What exactly did the ex teach Capricorns?

What exactly did the ex teach Capricorns?

Capricorn breakups are never a whim, and his real breakup is either the last straw that crushes the camel, or they can't see the future, or they are dumped by each other.

In other words, if it is a Capricorn proposed a breakup, it must be that he himself has completely figured it out, so after he breaks up, when others ask him, he will say "It's okay, how is it possible, it's all over" Such a series of words, have you ever seen which Capricorn dumped others and he died and lived? He said that the past time is really the past, because he himself thought clearly and proposed it.

But if Capricorn is not ready, and the other party proposes to break up under the premise, Capricorn must not be a person who will give up easily, humble, retained, or even crying to death to live, this is possible, because he has not yet wanted to break up, he will save you in this way, or force you to give a clear statement.

Regarding the matter of breaking up, Capricorn's idea is this, if I still love, then I can sacrifice face for love, I am not afraid of losing people; but if one day I am tired and I don't love, then the relationship is meaningless, I am really going to leave.

But no matter what kind of breakup pattern, the ex will have an impact on Capricorn, because when he is immersed in the stage of confusion and doubt, he will instinctively reflect and try to find a solution to the problem. "Why don't I like this guy anymore?" "Why doesn't he like me anymore?" "What should I do after a breakup?"

First of all, Capricorn will constantly recall and reflect on the wrong things he has done in his relationship, and then come to a conclusion: what should I do in the next relationship to avoid this embarrassment.

More importantly, most Capricorns will realize at some point one day after the breakup that I can't be immersed in feelings, the first period is not nostalgic, the latter is not expected, which will affect my life, affect my learning, affect my work, I want to live for myself

Then Capricorn will suddenly rise from decadence and make himself want to improve himself for a while: I only want to work, I only want to study, I only want to go to the civil service, I just want to make money. This is the biggest influence of his predecessor on Capricorn, he does not dwell on the pain in the past, or use it to look forward to the future, but turns grief into motivation to improve the present.

To put it bluntly, the sign of Capricorn is to a certain extent "not thinking of making progress" in a full and warm state, and what really makes Capricorn progress basically comes from the motivation generated by pain. Especially under the premise of being broken up, Capricorn will produce a kind of incompetence and despair, and this despair will suddenly be transformed into a kind of motivation at a certain moment, perhaps through the persuasion of parents or friends" "You are trying to improve yourself now, there will be better waiting for you in the future" Maybe Capricorn sees a certain sentence that can move him, a particularly inspirational video.

So sometimes when Capricorn touches feelings, he feels that there is a person who slows down his pace, does not want to toss, just wants to fall in love, it is not a good thing, because he does not want to do this, although it is very comfortable.

It is not difficult to see that the more influence of the predecessor is the catalyst for capricorn growth. It is said that it is growth, it is better to say that it is heart death, because when Capricorn's heart is completely dead, his stage of progress will occur, academic or career to a higher level, and even the whole person is sublimated, which is the direction that Capricorn will generally think about and change at the end of the relationship!