Jia Baoyu, the protagonist of "Dream of the Red Chamber", has a distinct and strong idea of "valuing women over men", whether it is the sisters around him or the villagers he met by chance, he almost does his best to care for every girl, and he is afraid to take care of them. "Daughters are flesh and bones made of water, and men are flesh and bones made of mud. When I see my daughter, I am refreshed; when I see a man, I feel that it is muddy and smelly." is his famous saying. However, his words and deeds did not match, and consciously or unconsciously, he killed three young and beautiful girls, all of whom died in the first eighty times.
The first is Jin Jun'er. The beautiful and lively Jin Jun'er is the maid of his mother, Madame Wang, and the two usually have a good relationship and often joke. The day before the Dragon Boat Festival, Baoyu came to Madame Wang and saw her mother taking a nap, and Jin Jun'er was pounding Madame Wang's legs while also sleeping with hazy eyes. He then came over to idle, Jin Jun'er originally did not pay attention to him, but he did not leave, took out a piece of Xiangxue Runjin Dan and put it in Jin Jun'er's mouth, and came to take people's hands and said: "I will beg you with my wife tomorrow, let's be in one place." In the face of such a flirtatious flirt, Jin Jun'er only said one sentence, "What are you busy with!" 'The golden hairpin fell into the well, and the only thing that has you is yours' I will tell you a Qiaozong'er, and you will go to the East Courtyard to take Brother Huan and Caiyun. At this time, Madame Wang woke up, and the cleaver hit Jin Jun'er in the mouth, and Jin Jun'er confessed her mistakes and pleaded for mercy without Getting Madame Wang's forgiveness, insisting on throwing her out, at this time, the initiator Jia Baoyu had already run away without a trace, and there was no responsibility at all. Then Jin Jun'er committed suicide by throwing herself into a well, and a young and beautiful life disappeared. Although Jin Jun'er's death was directly caused by Madame Wang, it was inextricably linked to Baoyu. He felt guilty about this, and later tried his best to curry favor with Jin Jun'er's sister Yu Jun'er, and also made a special trip to the suburbs to burn incense and hang Jin Jun'er.
The second is Qingwen. Qingwen is the maid of Yihong Courtyard, she is clever and clever, and she is loyal to Baoyu, and is deeply loved by Baoyu. Under his connivance, Qingwen became more and more arrogant and willful, not opening the door for Daiyu, tearing the fan, scolding the little girl, despising other servant women, instigating Baoyu to pretend to be ill and deceive her parents, etc., she offended many people up and down. Therefore, a word from Wang Shanbao's family reported her down, and she was expelled by Lady Wang's orders during her serious illness. Unlike baoyu fleeing the scene in the Jin Jun'er incident, when Madame Wang disposed of Qingwen, Baoyu was on the spot, but in the face of the tragic departure of his beloved girl, he did not dare to say a word, nor did he dare to ask for a word of affection afterwards, watching Qingwen die in poverty and grievance, only shed useless tears, and wrote a "Furong Daughter Recitation" to talk about mourning.
The third woman killed by Jia Baoyu was the most easily overlooked, but this was also the one with the greatest responsibility. This woman is Third Sister You.
Although You Sanjie sank when she was a child, she already regretted her past, wanted to get rid of her unbearable fate, and was willing to wait for Liu Xianglian wholeheartedly. With Jia Lian's efforts, she has become engaged to Liu Xianglian, and a beautiful life is about to begin. However, when Liu Xianglian asked her friend Baoyu, she asked him how he knew that You Sanjie was absolutely beautiful? Bao Yu replied, "He is the two sisters-in-law brought by Zhen's stepmother." I was there for a month with them, how come I don't know? It's really a pair of special things, and his surname is You. Baoyu's tone is full of frivolity, "mixed" and "special" are simply ambiguous and contemptuous, where is the slightest respect? It is said that when Baoyu and You Third Sister Met at Jia Jing's funeral, he once took great care of these two beautiful girls. Seeing that a monk had come in, he stood there to block the entry, and then quietly told You Sanjie that the monks were dirty, and I was afraid that the smell would smoke the sisters; when You Erjie wanted to drink tea, the mother-in-law took Baoyu's bowl to pour tea, and he hurriedly stopped saying that his bowl was dirty, so that he could wash it and then pour the tea... Such a gentlemanly demeanor in person, but behind the scenes, with such a frivolous tone to evaluate them, it is really different and full of grease. It was his tone and attitude that made Liu Xianglian change her face immediately, and he "fell to his feet" and said, "This is not good, it is absolutely impossible to do." Except for the two stone lions in your east house, I am afraid that even the cats and dogs are not clean. "Then Liu Xianglian repented of her marriage and asked for a sword, and Third Sister You killed herself on the spot." The crushed peach blossoms were all over the ground, and the jade mountain was poured down and it was difficult to help. "In the death of Third Sister You, Jia Baoyu has an unshirkable responsibility. Liu Xianglian was his friend, and he subsequently disappeared. For the tragedy of You Sanjie and Liu Xianglian, Bao Yu seemed to be unaware of it, nor did he show any expression, even the "Dumb Overlord" was not as good as the "Dumb Overlord", and Xue Pan cried several times.
In the first eighty times of "Dream of the Red Chamber", the great tragedy has not yet opened, and the dead women are not many. There were only a few qin keqing, Jin Jun'er, You Erjie, You Sanjie, Qingwen, etc., but three of them were related to Baoyu. This fraternal young man is actually full of grease. He does love those daughters made of water, but he is also hurting and even "murdering" these beautiful girls with his flirtatious and weak love. A person who has no ability and courage and lacks responsibility, his love and appreciation, but manifested in the care and care of details, is just a small favor, once the big thing comes, it is really useless, which makes people extremely disappointed. The Red Chamber is not finished, but such a treasure jade, if Dai Yu encounters danger in the future, I am also deeply worried about his performance.