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In 2020, how many people will achieve the satisfaction of sexual needs, and how many people will be below the "poverty line" of sexual needs?
In terms of sexual fantasies and the expression of sexual needs, are the choices between men and women clearly distinguished, and what are the differences between people of different ages?
It is said that marriage is a siege, is sex and love in marriage the same? Following 2019, Gu Yu Data once again set its sights on gender relations, and officially released the "2020 Young People's Sex and Love Survey Report" this Tanabata Festival, thanking 31186 real answers, giving us the opportunity to objectively understand the sex and love of a generation.
1. The ideal and reality of sexual life
Comparing the survey data of The Valley Rain Data in 2019, we found that since 2020, everyone's sex life has been more frequent than in 2019.
The proportion of sex activities that are more than once a week increased by 4.5%, and the proportion with a frequency that is once a month decreased by 4.6%.
However, although the overall frequency has increased, the matter of sex life is still "drought death, waterlogging death".
91.1% of people have the most ideal sex frequency than once a week, but only 58.6% are able to achieve it. Another 12.2% of people have sex less frequently than once a month.
Obviously, it is the best age for melons and fruits to mature, marriage and childbearing, and the post-80s and 90s of the Buddhist family are as weak as ever in sex.
The frequency of sexual activity is not the only factor that determines the quality of life. Emotional cultivation, deep investment, full foreplay and interaction, mastery of certain skills, tacit cooperation, etc., if these are missing, sex will even make people experience depression and pain.
The results of our survey showed that 79.4% of people believe that their ability to meet their partner's sexual needs is above 3 points (out of 5), but only 67.5% believe that their sexual needs are met.
Among the various reasons for dissatisfaction with their partners, what makes women most dissatisfied is the "lack of foreplay", and what makes men most dissatisfied is "sexual ability or skill is not good enough".
Sex is a natural and beautiful thing. It seems that in order to experience this "beauty", you also need to "slow work out of the fine work", spend a certain amount of energy, in order to get.
During sex, your partner's feelings may not be consistent with your own. Some people may be difficult to let go because of identity concerns, body anxiety, trying to prove themselves, etc., "sleeping in the expectations of others", and some people will not care much about their partner's evaluation and completely release themselves.
The partner's reaction during sex may also become the criterion for judging one's own sexual performance. In our survey, more than 70% of people believe that their feelings are equally important to their partners during sex, but men value their partners' feelings more than women.
2. Men and women are careful about sex
Men and women's thoughts and understandings of sex often have gender attributes, and their physical and psychological differences will also be reflected in sexual life. Regarding sex, what careful thoughts are they "coinciding" and which ones are obviously different?
In our survey, most people, both men and women, have had sexual fantasies, and the proportion of men who have had sexual fantasies exceeds 90%, which is higher.
In the fantasy world, no one limits sex to the bed, in the car, in the field, in the living room, in the kitchen, on the balcony, on the stairs... Even public places can be one of the scenes.
Outside the bedroom, though, men are noticeably more "dare to think" than women.
As for the object of sexual fantasy, it is also the male who looks more "flowery". Although regardless of gender, the top three sexual fantasy objects are: lovers/partners, crush objects, friends/acquaintances, but men's sexual fantasy objects are significantly more diverse, and women are relatively concentrated.
On the question of who is in front of and who is behind sex and love, the difference in perceptions between men and women is obvious.
41.8% of men put sex before love, believing that sexual desire must be had to fall in love. That compares with only 10.1 percent of women.
Love is the foundation of all intimate relationships. Sex, in itself, is also an important way to recognize each other.
Preferences and temperament are characters that can be revealed in the details of sexual activities. Perhaps there is no right or wrong between two different views, and only the combination of sex and love can sublimate sex.
Regarding the purpose of sex, men tend to "satisfy the desires of the body" at a rate 12% higher than women, and 8.4% more inclined to "have children" than women. "Deepening emotional communication" is the most important thing for both.
Sex is an activity that requires a high degree of cooperation between both parties and the smooth transmission of information. Expression and communication are also important parts of sex.
In general, both men and women are most inclined to transmit sexual needs through "physical contact", followed by "verbal provocation", and the proportion of direct "showdowns" is lower.
32.5% of women and 15.3% of men found it difficult to express their sexual needs to their partners.
Is sex essential in marriage? For most people, unmet sexual needs can be a fatal wound to marriage. 76.7% of men and 62.5% of women do not accept marriages where sexual needs cannot be met.
Sex isn't all there is to marriage, but sexual dissatisfaction can trigger a cascade of negative reactions. Intimacy cannot be established, and over time the two may become the most familiar strangers. Improper handling of sexual relationships can also be the most hurtful weapon.
3. What about sex after marriage?
It is said that marriage is the graveyard of love, so how will the sex life after marriage change? The survey of Gu Yu data shows that after marriage, sex life may really be buried by marriage.
In most cases, getting married will make sex less, especially for women. 60.1% of men and 66.3% of women have less frequent sex after marriage.
The "seven-year itch" really exists, and may even come earlier. Of all marital states, 5-7 years after marriage, sexual needs are satisfied to a minimum, and the proportion of people who think sex is a "routine" is the highest.
Sex in marriage contains more responsibilities, expectations, anxieties and dissatisfaction than before marriage. I don't want to pass on the generations, the pressure of work is high, the physical skills are declining, and there is a lack of space to get along alone... Any single reason can move both spouses to the door of asceticism. Love to the depths of sexual coldness, has become a true portrayal of many old husbands and wives.
However, after the baptism of time, even the "grave" will blossom flowers, and the importance of sexual life will increasingly give way and love.
Of all the marriage periods, the percentage of people who have been married for more than 10 years believe "love precedes sex" is highest at 76.7%.
4. Children are the big "killers" of sex life
Our survey shows that among all the reasons for the reduction of sexual demand after marriage, "children" have surpassed "mental state", "physical state", "partnership", etc., and become the "number one killer" of sexual life.
During pregnancy, to avoid sex, after childbirth, women may experience out of shape, resulting in unconfidence in their attractiveness.
Surveys also show that the more children there are, the lower the desire for sex and the less emotional communication there is during sex. Every child is born, and it may be making sexless marriage closer and closer.
5. Sex in the eyes of adult post-00s
In 2020, the first batch of post-00s born will be 20 years old. How many of the post-00s over the age of 18 have already had sexual experience? Are they more open to sexual expression than their predecessors?
The survey shows that 80.5% of adult post-00s have already had sex, and 15% of them have sex once a day (health care).
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The younger body is filled with more exuberant sexual demand. More than 40% of adult post-00s have an ideal sex life frequency of three or four times a week, and the ideal sex time is more than 30 minutes, both of which are higher than other ages.
In terms of sexual expression, the degree of openness after 00 is indeed higher. 44.1% of post-00s adults think that it is possible to talk about sex after determining a relationship, while other age groups are more likely to think that it is necessary to wait until after the "first time".
In addition, as the "indigenous" of the Internet age, the proportion of adult post-00s sexual fantasies who are idols and Internet celebrities is also significantly higher than that of other age groups.
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In our investigation, we also found several interesting facts. The first is a statistic about masturbation. 22.8% of men and 13.1% of women currently rely on masturbation to meet sexual needs.
Masturbation is really just a way for a person to use his body and settle his lust, and this is the same for men and women.
Surprisingly, when single, many people mainly rely on masturbation to satisfy themselves, and it may still be the same after marriage. Nearly 60% of people who have never been in a relationship need to meet their sexual needs through masturbation. In the marriage relationship, this proportion is still 15.5%, of which the proportion of marriage for 3 to 5 years is the highest (17.8%).
In Gu Yu Data's 2019 survey, 56.1% of people in Guizhou Province had sex every week, which ranked first in all regions, and this year... In the ranking of sex frequency, the people of Guizhou once again topped the list.
Three major physical temptations: the chest in the eyes of men (70.1%), the "private parts" in the eyes of men, and the "private parts" (50.9%) in the eyes of women (57.2%). These three received the highest votes of any body part that triggered sexual fantasies.
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Sex is still everyone's most secret story. From these conclusions about sex and love, it seems that we can blur the outline of a generation's sex life.
Although the impact of various objective realities on sexual satisfaction exists, the expression and exploration of sex seems to be not so sufficient, and in marriage, some "less sexy things" also make sex discolored.
However, the young new generation still maintains their passion and passion for sex. Everyone has the right to pursue, choose and reject and live a life that is not depressed. I hope that the topic of sex and love will be more rational and speculative.
I hope that everyone can be relaxed in front of sex and enjoy the beauty given by the times.
May everyone who sees here, through the fog of sex, reach the other shore of love.