Yang Yi, the former TVB ratings empress, finally gave birth to a son at the age of 42.
Now she and her husband Luo Ziyi (formerly known as Luo Zhongqian) are finally having both children.
The 42-year-old is already an advanced maternal age physiologically, but this is not the most thrilling place for her to give birth to a second child.
The most thrilling thing is that Yang Yi only gave birth to a caesarean section the year ago, gave birth to the first child, and according to the doctor's instructions, the second child should be born three years later.
Because if the first child is c-sectioned, the woman's body will develop scars.
And the uterus also takes a long time to heal, and it takes at least 3 years for the body to fully recover.
Therefore, the interval between two children by caesarean section is at least 3 years.
If you have another caesarean section less than three years old, it is likely that the fetus will develop abnormally, which will affect both the mother and the baby.
But Yang Yi did not rest because of the risk and hardship, nor did she stop the pace of giving birth to her son, gritting her teeth or giving birth to the second child.
The 42-year-old Yang Yi was once a popular ratings code, and after making achievements in her career, she got married and had a daughter.
Yang Yi's life can really be described as "desperate three women"!
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How to cultivate the unpromising sister-brother love into a positive result?
Speaking of Yang Yi, it is definitely one of the best in TVB to fight.
Together with Hu Xing'er, Zhong Jiaxin, Xu Zishan, and Chen Fara, she is known as TVB Five Little Flowers.
But in addition to Yang Yi, the other four are all from the beauty pageant, and they are all arranged into the group with the help of the popularity of the beauty pageant.
And Yang Yi is not so lucky, she started from running the dragon set, from one supporting role after another to get the opportunity to play the leading role.
Yang Yi joined the 13th TVB Artist Training Class in 1999, and Lin Feng was also her classmate.
When I first arrived, I could only play some characters who had no memory points, either Ya Gui or distant cousins.
It was not until 2004, filming "The Legend of Datang Shuanglong", that she had a small reputation and began to be a heroine.
How hard these 5 years have been, only she herself knows.
Playing the main role did not make Yang Yi popular, and a "Palace Heart Plan" in 2009 made Yang Yi really get the recognition of the audience.
The bad guy she plays is undoubtedly a very impressive character in TVB dramas.
She also beat other competitors with this drama, winning two awards at the TVB Star Awards Ceremony: "Best Performance Award" and "My Favorite FEMALE CHARACTER on TV".
Since then, Yang Yi has played his own piece of the world.
When Yang Yi met her current husband, the two were filming the TV series "On Call 36 Hours".
At that time, Luo Zhongqian was still in the supporting actor stage, neither famous, but also five years younger than Yang Yi, which inevitably made people feel that the man was suspected of rubbing Yang Yi's fame.
In addition, Luo Zhongqian has also been exposed to his abusive ex-girlfriend, as well as lace news with different women, which makes fans worry that Yang Yi, who is not young, will be used by fresh meat.
But Yang Yi ignored the voices of the outside world, the two people from the filming of TV series, from colleagues to friends, from friends to lovers, from lovers to partners, all the way to the emotional stability.
Now 2 years of holding two, children and daughters are complete, but also a satisfactory account of their own life.
The reason why this pair of sister-brother love can go to the end is that Yang Yi has actually paid a lot.
In the face of the incomprehension of others, Yang Yi desperately shows how much love the two people have.
In the face of criticism, Yang Yi supported her husband for the first time, stood in her husband's position, and extinguished the rumors.
In fact, whether the relationship can persist, in addition to the need for full passion, but also to have a firm belief, so that both people believe: we are the most suitable to go on.
This belief can be one that encourages each other, or it can be a firm position on one side and an encouragement to the weaker side.
If you don't believe in your chosen partner, and you question your partner as soon as there is a storm, does that mean that you didn't have a lot of confidence when you made the choice?
The partner is not suitable for himself, and he must get along with himself to understand it, rather than living in the discussion of others.
Sister-brother love can also be very long-lasting, and strong women and weak men can also be very happy.
As long as the two people who get along can feel the true feelings of each other's efforts, don't pay attention to the groundless speculation of the outside world.
Firmness is the best barrier to injecting a sense of security into love.
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The road to love is full of criticism
When she decided to marry Luo Zhongqian, Yang Yi was already a TVB actress, and her career had reached its peak.
And no longer young, what she wants most is a stable home.
Due to her advanced age, Yang Yi's road to seeking a son is quite bumpy, and she has suffered a lot of hardships after many years of not being able to seek a son.
In order to seek a son, Yang Yi is willing to give up her career just for the stability of her family.
And when she retired, the burden of the family fell on Luo Zhongqian.
Although yang yi's promotion, her husband has not opened up in acting, and his career has not improved much over the years.
Not only is the career worrying, but he is careless in his speech in interviews and often offends fans.
Now the pressure of the second child falls on the two people, so that Yang Yi, who has just given birth, has the idea of making a comeback.
Although her husband is not particularly capable, Yang Yi is very supportive of her, which may be Yang Yi's cleverness.
A strong woman who has worked her own all her life often prefers simple and simple men who do not have their own excellence.
The intelligent woman has her own, and what she needs more is the steadiness and stability that the other party gives her.
And if you want to be down-to-earth, don't be greedy for each other's intelligence, and if you want to be stable, don't expect the opposite direction to slip.
Understanding that loving someone is destined to have his imperfections is the most practical philosophy in ordinary life.
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Strong women and weak men in love require a strong heart
Every time the way the two get along is criticized by outsiders, Yang Yi uses her own way to turn the tide.
She understands that no matter what outsiders say, the most important thing is to live her life well, and living beautifully is the biggest counterattack to rumors.
Once someone disputes their feelings, Yang Yi will pull her husband to enjoy the romance of the two people together.
Every anniversary was a great event, and every interview said a lot of words of admiration and praise for her husband.
Over time, everyone slowly found that these two people did not need to be questioned by outsiders, and they themselves lived happily and lovingly, and slowly they no longer questioned anything.
Completed the task of having children and daughters, and gave an account to the two families.
After that, if the husband can't support the expenditure of the second child, it is really not OK, and Yang Yi is ready to make a comeback to shoot.
Looking back at Yang Yi's life, she is a woman who believes that the goal must be successful.
As long as you have a firm belief, whether it is marriage or children, you will be able to break through the difficulties to achieve your goals.
A strong heart is the secret of her ability to stick to her marriage and family.
Devote yourself to your career, no matter how difficult it is, you have to emerge from a supporting role.
Marry a younger brother who is not favored, no matter how much criticism he endures, he will love it to the world.
Identify the things, try to maintain, as long as you are determined to work hard for it, love to fight to have a chance to win.
Author | Yu Bing graduated from Beijing Normal University majoring in finance, has been engaged in the financial industry, and then transferred to the media industry for 3 years, a domestic and foreign film and television analysis researcher, good at thinking about life from watching dramas, as well as exploring realistic emotional values from the current situation of women's existence at home and abroad, deeply inspiring many women to marry and self-improvement.