Perfect and imperfect

On the Shenyang boy jumping into the sea

Recently, the Internet has been swept away by an incident, so that whenever I open the phone, I can always "smell" the burning smell of the phone chip.

After my many investigations, I finally understood the ins and outs of the matter, the cause was like this: this nine-year-old boy, because he and his good friend "broke up", so they started to fight, and the end was that this little boy was reprimanded by the teacher. When he returned home, his mother reprimanded him again, and "viciously" threatened him: "If you don't study well (in fact, his grades themselves are countdown in the class), go out and pick up the rags!!! "As a result, the little boy was angry, but directly grabbed the door and went out (please note that he was only a nine-year-old boy), as a result, his mother did not go out with him, originally thought that he would come back in a moment, as a result, it was gone, the whole city looked for the boy, the circle of friends brushed the screen, the unfortunate thing happened, a day later, near the boy's house, the boy's body was salvaged...

Looking back at the process of the whole incident, I always think that the cause of the mistake is in the child's mother, hoping that the child will become a dragon, hoping that the daughter will become a phoenix, the starting point is good, and I hope that the child can be excellent, which is beyond reproach.

But when the child has appeared "flawed", instead of gladly accepting, but excessively accusing and critical, this leads to tragedy.

Therefore, parents, learn to accept their children's imperfections, and learn to enjoy this "imperfection", perhaps the most perfect life.