I remember a friend posted a message about the length of human life in the circle of friends, which was probably like this:
Thirty thousand days in a lifetime, 30,000 ÷ 365 = 83, if you live to the age of eighty-three, it is only about thirty thousand days.
If you're 20 years old with only 22,800 days left,
If you're 30 years old you have 19,150 days left,
If you're 40 years old then there are only 15,500 days left....
It can be seen that a person's life is not long, it is not short, then how to live this life is a choice, may be an easy choice.
If you say that before the age of 20, under the protection of your parents, or almost staying in school, there is no way to choose how to live and what kind of people to live with, then after 20 years old, you have your own independent values, and you can basically make your own judgments about what kind of people to stay with.
Before reading Lu Sihao's "May Someone Accompany You upside down and displaced", it was mentioned that you will gradually find that "having something to talk about" is the basic criterion for two people to be together. No one in the world has the obligation to wait for anyone, and maintaining a relationship or relationship is always a matter of two people. Maintain the necessary care, keep moving forward, and work together for similar goals so that two people can stay on one frequency. Talking always has to explain for half a day, or simply can't receive to go together, how annoying! It's really important to be able to talk.
There is a friend W, with his girlfriend has been for several years, to the age of talking about marriage, and even the man went to the woman's home to propose, but still separated, presumably the parties are very painful.
The reason for separation, in addition to the family requirements are a little excessive, probably because the feelings are not stable enough, the two of them often quarrel and mix, boys are too busy, girls are more idle, boys do not say anything, girls think too much.
For girls, this relationship is so hard and boring.
Instead of tiptoeing to please someone all the time, love yourself until one day you can let him see you without tiptoeing. If the two of you are constantly in a state of inequality, it won't be long before you're out of balance.
For boys, feeling sorry after losing, it is also a happy thing to listen to girls talk about "nonsense".
Did you find out? The more you can talk about it, the more impressive you are, and the more you trust it.
Lao Guo is a person who can bring joy to others everywhere, every time there is a place where he is, there is a scene of laughter, stay with him, the whole person can forget the troubles, when you are happy, he can make you happier, when you are unhappy, he can make you forget that you are unhappy.
It is such an interesting person who attracts his good friend Swallow away, and Swallow is fascinated by it.
They weren't asked why they weren't together in college, but they were together after they came out to work. I think I can also guess that people who are both humorous and responsible, who don't like it.
But then again, the two of them are together, very husband and wife feeling, male outside, female inside, never talking red face, not greasy crooked, just like together for a long time.
Swallow is a cheerful person, talk can be endless, before, she told me, I must be with a funny, understand me in the future, it is best to listen to my nonsense, can accompany me to talk, can accompany me to wander the world around.......
Last year, when they were married on National Day, it seems that old Guo Zhun met the standards of swallows.
"What subject is my sister good at?"
"Entertainment, if you take the entertainment gossip, she will be a full score."
This is a conversation I had with a friend.
In just one sentence, it was revealed that she was an interesting person, and the sister had no intention of learning, although helpless, there was no use of blame to say how the sister's study was not good
In the New Year, adults will inevitably mention their children's academic performance, cousins in the second year of junior high school, his parents talk about this and say with a disappointed face, my baby may only be suitable for hard work, help others to work. Only take care of their own mouth for a while, the child's hurt body is not finished.
The same child's grades are not ideal, but the attitude and the words spoken are very different.
Probably because of interesting people, emotional intelligence is also high.
The rest of your life is too long, long enough that you can measure the world with your feet.
The rest of your life is too short, so short that you will often feel that time catches you off guard.
For the rest of your life, be sure to stay with interesting people.