What exactly does Scorpio really want?

What exactly does Scorpio really want?

Scorpio is a very proud sign, if the ugly point is a very lazy sign, generally speaking, they will not do a thing for no reason, can drive them to do something or can make them persevere, must be a goal, a certain belief, you can also understand that Scorpio do things with a strong purpose.

For example, Scorpio is ready to lose weight, but the self-discipline is poor, but if the opposite sex he likes says "you seem to have lost weight recently" The scorpion will guide the brain to be forced to self-discipline because of this recognition; or a scorpion man, who often punches in the circle of friends for fitness photos, can get a lot of praise every time, then he will be more likely to stick to it because of the satisfaction brought by these praises.

But it should be clear that people as proud as Scorpio, what they need is never the approval of others, but their own ability to perceive happiness in the pursuit of goals and achieve goals. To put it bluntly, Scorpio disdains to prove it to others, but when he has a meaningful goal in his own brain, it is easier for him to find the motivation for life.

To take a very simple example, most people don't like to go to work, but I have a Scorpio friend, he is particularly motivated to go to work every day, more active than colleagues, and then I asked him the reason, he told me that when there was no goal before, going to work every day consumed a lot of enthusiasm for him, the whole person was also very resistant, and then with the increase in age, he had a sense of savings, and then he set a deposit goal for himself, and now he feels particularly meaningful every day step by step approaching the goal, and the resistance to work is naturally smaller.

So what does Scorpio want? In a word, Scorpio is always the most motivated when he has goals and pursuits, and if something can make him willingly burn himself, then he is the happiest time.

In other words, when the Scorpio brain feels meaningless, any fun thing is a kind of pain and torture, but once the Scorpio firmly believes in something, he has faith, then the most painful things will be cultivated by him as a kind of enjoyment.

This point is not too obvious in the relationship, for example, everyone thinks that Scorpio is very abrasive in love, likes to love and kill each other, two people torture and torture, and most people can't stand this mode of getting along. But I tell you responsibly that once Scorpio really moves, then love and kill each other, torture each other, bumpy feelings, he is happy instead.

That's why "Scorpio will always be grateful to those who can take care of him very happy, but Scorpio will miss those who can make him unhappy" Why? Because he is willing, he feels more meaningful, and the relationship will be deeper.

In fact, the meaning of Scorpio has never been a kind of false emptiness, there is only one point, whether he wants to or not, whether he wants to or not, which is something that has no law to follow. There is only one thing that can make him feel happy, which can bring the greatest meaning to Scorpio.

In fact, Scorpio's happiness and unhappiness basically come from "people", you don't look at Scorpio is very proud, but he is not self, they are more to establish emotional connections with others to obtain happiness and unhappiness.

This is true of Scorpio at any stage, such as when Scorpio learned well when he was a child, as long as he was stiff with his classmates, he would be unhappy; when he became an adult, he would have a successful career, as long as he did not love the person he wanted to love the most, he would not be happy

So what does Scorpio need? There are two points, first, there is a belief that makes him willing to give. Second, have a friend or lover who is very appetizing and can make him feel happy.