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(Shan Ge talks about emotions, picture from the Internet)
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Preface
In this life, people are like sailing against the current, and if they do not advance, they will retreat. At any time, let yourself choose to be strong, choose to face difficulties, no matter when and where, as long as you do not give up and do not give up, you will win.
Life is originally an experience, always experience the sun, will also experience the wind and rain, always have to experience the good times, will also experience the adversity, this is life.
As the saying goes, life is not satisfactory nine times out of ten, in fact, many times, people live is the process of constantly experiencing various encounters.
However, if you think about it, all encounters in life are temporary, just as after the storm, the sun will appear; after the dark clouds, it is a clear sky.
No one's life is calm and calm, whether it is a reef or a shoal, a bumpy honor or disgrace, these are the scenery that life needs to experience.
Therefore, don't let yourself think too much, take every step of life, live every day of life, sooner or later will encounter, what belongs to you will eventually belong to you.
01
"Encountering ups and downs is temporary, and a life without ups and downs is incomplete"
Albert Einstein said: I think that setbacks and tribulations are opportunities to exercise willpower and increase ability, and speaking of this, I would like to express infinite gratitude to those who do everything possible to frame me! On the road of life, everyone will encounter difficulties and setbacks, depending on whether you can overcome it. Victorious, you are the hero, the strong man of life.
The road of life cannot always be smooth, there will always be ups and downs, there will always be highs and lows, there will always be twists and turns, this is the real life.
Life's ups and downs are always unavoidable, bumps are a kind of tribulation, in fact, it is also a wealth, only after experiencing many ups and downs in life, can we better experience ourselves, make ourselves more mature, more powerful.
Just like the heroes in martial arts novels, most of the people who can become famous, successful, and become heroes in the end will encounter various ups and downs, such as Guo Jing, who lost his father when he was not yet born, and has not felt what is fatherly love since he was a child, and a life of dependence on his mother and his mother.
However, the ups and downs of life and the misfortune of life have created Guo Jing's spirit of self-improvement and courage to bear hardships, learning martial arts assiduously from an early age, following the continuous training of the masters in the rivers and lakes, and finally becoming a generation of patriotic heroes who love the country and the people.
Zhang Wujie in "The Book of the Dragon Slayer in the Heavens" is even more so, and the ups and downs and misfortunes of life are even worse than Guo Jing. Although he was born with his parents by his side, he had one more righteous father than others.
However, born in ice and fire island, his daily life is very monotonous, but also very difficult, and then it is difficult to follow his parents to leave the uninhabited ice and fire island, but on the way he was injured by bad people and poisoned, his life hangs in the balance, and then he saw his parents commit suicide under the persecution of bad people.
Little Zhang Wuji instantly became an orphan, for such a life encounter, presumably it is difficult for ordinary people to bear, but for an optimistic and strong person, no matter how many encounters and ups and downs are temporary, and even think that a life without ups and downs is incomplete.
In the end, Zhang Wuji relied on his wisdom and courage to overcome the ups and downs and tribulations of life, and even under the continuous experience of the ups and downs, he overcame many evils, became the real strong man in life, harvested happy love, and lived a happy life.
Therefore, when life encounters ups and downs, there is no need to think too much, there is no need to complain, all encounters are temporary, to believe that everything will be fine, there will always be a cloud opening sunrise moment.
02
"Suffering is temporary, and without pain you will not cherish happiness"
Beethoven said: Suffering can destroy people, and suffering people can also destroy suffering. Creation requires suffering, and suffering is a gift from God. One of the great virtues of a great person is that they persevere in the face of disadvantages and hardships.
In the journey of life, it is inevitable to encounter pain, disappointment and blows, as Beethoven said, suffering is a gift from God, when suffering comes, we should not choose to escape and escape, but should summon up courage to face.
The Indian poet Rabindranath Tagore once said in his poem: Let me not beg for my pain to be still, only hope that my heart can conquer it.
We must always firmly believe that suffering is temporary, and we should also let ourselves understand that there is no happiness without pain, and there is no need to think too much.
Then, summon up the courage to exert the power of the self to conquer the pain. You can think of the pain you encounter as a mountain that you must cross, and only by successfully reaching the top can you completely overcome the entanglement of pain.
You know, believing in yourself, using your own strength to overcome pain and get through difficulties, is a kind of happiness, and this happiness is a joy of victory.
It is precisely because this victory is not easy to come by, and precisely because it is very difficult and difficult to fight with pain, that the triumphant song of the final victory is even more moving and loud.
Napoleon said: Victory is not glorious if it is conquered without hardship. This sentence is full of strong and brave pride!
So, when you're in pain, don't let yourself think too much, you just have to think about the deeper pain of others.
Every pain is a test, every pain is the deepest realization, and every pain is temporary.
On the battlefield of life, as long as we can summon up our fighting spirit, we will certainly be able to overcome all kinds of pain in life.
03
"Failure is temporary, and without failure there is no success"
Newton said: If you ask a person who is good at skating how to succeed, he will tell you: 'Fall, get up', that's success.
I believe that in this world, there is no one who has not experienced failure, but only the failure experienced is large or small.
When we were very young, the phrase "failure is the mother of success" is already familiar, in fact, this is not a simple slogan, but a real truth.
People living, should never fear failure, but should learn to face up to their own failure, and even dare to embrace failure, as a friend of adult life, not an enemy.
Unless you don't want to succeed, you're afraid of failure.
You know, no matter how many failures are temporary, they can be surpassed and overcome.
The most profound experience of failure is that of american film actor Stallone, who has failed more than five hundred times to sell his script.
However, in the face of such a ruthless blow, Stallone did not choose to be discouraged, nor did he choose to give up, nor did he think too much, he just chose to be persistent, firmly believing that he would have a successful day.
Later, we all knew he succeeded and fell in love with his films.
In a way, isn't Stallone's success based on his failures again and again? If he hadn't experienced so many failures in his life, and if he didn't firmly believe that his failures were only temporary, would he still have the success later?
The answer is self-evident, so when each of us encounters failures in life, we should not give up lightly, we should grit our teeth and insist, and believe that our failure is temporary, and there is no success without failure.
Many times, hope is not far away, success and failure are only a wall apart, when you can withstand the setbacks of failure, do not let yourself think too much, only to think that all the failures in life are temporary, there will always be a successful day, you are really not far from success.
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