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The Wang family has a daughter who has just grown up, Xuanxuan is 11 years old this year, has grown up to be generous, paviliony, is a girl who everyone will praise when they see it, And Mother Wang is also very happy, thinking that her daughter has been raised well, and she also has a credit.
Once, When Mother Wang went home as usual, she heard the neighbors chatting with people at the staircase, and it was her family Xuanxuan!
"You look at the girl of the Wang family with a bright appearance, and you don't know how ashamed she is!" Running naked all day and often to the balcony, we sometimes accidentally see it all the time! ”
When Mother Wang heard these words, she was stunned and completely overwhelmed.
But think about it carefully, the neighbor is indeed right, Xuanxuan is often naked at home, sometimes take a shower and forget to take a towel, or change clothes and forget to take it, just naked past the living room and run to the balcony to collect towels and clothes.
Wang's mother also reminded Xuanxuan, saying that 11-year-old girls have begun to develop, have their own privacy, and can no longer be naked to be seen by others, and the female big avoids her father, even if her father and mother can't. But Xuanxuan has been like this since she was a child, and she can't change it for a while.
Listening to the neighbor's "comments" on her daughter, the mother felt that her face was hot, blushed, and was determined to teach her children avoidance and privacy awareness.
Traditional Chinese culture will make our parents ashamed to talk to their children about sex-related topics, but sex education does not only exist in books, but also in the details of our lives.
If you give your child sex education early, the sooner the child will know where the "sense of boundaries" between men and women is, which behaviors are OK, and which behaviors can not have their own judgment standards, so as to learn to protect their own bodies and not act arbitrarily.
1. Correctly guide children to understand the difference between men and women, and do not bathe with the opposite sex after the age of 3
Children begin to have gender awareness around the age of 2, and they begin to feel different physical characteristics between men and women, so parents can slowly instill gender education knowledge in their children during this period, such as what the physical characteristics of men and women are.
When the child is 3 years old, he will also identify with his own gender and begin to understand the difference between the body of men and women, at which time the opposite sex parents can no longer bathe with the child, to let the child understand: the body is their privacy, even if it is a very close parent can not touch it at will.
If you are worried that your child will not be able to take a bath, then be accompanied by same-sex parents and gradually let your child try to bathe on their own to cultivate a sense of privacy.
2. You cannot change your clothes in front of your child
After the child grows up, it is taboo to change clothes in front of the child, especially after the child is 3 years old, he will have curiosity about people's physical characteristics, and this move undoubtedly increases their curiosity, and even lets the child have a similar imitation, and the child himself has become no boundary to the privacy of the body.
3. Treat your physical development correctly
When the child reaches the development stage, the body will undergo obvious changes, and before that, parents should do a good job of ideological and psychological education for the child. Let them treat their physical development correctly, do not feel afraid and ashamed, and let the children understand that this is a normal phenomenon and that parents have come this way.
Girls should also teach them to protect against personal physiological problems, avoid embarrassing things in the first menstruation of puberty, and treat girls' personal development rationally.
4. Pay attention to the details of life, go to the toilet to close the door, can not defecate on the ground, can not kiss others casually, etc.
Sex education should be implemented into the details of life, and parents should also do a good job of exemplary demonstration, such as closing the door when going to the toilet, taking children out and not defecating on the ground, and not allowing children to kiss others or be kissed by others.
If this cannot be done, it will not only be an undercultured behavior, but also a false subconscious for the child to feel that their body is not private and can be exposed to everyone.
The earlier sex education is conducted, the greater the protection of the child. Dear mothers, how do you educate your children about sex? Welcome to the comment area to leave a message and share your parenting experience with everyone!
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