The sign that a man gives his heart to you is actually two words

Text/Miss White Source: Michelia White Orchid (nvrendds)

The French writer La Rochefoucco said: "Love cannot be hidden for a long time, nor can it be pretended for a long time." ”

In feelings, men are generally not good at expressing their feelings, so when they are with people they like, they will always become stupid and silly.

But as long as the man who really loves you with his heart will always show flaws uncontrollably. For example, these two words are the most obvious signs.

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concern

In a relationship, men always say love first, but they are tired first, and women are always emotional, but they can't extricate themselves.

Emotionally, always love to put the other party's every move in the heart, want him to keep all the attention, to himself.

Some men are very busy, sending him messages, either driving or going to meet customers; after work, there is no news, you are full of enthusiasm to share your life with him, but what you get is a sentence he sent the next day "busy".

Everyone has a busy time, and it is normal to forget to read the news.

But no matter how busy things are, there are always busy times, and when they see your news and still choose to ignore them, I think, he doesn't love you as much as you think.

Busy is just an excuse not to want to make you, compared to you, dating parties, drinking and singing can make him happier.

People who really love you will also be busy, but as long as they are idle, they will definitely reply to your messages immediately and give you peace of mind.

In his heart, busy is to make each other have a better life, not to ignore your presence and live up to your affection.

Good love is like this, mutual accommodation, two-way rushing, I share what I see with you, you give me attention and enthusiasm.

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distressed

In the variety show "Longing for Life", Huang Lei almost cooked everyone's meals, and every dish made the guests praise.

Sun Li said that when she was pregnant, she weighed 60 pounds heavier than before pregnancy, all because of Huang Lei.

"He is too good at eating, and the breakfast, lunch and evening meals are not the same." He not only loves to eat, but he loves to cook, so he doesn't let me learn to cook now. ”

Of course, there is another reason why Sun Li does not learn to cook, that is, Huang Lei will not let her.

Huang Lei said: "I think it is enough to have one person in the family who can do it, and it is also good that she does not cook, that is, she will never cut it."

In adult love, what is needed more than sweet words is genuine care.

Just like during menstruation, a cup of brown sugar ginger soup is easier to make a woman's heart move than a sentence of "drink more hot water"; when she is sad, it is easier to make a woman's heart settle than a greeting.

A man who is willing to give his heart to you must be a man who knows how to hurt you.

Heartache you in the smoky kitchen stove, day after day to pay, heartache you in the complicated housework, year after year of labor, he will take the initiative to share the triviality of chai rice oil and salt for you, so that the beloved woman can unload the tiredness and rest well.

A man who really takes you to heart starts with a pain in your efforts.

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nag

As the old saying goes, "care is chaos", a man who is willing to give his heart to you is actually difficult to control himself, and men who don't talk much have slowly become nagging after falling in love with you.

Help you set an alarm clock before going to bed, tell you to be careful about oversleeping, get up early in the morning to make breakfast, afraid that you will be hungry and affect your health.

He is in front of you, sometimes like a carefree teenager, sometimes like a mature and calm middle-aged man, you seem to not care about things, he will remember in his heart, repeatedly tell you.

Those hypocritical men, once or twice, may play an attentive object and remind you of a few words; but they definitely don't last long.

Because the heart has never been placed on you, his kindness to you is like a bag of advent food, which will expire before long.

Whether a man loves himself or not, in fact, every woman has the answer in her heart.

If you have feelings for you, you don't have to bother to please you. If one's heart is not in you, there is no need to continue.

Emotional things, barely come.

As Zhang Ailing said:

"The right people will be separated, the wrong people will be separated, time is never waiting, it is indeed the best answer." 」

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