Recently, Japanese table tennis star Ai Fukuhara announced his divorce.
Netizens were full of blessings: Congratulations to the soft rice man who left Taiwan.
There are even human body patches saying: No need to apologize, here is not the same as Japan's inability to apologize, you have not done anything wrong.
At the same time, jiang Hongjie, the male protagonist of the incident, also said: Thank you for your concern, I will go all the way with everyone's blessings.
Although it is an official declaration, netizens do not buy it, and soon the "comment area" hit him in the face: None of us are worried about you, and no one blesses you.
What's more, the soul asks: Are you worthy?
A marriage with two painting styles, now look back, Fukuhara Ai and Jiang Hongjie's relationship, it is difficult to say a word...
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Jiang Hongjie: Why should I take pictures with people who take nude photos, I also have to go to women to split their legs
Ai Fukuhara has been playing table tennis since she was 3 years old and 9 months old.
At the age of 5, she won the national championship of Japan (low section), and at the age of 12, she became the youngest female table tennis player in Japan.
It can be said that she has been the "child of other people's families" since she was a child.
She and Jiang Hongjie met at the East Asian Junior Table Tennis Championships for a long time, but because of the tension between language and competition, the two did not communicate.
Until 2014, Ai Fukuhara rested from a waist injury and "met" Jiang Hongjie again on social platforms.
In this way, "fate" brought them together, and two years later, they had a wedding.
After marriage, they sprinkled dog food everywhere.
When partying, hug selfies.
In the variety show, sweet kisses.
Their love became a "fairy tale" for everyone for a while, and everyone envied it.
But is this really the case?
With a long article published by Japan's Bunchun Weekly titled "The Whole Truth About Fukuhara's Love Divorce, Mentally Abusing Her Taiwanese Husband and His Monster Parents", this sweet cloak wrapped in real marriage was torn apart.
Fukuhara loves morning sickness and can't eat, Jiang Hongjie instead accuses her of malnutrition if she can't eat, which means that this affects the fetus.
After the pregnancy was stable, Fukuhara loved to eat more, and Jiang Hongjie said with disgust that he would not eat it, he would be fat.
Every day, Fukuhara ai did not clean up thoroughly, resulting in her unconventional bleeding many times during pregnancy.
After the birth of the child, Jiang Hongjie did not take much care of it, let alone share the housework.
Constantly using the identity of "Fukuhara Love Husband" to profit, forcing Fukuhara Ai to cooperate with her husband's pace.
Fukuhara loves to go to the dental clinic, dresses less plainly, and is scolded "you x son"...
There are many, many more outrageous details.
It is hard to imagine how such a weak and kind girl survived those years.
Before getting married, Fukuhara Ai had a lot of light on him, and compared with Jiang Hongjie, an eighteen-line athlete, even the income difference was huge.
It is not too much to say that it is married.
What can be exchanged for it?
Jiang Hongjie's sister often publicly exposed Fukuhara Ai's private life on social media for attention, and even called Fukuhara Ai directly in a state of mental exhaustion to scold Fukuhara Ai, "It's all your fault, making the atmosphere at home worse!" ”
The mother-in-law is also a superb one, and once said directly to Fukuhara Ai, "You are the hen that can lay golden eggs in our family." ”
And for Fukuhara Ai, the most "fatal" is the attitude of her husband, the man who swore an oath before marriage, "Little love does not need to change, I will support anything I will do, and after marriage, he gradually tore open the face of pseudo-affection."
When she hugged and took a photo with the photography master Norinobu Shinoyama, who was as respected as her father, Jiang Hongjie roared angrily: Why should I take a photo with someone who takes nude photos, I also have to go to a woman to split my legs!
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The hidden dangers brought about by the Japanese", Fukuhara Ai lost to "inferiority"
Since the end of January this year, Ai Fukuhara has disappeared from Weibo, and there is no sweet interaction with Jiang Hongjie.
And the wedding ring that had been worn on his hand also disappeared.
The same is true of Jiang Hongjie on the other side.
In her recent interview, Ai Fukuhara also said that she wanted to return to Japan to live.
Subsequently, the media exposed the news of Fukuhara Ai's "derailment", in fact, this point, Fukuhara Ai also made a calm response:
I'm not mentally stable, he's one of my good friends who support me, it's true(staying in a hotel) but I booked two rooms and spent the night at home as well, two people sleeping in different rooms.
After that, the two officially announced their divorce.
Fukuhara's marriage has gone from "sweet" to broken, and the fault is not only Jiang Hongjie, but also the hidden dangers brought about by her original family.
In Japan, most girls dream of being a good wife and mother.
Even public figures are no exception, such as sasaki, the God of Japanese otaku, who chooses to forgive even if her husband cheats on many people.
Ai Fukuhara is also one of them.
In her impression, her mother was the busiest person in the family and took good care of the whole family.
Under the cultivation and education of her mother, her personality is biased towards tradition, so in her consciousness, she will do laundry and cooking housework.
Even Jiang Hongjie after marriage was surprised.
And it is precisely this kind of "perfect wife" that will make Jiang Hongjie wantonly ask for it.
Therefore, when Fukuhara ai retired after marriage, guided him to play, and used his wife's fame to make money, these became his "rightful thing".
And once dissatisfied, it will be treated with "mental violence" and even scolded.
Poverty alleviation marriage and satisfying each other without a bottom line are always undesirable ways in feelings.
In addition to these, Ai Fukuhara also has a "sense of inferiority" in personality.
The first is appearance, although on the court she is like a goddess of war, killing all sides, but in reality, her positioning of herself is "short and fat".
In her eyes, Jiang Hongjie's appearance is tall and handsome, which is "difficult to reach" herself.
In addition, the lack of father's love from childhood also makes her long for a sense of security and care.
As for Jiang Hongjie, it is only when he sees the weakness of Fukuhara Ai that he will "blackmail" her and completely occupy her world.
Fortunately, Ai Fukuhara finally saw through it, and at the age of 33, he exchanged a high price for freedom.
The cost includes a mansion of NT$39 million, a claim of more than 200 million yen and a suspension of business, and outrageous child support.
Of course, Fukuhara Ai also knew the price, but she didn't regret it.
Liu Tao once said, "Seven years of living by the rules has made me live a humble and pale life in the good years that should have been full of vigor." ”
Looking back, Fukuhara Ai He Zeng was not another Liu Tao.
Lay down your body to love a person, retire from the peak of your career to become a full-time wife, maintain your family with your heart, and finally suffer a tragic injury.
The ending of Ai Fukuhara was actually predestined long ago...
Therefore, in marriage, it is also necessary to be sober and rational, and the shackles in the name of "love" will eventually make a person leave one step ahead.
I hope that after this experience, Fukuhara Ai can truly be herself, love herself, and meet people who are truly worth paying for in the future.
Ai Fukuhara, everything has to start over
Text/Pippi Film Editorial Department: An Yan
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