I am a cashier at the front desk of the hotel and have only been working in the hotel for half a year. In these six months, I saw the ugliness between sex and love.
In my previous understanding, in addition to special transactions, only couples would come to open a house, because of their ignorance, they also made a lot of jokes.
Once a pair of men and women about 40 years old came to open the room, our hotel is near the train station, they said: open an hour room, wait outside for the car is too hot, all wait for sleepy, rest for a while to the time to go. I asked: What time is the car? Where are we going? The man thought for a moment and said: There are still more than 2 hours, not far to go. Because our hotel has a wake-up service, I politely asked: Do I need to call you in time? The man hurriedly said: No, no. After entering their identity information, they went back to their room. Another front desk sister said to me: How can you be so naïve, they are not waiting for the car when you see them. I also said with a straight face: I was waiting for the car, it was too hot outside, come in and rest for a while. The front desk sister smiled deeply at me. Afterwards, various indications confirmed that they were not really a couple. It seems that I have a lot of words!
Another time a middle-aged woman and a 20-year-old boy came to open a room, and I played my god judgment again, and it was mother and son at a glance, because it was summer, and there were fewer clothes, so I casually asked: How many rooms? I still think in my heart that it is inconvenient for the two of them to live together. The middle-aged woman looked up at me violently, and the front desk sister immediately took my place and immediately opened a large bed room to check in. I also asked: What's wrong with me, am I not afraid that it is inconvenient for the two of you to live together? I don't say that everyone understands what happened later!
With my working hours, the accumulation of experience, the jokes that appear are less and less, but I have subverted my original cognition, it turns out that I think that love is from one to the end, and love is full of your feelings. Now my definition of love is also becoming more and more blurred. I rarely see the existence of love here, and more often I see betrayal. What we see here is more sex, regardless of age, regardless of looks, regardless of relationship and love. What I see when I see a man constantly changing girlfriends in and out of our hotel, when I see a woman and different men coming to open a room, what I see is the ugliness of sex.
The occurrence of sex should be the involuntary love when the love is strong, it should be the beginning of the commitment to both parties, but today we see a physiological catharsis, a form of self-indulgence.
There is a boy who comes to live with his girlfriend for two days a week and has never changed his girlfriend, I guess this is a beautiful love! Because I often come, occasionally talk a few times, once I asked him: What are your plans for the future? He said: After the New Year, I will go to the south to break in. With your girlfriend? He actually said: She will not go, then we will break up, where I will look for it. I don't know if his girlfriend knows what he thinks. If middle-aged people betray marriage because of the fatigue of life and the boredom of their lovers, then what kind of mentality are they for young people who are not yet married?
Where is the love after sex? What is the responsibility after sex?
But I still believe that love is beautiful, don't let indifferent sex tarnish to, the rest of your life is short, find a person you love and love you to spend the storm together, share the warmth!