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Fashion health cover character | Jiang Qinqin: Women need autonomy in life

In Jiang Qinqin's narration,

Hostess is a rich life experience,

It is a pleasant spiritual field.

She is soft in heart, but she has her own strength,

When the family needs it, it gives birth to invisible strength.

She is the big heroine of the family,

He also controls his own life.

Fashion health cover character | Jiang Qinqin: Women need autonomy in life

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A family,

There's always one to stand up for

At the end of the year, Jiang Qinqin's schedule was in full swing, and she was busy every day. The youngest son, Jun, is 3 years old this year, and just a few days after entering kindergarten, the whole class fell ill for a large part. At this moment, she has become the most calm person, she observes the body temperature of the family at any time, busy and orderly, not chaotic at all. I'm happy to that and think of everything in my family, so I feel more secure.

Fashion health cover character | Jiang Qinqin: Women need autonomy in life

The family was busy outside the home, and Jiang Qinqin had no anxiety. "The second child, very calm." When I gave birth to my eldest son, "Tiger", there was also a period of excessive concern. As long as the child has a little headache and brain fever, the family is nervous and has a muddy life. As soon as the child fell ill, he immediately hit the hanging bottle, and once the head nurse gently reminded: "Teacher Jiang, do you really want to fight?" Do you want to go home and observe? ”

A word awakened the dreamer, and she suddenly found out: Is it overtreated? When she was a child, she grew up with penicillin, although she sat in the drama school for seven years, she was sometimes weak, as long as her body was feverish and inflamed, when she arrived at the hospital, the doctor asked, "Is penicillin allergic?" Get a shot. "Now that I think about it, it's a bit of a brutal treatment." Children's blood vessels are still particularly difficult to find, once pushed into the inpatient department, the nurse is more experienced, the needle to the head, I look particularly uncomfortable. ”

She has also had a lot of parenting books, and now she has a small headache and brain fever, and she has no medical treatment. The medication of Western medicine, the meridians of Chinese medicine, there is a spectrum in the heart, do not panic in case of trouble, first try moxibustion, tuina, alleviate symptoms. She never felt involved, but enjoyed it. "I especially like to take care of people, yesterday I ran up and down to find medicine, and my mother also said, you really deserve this name, diligent." Jiang Qinqin felt, "A big family, there is always one to stand up." ”

Fashion health cover character | Jiang Qinqin: Women need autonomy in life

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She claimed to have "difficulty going out", and had already decided to shoot the scene, and it was really difficult to go out at the moment, "I am a comfortable person, and now filming is also a fate." "But once you go out, you put it down, and the work mode and the life mode are switched between crisp and sharp at the moment of arriving at the crew." Probably because you can't see it, you don't have to worry about it, call home every day, no problem, needless to say look at the photos, videos, ah, no. Not deliberately elevating women's sense of autonomy, but recognizing the comprehensive richness of being human, we will think about our own lives, our own values, what kind of life we want to live, and what kind of love we want to have. ”

Give the next generation the freedom to grow

A while ago, she was also thinking about whether she should intervene in her son's study and give him more help in his homework. She has a good friend, two families going out together, always a tiger playing, a friend's children writing homework. "I don't know if it's right or wrong," Jiang Qinqin said, life has not come to the end, and you don't know what way is better, "but at that moment, I still hope that the tiger can play to the fullest." ”

Fashion health cover character | Jiang Qinqin: Women need autonomy in life

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One summer vacation, her son was crazy to play games, and her and Chen Jianbin's attitude was: you play slowly, get up in the morning to brush your teeth and play games, and we don't care about playing for a day. When school was about to start, he frantically rushed to his homework. This summer, she said to her son, do you want to try your mother's method, let's do our homework before playing. "We spent about half a month, and then he played again, and it was a real pleasure to relax physically and mentally."

There is still a year to go to the middle school entrance examination, the child's score is not up and down, Jiang Qinqin is nervous. "The idea he was instilled by his father since he was a child is that it is better not to slip away. The score was not ideal, and his father joked that how to get such a high score? I just want him not to stress too much. As the red line of the middle school entrance examination approached, she tried to cheer up her son, "Can't be in the middle." ”

She knew that she was affectionate and moved by reason, and took her own life as an example, from a troupe in Chongqing to Beijing, striving for a better life, gentle and strong, and crying herself. In her words: "I have not expressed such emotion in acting. The son felt that his mother was unhappy and unhappy, and he sent a WeChat message to Jiang Qinqin's girlfriend with his backhand: "Is it good that you ask my mother out, you two are more together, and later persuade her to let her not be so nervous." ”

Fashion health cover character | Jiang Qinqin: Women need autonomy in life

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This made Jiang Qinqin laugh, but it also showed that the child grew up very well and was a sensible and healthy person. She changed her approach and simply said, "Let's try to feel the success, after all, you've never experienced it." He quickly passed the 7th place in the class, and the teacher also said that with the intelligence of the tiger, he had no problem in the top 5. She breathed a sigh of relief, "I see his ability, I'm relieved. ”

The eldest son inherited his father's literary talent, and the language teacher said that he had good writing skills and might become a poet. When chatting with his father, the son would tell the books he had read, and the two of them would chat about one writer after another. "In my mother's eyes, I always feel that he is playing, and when I say him on weekdays, can't you read books?" I feel like my son is doing nothing at home, but it's really not what you think. ”

Now she gives more space, sometimes the tiger finishes her homework at 11 o'clock, and tells her that my mother wants to go out for a walk, she wants to go away, come back quickly. "Anyway, it was walking in the community, Chen Jianbin saw that the time was almost up, so he went to pick him up." The son looked still young, but she knew that he already had his own inner world.

Still loved, still loved

"Some dramatists came looking for it, and finally said that Teacher Jiang we decided it, signed it, I still didn't agree." After the play was broadcast, the staff said, look, this is the original look for you, I do not feel sorry, people still have to meet their own needs and dominate their own lives. ”

Fashion health cover character | Jiang Qinqin: Women need autonomy in life

Entering the drama school at the age of 10, first learning Qingyi, then changing the knife to Madan, practicing three nine in winter, practicing three volts in summer, and others asked, why don't you practice now? She replied, "I've really practiced enough, and now I'm willing to do what I love, something more enjoyable." Any choice I make has nothing to do with fame and fortune, and I try to avoid unhappiness at work, and I have the ability to accept it whether it is good or bad. ”

The old and the young in the family, who go out to shoot drama for at least three months, she and Chen Jianbin have an agreement, one person goes out to work, and the other person must stay at home. "Teacher Chen's ability is better than mine, he goes out more, and family is the field that gives me more confidence." He said that making money is my business, you only do what you like, the script is what you want to act, if you have the desire to express it, you will go, we don't do anything difficult. ”

In "The Wife's Romantic Trip", the relationship between Teacher Jiang and Teacher Chen has once again become the focus. Both people have a temper, a temperament, and after years of getting along, they have figured out each other's personality and have a method of familiarity. "He knows where Teacher Jiang's bottom line is in this problem, whether I can bear this problem, what should be insisted on and what should not be insisted on." Jiang Qinqin was also reducing his strength, "There is nothing that must be fought for you to lose and I to win." ”

On that day, the two people carried luggage, a piece of golden rape flowers on the side of the road, she pointed to Chen Jianbin, the other party was afraid of delaying the trip, only cared about the road, ignoring her mood. The two of them were awkward all the way, and she broke out halfway and said the grievances in her heart. Chen Jianbin asked the others to go first, and Jiang Qinqin stopped to communicate. Problems arise in life, and they can solve them, which is the result of years of running-in.

"We're all very self-aware people, and it's much better now, it's better to make a little fuss, or it's too quiet." Once the two were in a hurry, Chen Jianbin wore sunglasses at home for seven days, Jiang Qinqin thought about it, probably he secretly cried himself, and his eyes were crying and swollen. On the last day, she confessed on the show, "If I lose my temper with you again, it's because I love you." "There is still love, there is still the need to be loved, that is the best state of life."

Fashion Health X Jiang Qinqin Q&A

Female consciousness lies in women's right to choose

TH is also the hostess, what do you think is the difference between modern women and ancient times?

Jiang Qinqin has no choice, no status, and does not even have his own name. Modern women can think about their own destiny, whether it is a professional woman or a full-time wife, they can all choose independently of women and live the life they want to live.

Fashion health cover character | Jiang Qinqin: Women need autonomy in life

TH In the face of the audience's call for you to shoot more scenes, what do you think of yourself?

When Jiang Qinqin was not filming, fans seemed to feel that you were sorry, as if you had wasted something. In fact, everyone's definition of life is different, or that sentence, people still have to meet their own needs in the end, men or women, to know what you want, in this regard I am particularly firm.

TH As a "family health officer", every year when the season changes, what are the big and small things that must be thought of?

Jiang Qinqin usually makes silver ear sydney soup for my family when it comes to autumn, clearing the throat and moisturizing the lungs. When the new flu vaccine came down, I took my family to get it. Although this year's hit also hit, but the doctor said that no vaccine is omnipotent, there are dozens of viruses circulating every year, as a basic protection, an injection is still useful.

TH supervises family members to have a physical examination, is this also your task?

Jiang Qinqin they go every year, I also did a particularly comprehensive physical examination this year, I said that I took so many medicines, top so many things, will there be a little problem inside, strong in the outside. The results have not yet come out, but I also believe that nothing happened, the only trouble is that the allergy is very bad, the allergen is dust, and this is also something you can't avoid.

TH The body of the elderly in the family needs to be vigilant at all times, what experience do you have in this regard?

Jiang Qinqin often has first aid medicine at home, and I especially have a feeling of preparing for the rain. There are also arrangements for where to put it, and whoever calls me can tell him exactly where the things are, and I will be able to find them as I say. Once my mother fainted, we were not at home, the tiger himself went to go through my grandmother's bedside table, find out the medicine he usually took, showed her the same, confirmed which one to eat, and then went to get water.

TH In addition to the big physical examination, the elderly also have some things that they usually do not pay attention to, but they are very important, such as teeth, have you paid attention to this?

Jiang Qinqin, my mother and my father, their generation can't check their teeth regularly, even we can't do it. Later, my son fixed a place to see the teeth, I asked my parents to go there, and now every year the dentist clinic calls us and says that it is time for my aunt to come to see the teeth, and in a year, I will let my family go.

TH In charge of the big and small things in the house, have you ever felt tired of being overwhelmed?

Jiang Qinqin did not have any reluctance to say, "I am too tired to stand up, but this family must have someone to top." Like I said, I enjoy it, and when I'm sure everything is in my hands and needed by my family, I feel like I'm being able to show my abilities and I'm strong.

Fashion health cover character | Jiang Qinqin: Women need autonomy in life

"In the end, people still have to meet their own needs,

Men or women,

To know what you want,

I am particularly determined in this regard. ”

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