The old ancestors often said: "Thirty hopes, forty hopes of wealth, fifty hopes of people", what does it mean?

The rolling wheels of history have made dynasties change, made the vicissitudes of the sea, and made people's hearts changeable. No matter how the world changes, the wisdom of the people of the past has finally been passed down, and in the material and cultural life of contemporary people, these thought-provoking statements are particularly practical and appropriate.

"The rabbit can't fly away, and there are three times in life." Time flies, like a rabbit, like a crow, can't catch it, can't stay. Life is finite, but life is infinite. Therefore, a family must have children as an extension of life. So, how do you live your life after having children?

The people who came over said: "Thirty hopes, forty hopes for wealth, fifty hope people", the words are earnest, and I hope that the king will cherish them.

Thirty hopes

"Hope for the Son", pray for the heirs. Thirty is a heavy topic. "Thirty and standing" is not only about having children, but also about setting up a family business, having a career that looks at the past, and being able to support a large family. For the modern young, thirty is always scary, because it is likely that they will still be unable to achieve anything and have not found their way.

Some people say that thirty years old is the ceiling of the first stage of life. If you want to go up to the next level, you must at least achieve something at the age of thirty. In fact, many people's lives really start at the age of thirty.

Jiang Ziya, before the age of thirty, chopped firewood, fished, and was busy for his livelihood, and he did not think about what kind of grandeur he wanted to create in the future. After the age of thirty, the situation changes, and Jiang Ziya understands that he will not wait for me.

Therefore, at the age of thirty, he went up to the mountain to learn the art, and under the door of the original Kunlun Mountain Yuan Shi Tianzun, he studied for forty years. After returning from school, he is already a white-haired old man in his seventies, but the real legend has begun.

Stand, establish a family, establish a heart also. At the age of thirty, it is not difficult to have a considerable family business, but it is difficult to walk on the road of life that you want. Therefore, thirty and standing, more is "standing", setting up their own ambitions and dreams.

At the threshold of thirty years old, Jiang Ziya clearly saw what he wanted and what kind of person he wanted to become in the future, and made up his mind to move forward.

Physiologically speaking, thirty years old is an excellent stage for the birth of an heir. A rich and powerful age can also give a child a relatively stable family. It is a long road of life, chasing dreams is very important, but if someone accompanies you, the process is always beautiful.

Forty fortunes

After starting a family, it is the maintenance of the family. Not only feelings and energy must be paid, but money must be spent. As a result, "how to make money" has become the trouble of every adult.

Forty is a stressful age. There is a lot of pressure at work and a lot of pressure on the family. Although the career is on the right track, how to get promoted in order to earn more money is a problem. Families should support their parents, maintain the normal operation of family funds, and work for their children's studies.

Especially for the child's efforts, so that the child does not lose at the starting point, a lot of investment in the early stage is necessary. Compared with the current various cram classes and interest classes, the children who were basically "free-range" in the past were relatively happy.

Fifty hopefuls

In ancient times, "fifty people knew the Destiny of Heaven"; today's people are "fifty", but they are still busy. At this stage, most of the family's children are in college, and the parents are older and need their children to worry more. Whether it is an effort in energy or a expenditure on money, it seems to be no different from forty years old.

The only thing that has changed is the human body, which has been extended under the current medical and health conditions. The ancients said that life is only a few decades, that is really decades, and it is rare to live to the age of sixty. For today's people, decades are too few, but even if they live for decades more, the difference is not very big.

The purpose of "Fifty Hopes" is to warn future generations that when people reach fifty, they must learn to let go and let go of some unnecessary desires. Only by letting go can we better examine ourselves, think for ourselves, and make the rest of our lives more comfortable.

Having children and starting a family, chasing money and money, and maintaining health. Step by step, people probably live like this all their lives. Many people begin to feel sad and sad as soon as they reach the age of thirty, feeling that they are old and that their lives seem to have passed most of the way. In fact, as long as it is a feeling, it is subjective.

Subjective can accelerate human aging and can also slow down this process. As the saying goes, "Thirty hopes, forty hopes, fifty hopes", I introduce it here, I hope it will be useful to all the officials.