Many experts say that 0-3 years old is a critical period for the development of small babies, and they especially need the company of their mothers, so many mothers have become full-time mothers.
Why a mother is great, in addition to giving birth and breastfeeding, the greatest love is willing to achieve children, even at the expense of themselves.
The daily task of a stay-at-home mom is to take care of everything for the child and do all the housework, providing extra love for the mother.
The word "full-time mother" is particularly interesting, full-time is relatively part-time, we look for a job to apply for a job will have full-time and part-time choices, what does it mean to work full-time?
This means that there are only 8 hours of work per day, and there are two days off during the week;
It means that someone pays five social insurance and one gold, and there is a salary every month;
This means that there is overtime pay for overtime work and a year-end bonus at the end of the year;
The most important thing is that it means a platform that has the ability to perform, and a valuable opportunity to be recognized.
So what does it mean for moms to be full-time?
It means being needed around the clock by this home, and then being taken for granted.
Recently, a stay-at-home mom posted a set of pictures that described herself as bedridden for three days, showing the current situation at home three days later:
The living room was a mess of clothes, toys, blankets, toys, the kitchen was full of used pots and pans, a bunch of used paper towels in the corner, takeaway tableware, and all kinds of leftover food scraps, which could emit a foul smell through the photos.
After the mother angrily sent the photo, she began a new round of cleaning, and the netizens who saw the picture sighed: Bao Mom is not easy, very distressed. Some netizens said angrily: Where did Dad go?
What do we see in this set of pictures? Is this mother very important at home, inseparable from her?
No, no one will lament that mom doing housework is a skill.
What we are lamenting is that this mother does not do housework, and there is no one in the family to do housework;
We lament that being sick and having no one to help is just putting a backlog of work;
We lament that many stay-at-home moms suffer from something similar.
So what to do with stay-at-home moms?
A large part of the reason for being a stay-at-home mom is that the family needs the mother to give up her job and return to the family, not be unable to work.
All members of the family should recognize and respect the mother's self-sacrifice, especially the mother's own recognition of herself, and ask the family members to do their own things as much as possible, especially the father to participate in the family life. For example, the mother cleans up the dishes and the father bathes the child; or the mother washes the clothes and the father checks the child's homework.
Mom wants to send a task to Dad, only let him move, will understand Mom's usual hardships. Empathy is a non-existent word, and you can only feel it if you do what you normally do.
In life, many fathers feel that it is very hard to earn money and work outside, and mothers just do some housework at home. In fact, this is a matter of course for people who have not done housework, whether it is working at home or outside the home, both are very hard.
Dad can rest, mom can also, both work hard for the family, the two must understand each other.
Many stay-at-home moms are less serious about themselves because they are around the clock with their children and housework.
Clothes are not changed, faces are not washed, disheveled, and even body management is abandoned.
This is disrespect for yourself, you yourself do not respect yourself, how to ask others to respect you?
Dressing yourself up is the beginning of a good day and the first step to self-recognition.
You take your child out to play, and you have a beautiful and exquisite mother to accompany you, and your child will feel that there is light on his face.
In addition, Bao Mama must also constantly supplement herself, after all, the external beauty can not give herself the courage, the inner beauty is the foundation of the society.
Stay-at-home mothers should enrich themselves in their leisure fragmented time: read books and look at the world, not disconnected; children go to training classes Moms also go to school, learn together and grow together.
When the child is older, the housework is less, the full-time mother can work part-time, and when she enters the society, she finds that she is okay, and there is still room for it to achieve another world.
Some people say that the Chinese character is very interesting, "marriage" is a woman who faints before getting married, so what about "mother"?
"Mom" is a woman who is willing to carry the child like a horse to become a mother.
Being a mother is not easy, because there is no relationship in the world that cannot be solved, only the mother is: once you have a child, you will always be a mother.
Full-time mother is a stage of motherhood, not mandatory, and because this is not mandatory, it is more valuable to stay-at-home mothers.
It is the society that has formed the "male lord outside the female lead" in most people's minds, and it is love that makes the mother choose to be a full-time mother.
Two variety shows that were very popular before, I don't know if you have seen it: one is "Where Daddy Goes" and the other is "Mom is Superman". Behind these two variety shows, all reflect the mother's important efforts at home, which should also be the reason why the show is very popular.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong.
At the end of the article, I salute all the mothers in the world, especially those who have been a period or are being "stay-at-home mothers": Mothers who are reading this article, please love yourself a little more. May the effort be rewarded, may the mother always laugh.