Some people disappear as they walk, some things think they forget with the passage of time, but when they look back, they find that it is still so clear...
It turns out that some people have some things that they have not remembered, but have never forgotten!
When I was tidying up my room today, I found a yellowed old notebook with a torn cover. Out of curiosity, I opened it and looked at it, and there was a page inside that caught my attention
2013 in West Korea
At this time, the memories came to me like a flood...
I remembered that this was the first birthday that had been carefully prepared for him in the rental house of Xihan zhao on Jingsan Road Hongzhuan Road.
I was still in college and didn't have much money in my hands, so I thought about giving him a birthday as much as I could.
If you want to have a birthday full of meaning, you can't help but cook a delicious meal by yourself.
He went to work that day, and since there was nothing in his rental house except an unopened electric pot.
I counted the cash 83 yuan in my pocket, made a purchase list, went downstairs to the supermarket to pick up things, bargained with the boss for 4 plates, two wine glasses, salt, soy sauce, South German seasonings, potatoes, tomatoes, eggs, pears...
I remember it very clearly.
The plate I bought at that time was later broken by the child, I broke one when I washed it, and now there are two left, and it is still in use; the wine glass was broken after he cheated, I quarreled with him and broke one, and now there is still one left in the house.
Sometimes the memory is too good and it is really annoying...
That day, I ended up making a plate of shredded potatoes, a plate of tomato eggs, and a pot of pear water. I thought about waiting for him to come back from work and surprise him, after all it was our first birthday for him after we were together.
When he came back from work that day and saw everything I did, he was very happy, he was very touched, rushed towards me, hugged me tightly, kissed me...
That was the first time I cooked for him.
Since then, I have not dipped my ten fingers in the spring water of the yang, and I have successfully trained myself into a boiling woman...
Later became a housewife...
And then in the end, she became an abandoned woman...
"To Youth"
Met someone ten years ago and put it on for the rest of your life!
Tidying up things to find old things from many years ago, looking at it and smiling, I unconsciously cried again.
Tomorrow you will be 35 years old, and I wish you a happy birthday a day in advance!
Because you're going to be with "more important people" to you that day, and I'm no longer!
Perhaps, next year, I will not remember your birthday again, and I will not remember the bits about you!
Because tomorrow I have chosen to put down the past and repack and go!
Now that you are father, I am mother;
Now that you're single, I'm a single parent!
But, I will give her the fatherly love that belongs to you, teach her gratitude, kindness, and bravery, and tell her that her father is a superman!
You can not remember the past, the past, but remember what was said on September 7, 2019, and remember that there is a girl named Little Star who is your daughter!
2019.9.7
I saw the chat message sent to him on December 7, 2019. It turns out that two years ago today, I still remember his birthday and wish him a happy birthday a day in advance!
2019.12.7 am
Today, two years later, I still remember his birthday!
We officially obtained our divorce on December 12, 2019.
The following concludes with a quote from a famous poem by contemporary Romantic poet Wu Guijun, "Like a Person".
What hurts you is not the other person's desperation, but your insistence on fantasies.
Love is always the effort of two people, not one person's grievances.
Liking a person begins with appearance, falling into talent, being loyal to character, obsessed with the flesh, obsessed with sound, and drunk with affection.
Together in this way, we are married to love.
May you meet a mature lover,
May you be less hurt when you are obsessed,
May you catch up when you wake up.
Follow the footsteps of the heart, feel the inner world, and express the most sincere emotions. Hello everyone, I am Su Ying, a single mother in Zhengzhou, please pay attention to me, let me tell you about those different things in your emotions. Feel how you feel, look forward to the initial fate, and meet the most real you. [Than heart]