At 10, you wear a bed sheet and a mosquito net over your head and fantasize about your wedding in front of the mirror. At 20, you want to have a relationship that doesn't break up, meet the right guy, and spend the rest of your life with him. At 30, you will resist hearing the word "married" and your life does not want to be defined. Now that I have waited, I don't want to rush it.
There are always people who say that it is difficult for women to marry after the age of 30, but it seems that some men are not easy to find partners after the age of 30, but it is slightly easier than women in comparison. Some people are 30 years old and not married, have no car, no house, no face, no figure and no family. Some people are not married at the age of 30, but they have a car, a house, a face, a body and a family, and the opposite sex is constantly related.
The latter will not be anxious because he is single and not married, but will enjoy his single life, and such a person's family will not be so anxious. In contrast, the former, the pressure from the family and friends around may be greater, as the surrounding friends gradually get married and have children, the pace of marriage is getting faster and faster, and the older the age, the more anxious.
Remember that "famous" interview clip on the Internet? It was a 60-year-old grandfather who grabbed the microphone and said directly: "Children don't often see what law I violate, and if I don't get married at the age of 30, it's called breaking the law, and I should be sentenced!" "So, is it really that scary not to get married at 30? Are you in a hurry when you're 30 and not yet married?
Most of my friends around me are married, and I'm the only one left in the college dorm room who is single, and they're all married and have kids. Whenever the housemates get together, their common topic besides the husband and children is to persuade me to find a man to marry quickly. My parents had been pressed hard in previous years, and in the last two years they seemed to have given up on me. I'm not in a hurry right now, sometimes I'm trying to find someone, and the lonely nights aren't so long.
But after watching too many friends' marriages, there are too many unhappiness, and too little happiness and love. I've also been in a failed relationship twice, so if I were to gamble the rest of my life on the happiness of my marriage now, I would be a little out of the nerve. Instead of finding someone to gamble on because I am in a hurry, it is better to go with the flow, I still believe that there is such a destined person, and I do not want to pay attention to it casually.
She has a car and a house and looks, and perhaps the failed love experience and the marital status of the people around her cause her to have a little fear of marriage. She is financially independent, a person can live very comfortable, afraid that two people together, affecting the current quality of life, after all, marriage in addition to love and romance, chicken and dog fragments also account for half.
I'm 34 years old, and I've been in love twice before, and it didn't end well. Before last year, the family urged me to get married every day, relatives and friends took turns to introduce me to the blind date, and my parents almost took it to the rack on my neck to force marriage. Because of the epidemic, they suddenly did not urge me, and said let me do a good job, and the rest of the fate, which shocked me. Or maybe they've given up on me.
Now I have a lot of fun every day, and whether a person is doing well or not is not because getting married makes him better off. Marriage is not a life-saving straw for a bad life, it should be a pleasant cooperation between two people who can understand themselves hand in hand with 1+1 greater than 2. So when will we be able to live to understand that there is an economic basis, and it is not too late to consider marriage.
I am a medical student, graduate school I am almost 30, 29 years old just ended an eight-year long-distance relationship, very bad, originally not worried about my emotional problems parents, began to worry about my marriage. But they are not particularly urging me, side by side with the end of that relationship, my parents are also afraid of forcing me to be anxious and what to do.
But I'm a little anxious, after all, I'm in my 30s, but I don't want to settle down. The reason for breaking up with my ex-boyfriend is quite realistic, because he is 30 and does not have a stable source of income, and I feel that he cannot give me a stable home. I would rather have a high-quality life than two people worrying about chai rice oil and salt. I was waiting for the one who could give me a stable and warm home to show up.
Indeed, her career has just started, and there is a great future in the future, and she cannot listen to the advice of her parents, relatives and friends because she is 30, and get married and have children in a hurry. She may be like a person of her class, not bothered by the lack of a place to live, not worried about chai rice oil and salt, which is reasonable.
It is true that women after 30 years old are not married, but there is nothing wrong with wanting a happy family at 30 years old, and it is worth it. There is nothing wrong with not rushing to get married at the age of 30, pursuing yourself and being happy is worth it. There is no need to choose to marry in a hurry because of the age of 30, there is nothing wrong with being picky, after all, it may not be able to go far in marriage. Instead of gambling on happiness, wait slowly and go with the flow.
You are 30 years old and not yet married, you can not be in a hurry.