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What was it like to grow up in a patriarchal family? I'm afraid that those who have never seen it can never understand such pain, some time ago the news of Yu Yuexian's death let everyone see her unfortunate life, such as when she was a child, because she was a woman who was looked down upon by her family, she broke the news that anyone who saw herself could poke the door of the head, and then was scolded for "useless things spilled out of the water"...
Seeing this encounter, do you feel that life is very dark? But there is a singer in Taiwan who suffers more than the tragedy of Yu Yuexian, she is the singer actor Ji Baoru, some people said, as a big star, an event can earn ordinary people for several years of money, they are still pitiful? I want to say that I think so because you only see the appearance, many people are just external scenery, because being in the entertainment industry is not their own choice
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On the other hand, Ji Baoru's life, not to be a star is good, a star is really a disaster, Ji Baoru was born in an extremely patriarchal family, 15 minutes before her arrival, the twin brother was born 15 minutes in advance, it is said that the dragon and phoenix fetus a child hugging the two is a big happy event is not it? But Ji Baoru's father didn't think so
At that time, the traditional thinking of terror was a symbol of inauspiciousness, thinking that if anyone gave birth to a dragon and phoenix fetus, it was a symbol of inauspiciousness, so Ji Baoru was considered a broom star by her parents as soon as she was born, and her parents simply abandoned her, so she lived with her grandmother. But unexpectedly, this grandmother is not a good person, although Ji Baoru did not starve to death and grew up slowly, but her grandmother's care and love for her is very little
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For example, when she was a child, she did not know what sugar tasted, at a young age, she learned to observe the color, in order to make her grandmother angry and train herself, and then the turning point of life began at the age of 5 and a half, once the crew selected a small actor who would cry, grandma remembered Ji Baoru, who had beautiful facial features, and told her that as long as she could cry this time, she promised to give her money to buy candy to eat, and Ji Baoru was happy
Although I don't know what it means to cry, she works hard at the thought of sugar, and as a result, when she auditioned, she cried tears for 10 seconds, and her life was rewritten...
It is said that this is a good thing to be intimate with Grandma, right? But no, Grandma instead let Ji Baoru take leave to skip school, in order to send her to one crew after another, of course, the money earned was not in The hands of Ji Baoru, and later acted well and was found to sing very well, such as the album "Sunset Mountain Outside the Mountain" is a new benchmark on her songs
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When you can earn money, Ji Baoru does not seem to receive too many white eyes, but childhood is to face one cold machine after another, there is no happiness to speak of, but compared to this misfortune, more unfortunate is still behind, that is, gradually growing up, looking for her to play less and less supporting roles, Grandma is not willing to let the cash cow so gone, so she forcibly pulled 13-year-old Ji Baoru to a private clinic, injected with hormones that inhibit growth...
After that, Ji Baoru only grew old and did not have a long body, and her height was only 149 after adulthood, her round face was very childish, after seeing the singing talent, her grandmother stuffed her into the dance hall to earn quick money, seeing here, Ji Baoru felt that the first half of her life was already very strong, and she should meet the treasure of the nobles. Coincidentally, during that time in the song hall, she did meet Prince Charming, which was later her husband Yu Long
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This is a calm and not frivolous man, Ji Baoru refused to be married to his family, after marriage she gave birth to 3 children, decided to be a full-time wife, watching the good life slowly come out of the head, indeed, a few years ago she was spoiled into a princess, but just a few years later she found that her husband cheated, and then her husband died in a KTV fire, so Ji Baoru became a single mother
Because of the rush of life and the care of young children, Ji Baoru's mental mood is getting worse and worse, and even began to commit suicide later, she cut her wrist and drank medicine, but she was saved, and under her bad influence, the eldest son's irritability also became an abnormal child, the second son was infected with drug addiction, and the family could be said to be terrible...
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Seeing here is not absolutely compared to her own luck, even though the career may not be so smooth, even if the love is lost, but at least there is a warm family, with the love of parents, Ji Baoru's life seems to be spent in the trough forever.
Fortunately, the daughter is very strong, encourage and give her mother love, slowly warmed her heart, and now Ji Baoru gradually returned to normal, also began to do public welfare activities, and now the two sons are gradually on the right track, which is a normal life, it can be said that the first half of her life she suffered a lot, now Ji Baoru has seen through a lot, perhaps the unfortunate childhood needs to be made up with a lifetime, but she also learned to put it down
And also wrote a book "reverse love to win" to remember and record their own ups and downs in life, now she has become an optimistic person, but also become a person who spreads positive energy, yes, after reading her story, found that no one is bitter and she is not bitter, but as long as you are willing to put down the past, at any time you can have a new beginning, I hope that Ji Baoru will grow old gracefully in the company of his children in the second half of his life, and I also hope that everyone cherishes the people in front of you, cherishes the fate in front of you, does a good job in the present, and leaves no regrets!