Teenagers have high self-esteem and a special desire to be respected. Respect his feelings, respect his ideas, respect his opinions, how can you support him?
1, do not expose his shortcomings in person, do not criticize him in public;
2, do not hit him, especially to smoke his face, being slapped is an extremely hurtful thing to self-esteem, the important thing is not face pain, but will feel as if you are a person who is not respected, trampled on at will, self-esteem is very hurt.
Scolding can greatly hurt the hearts of teenagers, and then greatly hurt the feelings between parents and them. Therefore, we must not simply and rudely scold children.
3. Need to be treated fairly
Teenagers are in great need of fair treatment by teachers and parents. The preference for sons over daughters and the emphasis on small children will make them feel that they are not valued enough, not enough to be loved, not enough to be respected.
4, respect his feelings, non-principled things, let him decide for himself.
What kind of clothes to buy, what kind of hairstyle to cut, can choose their own decisions; how much clothes to wear, to understand that the child knows it himself, can decide. ️ ️ ️
May everyone have harvest, love, attention to me, and attention to psychological counseling every day.