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You're brushing the circle of friends, and the circle of friends is also brushing you.
The circle of friends is between the square inches, and it is also a big place to see through human nature.
Some people say: "People in the circle of friends are friends who like it." ”
Tell you, don't take the circle of friends as a circle of life, not all friends, want you to get better and better, not all people, are trustworthy. The circle of friends is a platform for knowing people and a platform for interaction, but people who really care about you are often not in the circle of friends. Really don't think that the person who likes you really cares about you.
When you have nothing, don't send a circle of friends. Instead of complaining in the circle of friends every day, it is better to do things in a down-to-earth manner and change a person's destiny, often starting from changing living habits.
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When you have nothing, the circle of friends you send will most likely be ridiculed.
Colleague Xiaomei resigned last summer.
When Xiaomei resigned, she swore: "I can do whatever I want, it's better than going to work." ”
As the saying goes, "Everyone has their own aspirations." "As long as Xiaomei has a dream, she will boldly chase it, and no one will object."
After resigning, Xiaomei first traveled for more than half a month, and then opened a nutritious breakfast restaurant. The business of the breakfast shop, tepid, and the idea of Xiaomei, are far away. Xiaomei thought about making a lot of money, so she borrowed more than 100,000 yuan, doubled the breakfast restaurant, turned it into a small hotel, and invited five or six waiters.
Now, Xiaomei's small hotel is closed because the business is too poor to make ends meet. From resigning from the oath to the failure of entrepreneurship, Xiaomei's life has experienced great ups and downs and fallen into a trough. Xiaomei said in the circle of friends: "Nothing, everything will be fine." It was originally a very inspirational sentence that deserved praise, but she only received three or four likes, or her family. How do friends on weekdays disappear from the circle of friends at critical times?
In fact, when life is down, the circle of friends you send, others will "scorn", just like avoiding the garbage heap.
There is a saying in the countryside: "If the fire over there is big, it depends on that side." "In winter, when you go to the fire, you must choose a fire with strong flames; you have to find friends, but also to find friends who are very popular, and you will not mix with friends who have nothing every day."
People go up, water flows low. You have nothing, you are going to the low, your life direction, and most people's ideas, is contrary to the way, others will not be with you. The circle of friends you sent, others have seen, but no one cares about you, but secretly laughs at you, and some people immediately block you, afraid that you will borrow money from him and complain.
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People who really care about you are often not in the circle of friends.
Have you found that when you are down, you send a circle of friends, and not many people care, but in real life, there is always someone to help you. Let's say you fail to start a business, and your parents are worried about you and often call you.
My parents said, "If you can't hang out outside, you can go home." Although the family is not rich, it is still okay to have more people to eat. ”
The people who really want you to get better and better are your dearest loved ones.
Your parents, when you were down, would rather give you all the money to buy the coffin board and give you their own pension. They don't expect you to pay you back, they don't expect you to be rich, you just live in peace and security, and they're content.
Your lover, if he is willing to accompany you to make a comeback, he will definitely fight with you, comfort you with the most sincere words, and will also find ways to borrow money to solve the urgent need.
Your grandparents, your grandparents, they are older, but the feelings of caring for you have never diminished.
However, dearest people, in the circle of friends, rarely interact with you, and the elderly elders will not use smart phones at all, nor will they look at the circle of friends. Your lover, who is with you every day, does not need to know you through the circle of friends at all.
When you have nothing, in the circle of friends, who cares about you? If you want to know, you send a message to borrow money and see who will leave a message in time, who will like it, who will call you right away, and who will offer to help you. Perhaps, people in the circle of friends have chosen to "take a detour" and pretend to miss this message. Man, still cold and warm self-knowledge, don't expect anyone to empathize with you.
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Quit the circle of friends, leave more time, work hard, and start a business.
When you have nothing, don't complain about life in the circle of friends, and don't expect to meet noble people. Doing things in a down-to-earth manner and planning well for the future is the last word.
Three years ago, at a literature lecture, I met Xiao Du, a literary friend from Changsha. At the beginning, Xiao Du's circle of friends was very lively, he often published articles in newspapers and magazines, and he could also be regarded as a "celebrity" in the circle of friends. He took a good photo of the newspapers and magazines that had published articles and posted them to the circle of friends, and he could immediately receive dozens or hundreds of likes. I don't know when it started, Xiao Du's circle of friends became cold and clear, recently, I found that his circle of friends set "three days visible".
The afternoon before yesterday, I met Xiao Du on the street, and I almost didn't recognize him. It turned out that in the past two years, Xiao Du's mother had been seriously ill and had spent all the family's savings. In order to make more money, Xiao Du went to work in a smelter, worked part-time at night, and drove a taxi. I was busy all day, and I didn't have time to write or send a circle of friends.
Xiao Du said: "It's okay, everything is over, now I have my own taxi." ”
A single sentence of "okay" "passes through" all the suffering. Xiao Du said it very easily, but I didn't listen to it easily. When a person has nothing, the most precious thing is time and energy. If you hold your mobile phone every day, complain in the circle of friends, complain about life, and carefully edit the pictures of the "Nine Palace Grid", you are "self-defeating", and there is no intention of taking the initiative to stand up.
Sending circles of friends every day, often giving praise to others, caring very much about whether others have praised themselves, their hearts for other people's things, such a way of life, will only make people who have nothing, live more wretched.
Guo Degang said: "It is raining in the sky, the ground is slippery, I fall by myself, I climb by myself, I want my friends to help me, wine for wine, tea for tea." ”
Best friends are mostly people who use each other, and if you don't have any use value, you still climb up on your own, the most reliable.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
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