It is better to choose to be loved than to choose to be loved
To all who have been loved but have lost what they love, to those who have never received love, to those who, because they still love, choose to deceive themselves. This is a mirror, brave to face, brave to give up, brave to start over.
When he doesn't love you, whether he's loved you in the past and then forgotten, or whether he never loved. When you can't be the one in his heart, his heart won't remember you. Although he knows that you love him deeply, he prefers to pretend that he does not know.
When he doesn't love you, please don't bother him when you're unhappy or in trouble. He's definitely not where you should be at the moment. Maybe he will lightly comfort you when he receives your call, but that's all. Maybe you'll want something more, so you say, "Let's meet." And he must have been irritable. When he doesn't love you, your love, your man, will seem much cheaper. You have the upper hand, it's human nature. He'll say, "Okay, but I've got a little bit of a thing right now." Call me again later. Or I can call you. "And you must not take it seriously at this time, he just found a not very clever reason to prevaricate you." Please, don't really wait, don't lie to yourself.
When he doesn't love you, please don't tell him about your trivia, maybe at the moment, you just want to make each other more familiar. However, he has no time and is not interested in understanding you, your life, your past, your strengths and weaknesses, and what does it have to do with him? Even if it is said. He will soon forget, just as he forgets your birthday, your address, your phone. Without love, you are doomed to squeeze into his life. Even if it's just a tiny corner you want.
When he doesn't love you, please don't shed tears in front of him and don't tell him when he's sick. He can't give you care and care. At best, sympathize, and please be proud of you, do not give up the pride that belongs to you. Although too many people have lost too much in the face of love. I didn't even have the courage to stand up. What is pride? However, remember that only those who love themselves can truly cherish you. Instead, bystander sympathy. commiseration.
Some time ago, I saw a story that made people worth reflecting:
Stone asked: Why is it that when they are together later, the two people do not have the passions they had before, and are more of an interdependence?
The Buddha said: That's because your heart has subtly transformed love into affection...
Stone touched his head: Affection?
The Buddha went on to say: When love reaches a certain level, it will be unconsciously transformed into affection, you will gradually see her as a part of your life, so that you will have more tolerance and understanding, and only affection is what you have arranged from the beginning of birth to heaven, and you have no choice, so what you do later can only be to adapt to your affection, no matter how noble you are born, you must accept them without any conditions, and be responsible for them and be good to them
Stone thought for a moment, nodded, and said: "Family affection is indeed like this."
The Buddha smiled: Love begins because of mutual appreciation, falls in love because of the heartbeat, and marries because they are inseparable from each other, but more importantly, it takes tolerance, understanding, habit and adaptation to work together for a lifetime.
The stone was silent: it turned out that love was also a kind of fate.