It is not a big deal for a woman to have several friends of the opposite sex, I am afraid that women will feel that a friend of the opposite sex is a very special existence, and there will be many ambiguous stories between them and him, which is unbearable as a husband.
Women feel that they are clean and self-sufficient, but they have normal contacts with each other, and occasionally when they wipe their guns and go out of fire, it is not intentional. Men make such mistakes, and so do women. Many women are not very demanding of their husbands, so they will be lower in their own requirements.
There are even women who will say that you can cheat, but don't let me know. So I take it for granted that I can also "desert" in marriage, do it hidden, and don't let my husband know, it is not a mistake. Different three views will make it impossible for both husband and wife to live together.
Many men feel that their feelings are being played with by women and will remember and hate women. Will do something unexpected that catches women off guard.
Emotion is an account, if each other are "heavily indebted", then two people will sleep in the same bed and dream. I will no longer accumulate love, but I want to let the other party learn a lesson and how to protect my rights and interests when I leave.
Couples will be disappointed in each other to the extreme, and will understand how wrong it is to have no obvious sense of boundary between them and their friends of the opposite sex. However, men will not give women a chance, will let her experience the pain of losing everything, at this time, will know that the original feelings as a child's play, the last fool is still their own.
Meng Yu and Ling Lin are a couple, Ling Lin's irresponsibility of feelings, let her lose her husband's trust, did not expect that her husband set so many traps, so that she eventually lost everything.
Love-hate feud with male girlfriends.
Ling Lin's male girlfriend Feng Hai, who had pursued Ling Lin madly before, but knew that Ling Lin did not love him, and retreated to the second place, willing to stay in the position of a good friend and accompany her for a lifetime.
Feng Hai later also got married, and his wife, Meiya, was virtuous and generous, and gave him a daughter. Originally, I thought that their feelings had been very stable at the level of friends, but Ling Lin and Meng Yu frequently contradicted each other because of small things, quarreling at both ends for three days, Ling Lin went to Feng Hai every time to complain, and the contact between the two people became more and more frequent.
Meng Yu originally wanted to find a good way to solve the contradiction between the two people, but Ling Lin did not give him a chance at all, did not say anything to him, and went to be with other people's men at every turn, and sometimes drank unconsciously, which made him even more angry.
Feng Hai also beat Meng Yu, saying that he did not cherish Ling Lin and did not want to marry her in the first place. Saying a lot of excessive words made meng tian and Ling Lin's marriage even more dangerous. Feng Hai also took Ling Lin to one of his studios, arranged for her to stay here, and promised ling Lin that she could stay as long as she wanted, and if Meng Yu did not apologize, then she would not give him a chance.
The two people stayed together and felt sorry for each other, and Ling Lin felt that Feng Hai was the one who was worthy of her trust, and had a relationship with him that should not have happened. Afterwards, Ling Lin regretted it very much, thinking that this made things more complicated, her heart still loved Meng Taste, she wanted to have a good talk with Meng Taste, and then decide how to go in the future.
Meng Yu actually went to find Ling Lin and knew about the fact that they lived together, but didn't say anything, and when she saw Ling Lin move back, it was as if nothing had happened, and she lived as before.
Ling Lin originally planned to divorce Meng Yu, but seeing him like this, the good memories between the two people in the past surged into her heart. So the idea of divorce was dispelled, and there was a lot less quarrel between the two people, and it seemed that the relationship was better than before.
However, the peaceful days did not last long, Feng Hai often texted her, describing the love of love, one after another, the two people will still have private meetings, coveting each other's feelings that should not exist.
It wasn't until Meng Yu sent his children abroad to study that he proposed to divorce Ling Lin. The wife cheated on the male girlfriend, the husband found out and did not move, but the wife cried: You are really a cruel person.
Endure the burden of humiliation and leave the wife with nothing.
When her husband proposed divorce, Ling Lin did not have any preparation, until her husband took out a lot of photos of her private meeting with Feng Hai, and she did not know that everything was under her husband's control.
He had this evidence and moved the family's property elsewhere, and the two men not only had no money but also some debts. After the divorce, these debts also need Ling Lin to bear half. Ling Lin knew that she had been calculated by her husband and felt that he was really cruel. Unexpectedly, this was just part of the husband's plan.
After the child went abroad, Ling Lin lost the news of her son and could not contact the child, she was anxious. In addition, even Feng Hai also received a divorce agreement from his wife, and there was also evidence of her husband's cheating, requiring him to leave the house, and the child was also sent out of the country, and he also lost contact with the child.
At this time, Meng Tian sent her a photo, and there were four people in the photo, namely Meng Tian and Feng Hai's wife, Mei Ya, two people wearing wedding dresses, and two children following her. At this time, Ling Lin knew that all this was not a coincidence, but a revenge from Meng Tian and Mei Ya.
They were miserable, but they never answered the phone again, and there was no contact. Ling Lin took Feng Hai as her last consolation, but when Feng Hai knew that Ling Lin still had huge debts, he hesitated, and Ling Lin understood that in the face of interests, men were still selfish after all.
Later, Feng Hai just left a note for Ling Lin, which read: "I don't want to have a child, no matter where he goes, I must find him." Feng Hai also disappeared into the sea of people, leaving only her, who was afraid all day, and from time to time someone came to collect debts. The parents couldn't bear it, sold the house, paid the money for her, saw that the old man was almost seventy years old, and still worked hard for her, rented a house to live, and cried bitterly.
However, everything was caused by her, unfaithful to the marriage, thinking that the man was a soft bone, who could endure for a lifetime, and did not expect that he had planned such a big innings. Not only did he take away the children, but he also robbed Feng Hai's wife, and took them away to fly away, leaving a mess for her to clean up.
However, it is too late to regret it. If she could do it all over again, she wouldn't have made things so bad, and if she could do it all over again, she would have a good talk with her husband instead of hesitating and teetering between two men.
Men's revenge, you can't afford it.
If the pattern of men is not large, beat up and scold women, vent and divorce women. Not the worst outcome for women. The bad thing is that the other party is a person with a big pattern, and the sense of revenge is still very strong, and he will double the insults and grievances he has suffered to the woman.
At this time, the woman does not have any preparation, will be calculated very miserable, men do not give women a chance to breathe, will let her fall to the bottom. Women do not have the ability to cope, often affect their parents, regret, but it is too late. At this time, I realized that it was a great price to pay for cheating and betraying men.
Even if you hate men and be ruthless, you are at fault first. Even if you find someone to judge, you will not be supported. Do everything with consequences in mind and don't think that everyone is as simple as they seem on the surface.
The more calm a person is, the more terrible it is often. He did not quietly swallow this breath, but he was accumulating strength, trying to deal a fatal blow to those who had hurt him.
No matter who you marry, you will not be a perfect object, and only if two people work together for marriage, there will be a better marriage. Women should understand their hearts and not think that fish and bear paws can have such a good thing. Who you like, you have to concentrate on who you are with, and if something goes wrong, you have to solve it between two people.
The attitude towards male girlfriends, do not have a little ambiguity. Tell each other clearly that even if you quarrel with your husband and feel that your husband is not good, you will not consider being with him. Two people can only be friends, if the other person has no sense of boundaries, then even friends have no need to do.
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