It's the same for people and things, as long as your heart doesn't move. This heart does not hurt, and the heart must be given to the right person. It's precious. If it is given to the wrong person, it is like a grass mustard to be trampled on. In fact, many times in life, you need to choose to give up and see some things. If you don't care about the heart, it won't hurt so easily.
Looking down on a lot of things has become a cloud of smoke, giving up is the best interpretation of your past, but also a kind of self-redemption, when you give up hate, the rest is love, you are also light, when you do not have any expectations for anyone and things, you have no pain.
Your attitude of indifference is more frightening than two people arguing fiercely with each other. In the face of your indifference, even if others are brave enough to see you like this, they will be a little afraid, when you are not looking forward to anything. There's nothing that can't be difficult for you. Because only if you don't care, you will become indifferent and don't look forward to it. There are no more waves in my heart. What can hurt you?
Many times life is also another form to suppress us, so that we are in a suffocating environment to accept its wanton test. You may find another situation after you are tested by it. Anticipation is the root cause of heartache. If you don't expect anything, there won't be so many longing pictures, and if you don't expect it, you won't have so much heartache. As long as the heart does not move, it does not hurt.
Expecting people you don't like is a fool's dream, even if you do more, it is useless, he doesn't want it, he doesn't even bother to look at it, you don't even speak in front of him, he thinks you're obstructing your eyes. If he likes someone and does everything to her, he thinks she is beautiful and moving! Don't expect anything from others! Keep expectations to a minimum. There is nothing to surprise or pain to be desired.
Maybe after many years, when you think back on the past, you will feel that your experience is a small story. Maybe this is life, experiencing the hardships of life, and in the end it is just a passing cloud to think about it. Nothing was too much trouble except life and death.