and after marriage has been very, very good. With the birth of the child, the husband and because of the work of the transfer to the field work, at the beginning of the li sister and parents did not agree with the husband to work in the field, but this transfer work is not only a salary adjustment but also to the position to be promoted, for the husband of sister Li is a rare opportunity, the birth of the child, the parents gradually become older, the pressure of life also increased, and finally the husband chose to work in the field, just at the beginning, the husband basically has a WeChat video every night, as the husband's work is getting busier, Gradually, the husband has not taken the initiative to send videos and call Sister Li, and all the affairs at home are taken care of by Sister Li alone, and the feelings are more and more like a person's affairs.
Sister Li said frankly that if such a day persists for half a year or a year, it does not matter, but if it is three years and five years, she will definitely not be able to hold on, after all, her age is not very old, whether it is psychological or physiological, it needs to be cared for by the people she loves.
Second, Sister Zheng has entered the 45-year-old, and her husband is also staged for almost ten years, Sister Zheng said that at the beginning of the separation of two places is quite unaccustomed, but because of such a long time, slowly has become more and more accustomed to a person with children, a person to take care of parents, living a life Husband and wife Two people always quarrel, but every time the husband comes back, the husband is every one to give her a hug, she also has no temper with the husband's hug.
But Sister Zheng also said something that made me have to think, she said that after all, two people in different places, the feelings of both sides will become more and more weak over time, and the life between husband and wife will become more and more like strangers, which is a very bad performance for marriage and feelings, Sister Zheng also said that at this age, there is no other idea in her heart, as long as the parents of the children in the family are taken care of, it is very OK, no matter how long they live apart, they can insist, because these years have been very accustomed, As long as the husband comes back for the New Year's Festival.
Obviously it is a family of two people, obviously it is a marriage cigarette of two people, but because of life and work, it is indeed very sad, I believe that we are surrounded by a lot of such marriage smoke, such a family. Are you also experiencing such marriage smoke, because where there is a job, there is no home, and where there is a home, there is no job. If there is a comment, let's communicate together!