Ping'er: Qingwen, you unashamed, who is he?

Stills of Qingwen in the 87th edition of "Dream of the Red Chamber"
In the dream of the Red Chamber, Qingwen gives people the feeling that emotional intelligence is not high, there is no her in the circle of friends of Mandarin Duck, the raiders in yihong courtyard regard her as a powerful competitor, and the mother-in-law hates her for itching her teeth, but there is a person who has a good friendship with her, and can also make very private jokes, this person is Wang Xifeng's assistant Ping'er.
Ping'er stills in the 87th edition of "Dream of the Red Chamber"
Ping'er, because she and Baoyu have the same birthday, come to Yihong Courtyard to invite everyone to do her seat, and she also wants to return the seat. At this time, Ping'er did not know that Yihong Courtyard was privately celebrating Baoyu's birthday, or Qingwen's mouth was about to say it, and she was teased by Ping'er. This thing is so strange, Qingwen is such a sharp-toothed, when Ping'er teases her, she is too ashamed to return the mouth, because she has no face to say it.
Qingwen said, "If he is still seated today, he will come to you, and you will wait." Ping'er smiled and asked, "Who is 'he'?" Who is 'he'? Qingwen listened, turned her face red, hurried to hit, and said with a smile: "Your ears are pointed, listening to it really!" Ping'er smiled and said, "Yuck! Shameless bitch! This will be something, don't talk to you. I have something to do, go back and send someone to please. Less than one, I called the door. ”
From Ping'er's joking words, we see that Qingwen, who has sharp teeth, is speechless and too ashamed to speak. These words, Qingwen is really embarrassed to say, who is he? Ping'er knew but deliberately made fun of Qingwen with this, so it can be seen that Ping'er had already guessed Qingwen's thoughts. And these Qingwen are faceless to say, she is different from the attackers, she loves Baoyu deeply, but she does not want to be unspoken. She had refused Baoyu's request to take a bath together, and what she wanted was innocent love, bright and upright love, not Baoyu's lover who was sneaky like an attacker.
Stills from the 87th edition of "Dream of the Red Chamber"
It is precisely because Qingwen loves Baoyu deeply that she forgot her taboo and casually said him, but Ping'er's ears were pointed and she heard it, deliberately teasing her with this. Even if Qingwen has sharp teeth, she is also a girl who is not out of the cabinet, and these things are embarrassed to say.
Judging from Ping'er's joke about Qingwen, Qingwen is not a friend, at least she has a friend who can joke.
As the saying goes, love is deep, hate is cut. Qingwen was particularly hurt when she saw Baoyu come forward to defend the attacker and blame her. She argues with the attackers and loses her temper with Baoyu, which makes Baoyu misunderstand, thinking that she wants to leave Yihong Courtyard, so she wants to take away Qingwen. Thinking about that moment, Qingwen's heart was really afraid, she was afraid of leaving Yihong Courtyard, afraid of never seeing Baoyu again.
Later, she reconciled with Baoyu, and Baoyu did not hesitate to let her tear the fan in order to make her laugh. If Baoyu is a kind of dependence on attacking people, it is a kind of liking for Qingwen. Although this kind of liking is not necessarily love, it is enough to move Qingwen.
It was precisely because Qingwen's feelings for Baoyu in her heart were different, when she saw that the attacker had been privately promoted by Madame Wang to Baoyu's aunt, her heart was dissatisfied and dissatisfied. Unfortunately, she herself did not know that it was these grievances that harmed her, making her enemies everywhere in Yihong Courtyard, and was eventually thrown out of the Grand View Garden by Madame Wang.
In fact, before Qingwen was thrown out of the Grand View Garden, that is, on Baoyu's birthday, Qingwen couldn't help but say to Ping'er, "He will come to invite you", because of the kind of love that Qingwen could not hide in her heart, but she was used by Ping'er to tease Qingwen's unspeakable love.
The attacker's mother died of illness, and she went home to mourn her mother. At that time, the big girl rings that accompanied the baoyu house were Qingwen and Musk Yue. Qingwen was cold because of the fear of musk moon, at that time it was bedridden cultivation, but at this time Baoyu burned a hole in Jia Mu's clothes, and the craftsmen on the street could not weave and repair, and only Qingwen would have this boundary in the whole house.
Qingwen was afraid that Baoyu would be blamed, and reluctantly got up to make up for Baoyu, resulting in overwork at night, and the next day it was serious again. Qingwen weaved this friendship for Baoyu, and after the raider returned, she also mentioned it once, which showed how grumpy she was in her heart. Through this weaving, Baoyu and Qingwen's hearts became closer.
Later, Qingwen was secretly calculated and thrown out of the Grand View Garden by Lady Wang, when Qingwen was seriously ill, Lady Wang did not allow her to wear the clothes of Jia Fu, and only let her wear close-fitting clothes out of the garden. Qingwen had suffered from such anger there, and after experiencing this beating, Qingwen's body completely collapsed. When Baoyu went to see Qingwen, Qingwen still regretted that she hadn't made plans earlier.
In Qingwen's heart, she was given to Baoyu by the old lady, and she will also be an aunt in the future. She didn't want to be unspoken too early as the raiders, and she wanted to wait until the day when Jia Mu opened her mouth. As a result, she did not wait, but waited for Madame Wang's thunderous anger, and she was thrown out of the Grand View Garden. Before dying, Qingwen felt that since she had assumed the false name of the fox essence, she exchanged intimate clothes with Baoyu.
In the end, Qingwen still left with regrets, but her heart was frank. It is precisely because she is frank in her heart and is not as invisible as the attacker, when Ping'er teased her on Baoyu's birthday, she just felt embarrassed, embarrassed to say it, and would not be as afraid to hide her shame as the attacker.
Although such a Qingwen does not have many friends, her heart has also been warm. When Ping'er said to Qingwen in the sixty-third episode of the Dream of the Red Chamber, "Yuck! Shameless bitch!" When the atmosphere is not awkward, it is very active. It shows that Ping'er's heart has long known the identity of Qingwen, even if Qingwen said him, Ping'er only deliberately made fun of Qingwen about him, not really laughing at Qingwen.
It's just that in that era, there was only institutions, no freedom and love. Especially YaHuan, there is no qualification for love, Qingwen's love for Baoyu can only be placed in her heart, if Baoyu marries Daiyu, Qingwen is willing to see them happy. Unfortunately, Baoyu lost Qingwen and did not marry his beloved Lin sister, and that hurt him to see through the red dust after some tribulations.
I am Xiao Meng, telling you the story of "Dream of the Red Chamber".
Reference works: Cao Xueqin, Fat Yanzhai commentary on "Dream of the Red Chamber" Fat Collection